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Jessaroo 
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 Posted: 28 February 2015 at 10:48pm |
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Wellybaby86 that BD sounds good are you following SMEP? Day after positive OPK is where it's at ;)
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 7:27am |
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Wellybaby the timing is not off at all sounds bang on to me :-)
CD 1 for me today, back to the drawing board
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Sageandthyme155145
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 8:02am |
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Gah CD2 for me here. Starting to get a bit frustrated, and I'm thinking of taking the month off as I'm not overly keen on a christmas baby as a friend has one and the poor kid seems to miss out a bit with party's etc.
Good luck everyone!
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 8:25am |
Sorry Kumeroa and Sageandthyme. Sageandthyme, my DD is a December baby and she doesn't miss out. I am sure if you didn't want your child missing out it wouldn't  Its important to us that she doesn't get joint gifts and each occasion is separate.
Welcome Jeesaroo and SamanthaPeek. Look forward to more ttcers Jeesaroo if you want to know if you are ovulating charting would be a great way to do that. You can get positive OPKs and still not ovulate, however charting will pick up ovualtion. You both check out the charting thread and ask questions and get a feel about how to do it 
Well 12dpo for me today. Haven't had my usual pre af headaches yet, but still time for that and my temps are lowering so not feeling too confident.
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 9:28am |
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Thanks Kazper, that's a very good point, it helps :) DH said we shouldn't worry about and just see what happens, which is what I needed to hear I think. Fingers crossed for you, there's still a chance! x
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 10:06am |
Your DH is right, just see how you go. At the end of the day I bet you would be so happy to have a baby rather than worry about timing. I am the same. I would rather not have two babies in December, but if next month is my month that its my month I guess. I will be happy to just have a baby
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 12:25pm |
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Yes of course, I would be super happy to be having a baby :) I think I was letting it mess with my head a bit and not seeing the big picture. Thanks for helping me see it clearly :) x
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 1:48pm |
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Sageandthyme - my sister's daughter was born on the 28th Dec. We always have her birthday party the first weekend on Dec so that her friends are around and not on holiday :) My hubby was born 20th Dec, but he's always been happy too (even though his family did combine with Christmas a lot - now he combines with mine in Nov :)
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M/C 2012, clomid 2013, IVM 2014, IVF 2015, M/C 2015
2016 FET#1- BFP - MMC - Emergency D&C
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 8:04pm |
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I'm the 21st of dec. I love it
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 8:47pm |
Its also great for school age children birthdays in the holidays are cool. No one wants to go to school on their birthday lol. I found it was great having DD start school at the beginning of this year to. She gets a whole year to learn everything rather than half a year or a few months before moving up
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 9:49pm |
Today's List Sunday 1st March      
 Sageandthyme - CD2
Kumeroa - CD1
Avidkeo - CD14
_Soda_ - CD24
