TTC after miscarriage/loss

Oh sara im so sorry. Hugs hun and yes third times a charm! And thinking of storm too xx hope you are going ok.
Had my f+ appt yesterday, went really well! Turns out hubbys SA results arent bad at all, just seem that way because of the conditions of the test (they took almost 2 hrs to test it so of course there will be heaps of dead swimmers by then!) For me ive had my metformin dose increased, and trying letrozole instead of clomid to see what happens from my next cycle, or the one after that if af comes over christmas when they are shut as ill need a fully monitored cycle. Also qualify for public ivf already so on that list as of now which is a 9-12 mth wait...so it all works out good really, by the time I start letrozole itll be 7-10 mths before ivf so good timing to get lots of trying in and hopefully not need ivf. Feeling v positive and peaceful about everything whuch is a nice headspace to be in. Nice that its all really out of my hands and we know whats happening. Have also discussed with dh and well go as far as funded ivf then draw our line in the sand and move on. Gotta know theres an end point for me..actually comforting to know this journey wont be forever, whatever the outcome. But told hubby he better pray for twins as this is my last pregnancy lol.aint doing this again ever!

Update - 12 weeks scan went perfectly! By my doctors dates I should have been 11w5d. Bub still measuring ahead at 12w2d!!! All the right bits were there and came back as low risk based on scan alone (I haven't got blood results yet)!

It has been quiet in here. I assume that everyone is busy with their lives which is good!!!

I am ticking along. Tomorrow is a massive milestone.... the start of the second trimester for me!!!! Can't believe it..... its surreal.
Last week I am definitely starting to show. At the moment it still mostly looks like a fat gut but I can't suck it in anymore and its there when I'm lying down now too. People are starting to look sideways and get suspicious but noone is game to ask yet. Don't think it will be long before that cat is out of the bag!!! I am not actively telling people at work (it's a mssive gossipy workplace) but if people ask or guess then I'm no longer denying it either!

Oh sarzy, sorry to hear :-( I think the worst part of af turning up or getting a bfn is that it's coupled with the pmt hormones and makes it all so much harder. So cruel. Maybe a wee break from it will help you sort things out in your head. It's really helped me a few times.

Nzveg... 2nd trimester! !!!! Wahoo! I'm so happy for you!

HUGS Sarzy! this time of year is so hard huh.. i should be spending Christmas with a newborn and my " complete"  family.. but im still waiting too... its hard work being all upbeat when everyone else is celebrating but you wont be getting what you really want for Christmas this year, and everything else seems so trivial and materialistic sometimes huh... Its ok, we get ya xxx hope you do feel the festive season though and get to spend time with family and friends, doing things that make you happy xxx

I'm so sorry some of you are having a hard time. I definitely remember feeling similarly this time last year. I had just had my second miscarriage at the beginning of december and like you Sara I was surrounded by family with babies and pregnancies that were close to where I 'should have been'. I made it through but it wasn't easy.

I can definitely sympathise with you all. I hope you all manage to enjoy your holidays despite the TTC difficulties! Thinking of you all.

Well done Sara for holding the bubbas! 

Yay soda! Good luck :-)

yes Merry Christmas wonderful ladies!! its been a tough year for so many of us, but this year is almost over which means a fresh new year- which WILL be our year!  hang in there Ladies i cant wait to see all those 2015 miracles arriving! 

Welcome kiwilifestyle! Sorry this journey has been such a rough one for you. And especially this holiday season. Fingers crossed the new year