Bonding and Affection
Bonding & Affection
Bonding is a two way process where both you and your baby will
become tuned in to each other.
It is not always automatic and many women say it takes time to
fall in love with their babies - especially first babies.
The process of bathing, feeding, cuddling, changing and showing
off your baby will bring you closer.
Things that will promote good bonding
· Spending uninterrupted time with your baby soon after
birth.
· Feeding your baby soon after birth.
· Being with your baby as much as possible in the first few days
after the birth.
· Being rested and relaxed in the first days.
· Being in comfortable surroundings.
When your baby first arrives
The first moments should be spent concentrating on your baby and
getting to know him or her and vice versa. Let the baby hear your
voice, see your face and smell you.
Your partner should be given the baby within half an hour of the
birth, so they can bond with the baby as deeply and quickly as you
do. If it is possible, clamping and cutting the baby's cord is a
wonderful and significant moment and gives your partner a chance to
be a part of bringing the baby into the world.