BD not so easy - this is overshare

i'm having probs reading your post andi c......is the end of each line cut off by the banner on the side of the page for everyone or just me?

i think i have the jist of it anyway....i've pm'd you about this

i was talking to everyone about the banners but andi c about the pm

it's not over-hanging now on that i've come back to this thread....weird!   i'll go re-read the first post now

Yeah I have always heard that sensitivity is less when circumcised. I'm not sure about the stretching thing, do you mean pulling it back to clean? Cos if so that actually isn't necessary and in some cases the foreskin cannot be pulled back and thats perfectly normal. Does it hurt for him to have sex? I'm assuming not as he can masturbate but if so there may be a medical problem.
DH isn't cut and I justed asked him about stretching and he had no idea what I was going on about. We have never had the problems you are describing.
As for getting pg you could lay with your legs up the wall for 10mins after that should help the little sperms on their way

It's cut off for me too Vanessa.

My Dr told me the same as the others r.e. circumcision. Men who are cut often lose sensitivity, rather than men who are intact.
Is your hubby sore because he didn't draw his foreskin back as a child? Like does it hurt for him to move it back now? Maybe the movement of having sex is making it uncomfortable for him?
If that's the case maybe he needs to see a Dr about it.
Sorry if I'm on completely the wrong track here! Just throwing out ideas that sprang to mind

I think the pillow idea is a good one, apparently doing pelvic floor exercises with the cum in you is a good way to draw the sperm up as well. (just make sure you're pulling up not pushing out)

Good luck with your TTC Andi!

Thank you so much everyone for you responses. I think we may be onto something with his forskin being too tight, his head has never every popped out (which I hear is usual). His head (what we can get access to lol) is very very sensitive. And he is really really freaked about the idea of stretching the skin back because it does hurt. It does get a little tender during sex too so I think I will talk to him about going and seeing the Doc. He wont mind at all if I say I was "chatting to the girls", especially if I follow it up with "and they spoke to the DH's" and so forth. I feel so much better about this now and now that someone elses has suggested I put my legs up in the air after being on top I wont feel so silly for doing a headstand the first time *grin*

Your all wonderful and your help and support is greatly appreciated.

Andi_C wrote: I feel so much better about this now and now that someone elses has suggested I put my legs up in the air after being on top I wont feel so silly for doing a headstand the first time *grin* Your all wonderful and your help and support is greatly appreciated.

lol, i had my legs up the wall when i concieved one of my daughters after trying for ages! lol.... all the best

I have this wonderful image of spy camera's looking into the bedrooms of women ttc and just seeing us all laying on the bed with our legs up the wall and some rather confused looking partners rofl

When you talk about having it "snipped" are we talking a full circumsition here or just a little snip? I think my DH would strangle any Dr who suggested he got cut, he's very proud of his hood lol. Good luck though Andi, I've done the headstand after being on top the first time we decided to actively try and it just resulted in us both falling all over the place laughing our asses off. I'd stick with the personal massage device and a little electric shock of your own to suck it all up, that's my preferred method anyway.

May I just say....ooooooooouch!

I spoke to DH about all of this and his response was to bury his face in my ample bosom and refise to come out until I stopped talking putting is penis and sharp pointy things in the same centance I'm afraid I had to tease hin a little more at that point and pulled out the kitchen scissors, I'm so cruel, lol. So I think we shall be sticking with the hips up and standing on my head thing for now.