    Wellybaby - 2DPO Hanger - 9DPO Bubs2014 - 9DPO Kazper - 12DPO *Sara* - 12DPO Oxy - 12DPO KP06 - 12DPO   xox WARMEST CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BFPS LADIES xoxLease243  Mrs Impatient SmileClapStar Leishamaree Spitfire19 DinoMum Pandy33 Dot2012 ShannonMac Pink.lolly KelzF09 Blondie23 Vanz-r x2 Smoo Hazelnut Willow mummystheword MotherLtd Bubno1 Tara13 Gabc1 Reddahlia MrsT2013 Tuquel Animax Hidihils Charly28 Little Dragon n00b_mum misssara Mac19 Enelra Seaview Binklemouse DJKaf LiBi Startingover34 mrsbaker86 Apfel84 Talz BlueTardis Chelseaquinn miss_bling wimble Pepi-bebe Kazzanz05 Blest Keziah84 ShannonMac NZVeggie Twinkle Toes Chandy MrsRH Bobsta Billy22 Sarzy Nellenium EXPECTED DUE DATES:  Startingover34  mrsbaker86 Apfel84 Talz  BlueTardis Chelseaquinn miss_bling wimble Kazzanz05  Pepi-bebe NZVeggie  Blest Keziah84 ShannonMac  Millysmum  Twinkle Toes  Chandy MrsRH Bobsta Billy22 Sarzy Nellenium       Ladies please announce your arrivals here. We can't wait to hear about the safe and happy arrival of your precious and long awaited babies xox  Congratulations from us and many happy days to you and your bundle  Kumeroa - girl 14/1/2014 4.9 kg Baby V - boy 26/2/2014 3.5 kg Southkiwi - boy 25/3/2014 3.6 kg avidkeo - girl 22/4/2014 Pitter patter - boy 14/5/2014 8lb8oz Tan - boy 16/5/2014 3.4 kg Jessaroo - boy Emrick 13/7/14 9lb 4 Lease243 - Zoe Anne 20/07/2014 Dunson33 - Scarlett Jean 20/07/14 MrsImpatient - girl 20/08/14 3.2kgs Leishamaree - boy Levi 27/08/14 9lb 6oz animaxnz - Harley 18/11/2014 2.6kg   To all our beautiful ladies who have experienced loss our  hearts go out to you. May you find solace here, hugs xox Redtulip  Storm11 x8 NzVeggie x3 Tan73 Westisbest a.girl x4 Alittleloopy Jessaroo Epictraveller Blondie23 Serenity2013 Dunson33 miss_bling Lease243 Leishamaree Oxy x2 fingersxd4#2 x3 ShannonMac x2 Talz Seaview Bubs2014 Phoofy heavenly.talker Soda *Sara* x2 Pepi-bebe x2 Nellennium x3 Kazper
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Posted: 01 March 2015 at 9:52pm |
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Anyone who wants to be added to the list just post in here, just make sure you say what day of your cycle you are on.
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 8:38am |
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I always had my parties on the first week of dec
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 10:33am |
So I just need to have a vent ladies. This last fortnight for me has been rough. First I had to go see sick family for a few days and so was away from DH. Managed a BD on CD13 (PM) then I was away again from him until CD17 (where we had another BD in the AM). Got a +OPK on CD16 so fingers crossed the CD17 BD has worked. Then I said we really need to do it again either CD18 (PM) or CD19(AM). Neither of which happened due to DH being tired/not feeling it. Seriously?? Why the fk does he think I am timing this sht??? So disappointed. Then while feeling miserable all day yesterday, I see a FB pg announcement (unexpected) didnt even know they had been trying. This Sat I have to see a 6 month pg friend and at the second event I was away at - one of the family had her baby 5 weeks early and there were two pg ppl too! AHHHH am I just noticing all this sht more now? So currently in the 2ww, but really not feeling very hopeful at all. Like really DH - yes I don't always like timed BD but YOU HAVE TO BE IN TO WIN yeah? Like every time i try to plan it, and it doesnt happen, it leaves me thinking "oh what if that time something had happened?" Every time we dont do it, feels like a missed opportunity. I had a huge cry in the shower on Sun morn but still felt all miserable and sh*tty all day. DH knows I was quiet and said I know your angry at me. He just doesnt "get it" aye. Not angry, but sad and disappointed. No hope for this cycle at all. Too bad buddy, if this cycle doesn't work we are off to get your swimmers tested. HA!  Anyone else had any similar situation?
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 10:42am |
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On a more pos note, how are you doing Oxy and KP06? Getting close to testin time for yoU!!
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 11:04am |
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Wellybaby I know how you feel, It is hard to get my partner in the mood at times. I always think that is another month wasted when we don't do it.
Well as for me I'm getting Af cramps so pretty sure I'm out and also my negative test this morning.
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 11:20am |
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Ha positive note, I would be highly highly surprised if anything happened this month or even any other month naturally, apparently we have barely enough good quality sperm that make it worth doing IUI let alone it happening naturally,
Wellybaby that's pretty normal, it's hard, really hard, people don't understand what sort of toll this all takes on your relationship,
I've had awkward sex, sex that wasn't enjoyable etc, been pissed off because I've felt like I've wasted another month, been angry at DP for not wanting it even though I wasn't really in the mood either, then at the same time he has questioned whether I actually wanted it at the other times of the month,
The best thing you can do is talk about it all, I can so easily see how TTC can ruin peoples relationships, make sure you two go and do fun things together even last night we just spent a couple of hours together at the back of the yard sorting it out and burning some dead wood and putting compost around our fruit trees,
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 11:22am |
Today's List Monday 2nd March
Kumeroa - CD2
Sageandthyme - CD3
Avidkeo - CD15
_Soda_ - CD25
Wellybaby - 3DPO Hanger - 10DPO Bubs2014 - 10DPO Kazper - 13DPO *Sara* - 13DPO Oxy - 13DPO KP06 - 13DPO xox WARMEST CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BFPS LADIES xoxLease243 Mrs Impatient SmileClapStar Leishamaree Spitfire19 DinoMum Pandy33 Dot2012 ShannonMac Pink.lolly KelzF09 Blondie23 Vanz-r x2 Smoo Hazelnut Willow mummystheword MotherLtd Bubno1 Tara13 Gabc1 Reddahlia MrsT2013 Tuquel Animax Hidihils Charly28 Little Dragon n00b_mum misssara Mac19 Enelra Seaview Binklemouse DJKaf LiBi Startingover34 mrsbaker86 Apfel84 Talz BlueTardis Chelseaquinn miss_bling wimble Pepi-bebe Kazzanz05 Blest Keziah84 ShannonMac NZVeggie Twinkle Toes Chandy MrsRH Bobsta Billy22 Sarzy Nellenium EXPECTED DUE DATES: Startingover34 mrsbaker86 Apfel84 Talz BlueTardis Chelseaquinn miss_bling wimble Kazzanz05 Pepi-bebe NZVeggie Blest Keziah84 ShannonMac Millysmum Twinkle Toes Chandy MrsRH Bobsta Billy22 Sarzy Nellenium Ladies please announce your arrivals here. We can't wait to hear about the safe and happy arrival of your precious and long awaited babies xox Congratulations from us and many happy days to you and your bundle Kumeroa - girl 14/1/2014 4.9 kg Baby V - boy 26/2/2014 3.5 kg Southkiwi - boy 25/3/2014 3.6 kg avidkeo - girl 22/4/2014 Pitter patter - boy 14/5/2014 8lb8oz Tan - boy 16/5/2014 3.4 kg Jessaroo - boy Emrick 13/7/14 9lb 4 Lease243 - Zoe Anne 20/07/2014 Dunson33 - Scarlett Jean 20/07/14 MrsImpatient - girl 20/08/14 3.2kgs Leishamaree - boy Levi 27/08/14 9lb 6oz animaxnz - Harley 18/11/2014 2.6kg To all our beautiful ladies who have experienced loss our hearts go out to you. May you find solace here, hugs xox Redtulip Storm11 x8 NzVeggie x3 Tan73 Westisbest a.girl x4 Alittleloopy Jessaroo Epictraveller Blondie23 Serenity2013 Dunson33 miss_bling Lease243 Leishamaree Oxy x2 fingersxd4#2 x3 ShannonMac x2 Talz Seaview Bubs2014 Phoofy heavenly.talker Soda *Sara* x2 Pepi-bebe x2 Nellennium x3 Kazper
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 11:33am |
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Hugs Wellybaby. I totally get that. We have definitely had rough months and times of thinking we wasted a month. I think KP06 nailed it. It is normal. TTC is very stressful after you have been trying for a while. I cringe when people just start TTC and they think its easy and they enjoy it so much blah blah blah. Yeh well give it some time, because its near impossible to still be that enthusiastic when you have been trying for so long.
I told DH last night we are out this month now I am spotting and cramping. He is gutted. I feel terrible he has to try put it to the back of his head and do the deed anyway. I think the pressure is getting all a little too much, but there isn't much we can do about that.
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Posted: 02 March 2015 at 12:17pm |
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How long have you been trying for Kazper? sounds crappy alright, surely someone will be getting some good news this month though?
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