Legal Surrogacy and Egg Donation

Hello there mommies to be!

I dropped in to tell you my story of surrogacy travel. I have never thought I would be so happy, two years ago I had no will to continue my life, because I had 5 miscarriages, two of them were after 12 week... no doctor knew why exactly it happened, I was told that "it happens". It was not IVF, but a natural pregnancy. Now I am thinking to have my second child Yes, I am a mother now,I traveled to Georgia, to In Vitro Fertility Clinic, found it through Placidway Medical Tourism and had a surrogacy program there.Now my little girl Lilly is 6 months old, healthy and cute. Now I am wondering if somebody is visiting the same clinic? I would be so exited to share my second surrogacy cycle. Me and my husband are booking the tickets for August for the first visit in the cycle, so if you like to know more, please ask.

Hi, thanks for your feedback. But my sister flew to Ukraine, she and her husband decided on a surrogate motherhood. My brother's husband lives there and he helped them with the search for a clinic. My sister had many unsuccessful IVF attempts. And they also decided to use donor sperm. Because they no longer had the strength to wait, and donor sperm provided them with a positive result of IVF with a surrogate motherhood. They did not seek a surrogate mother on their own. When they arrived in biotexcom they were offered to choose a mother from the base of the clinic. Interviews and medical examinations have already been conducted with women who are represented in this database. Those. they just had to decide. The fact is that at first they wanted to look for a mother on their own. But the doctors dissuaded them, because to verify the authenticity of documents that are issued in another country is very difficult. And it would be necessary to check not only documents proving the identity, but also medical documents, and also to check the person. And besides, you need to have information about the family of the mother, her husband, and children. My sister was looking for a surrogate mother who was divorced. Because she was afraid of any influence on the surrogate mother. And besides, they wanted her to move in with them during pregnancy. Or rather, not to their house, but to the house that was nearby, they rented an apartment there for her. And the husband could be an obstacle, after all who will release the wife for a year to other country.My sister was supported by all friends and family, but her husband's parents did not support their choice. They tried in every way to get rid of them from it. They believed that they were only wasting money, they persuaded them to give up and live only together. But after unsuccessful IVF my sister had several nervous breakdowns. By the way, because they used donor sperm, they generally refused to recognize him as their grandson. And in my opinion, this is wrong, because the son now does not communicate with them. I think our children need to be supported, even if you do not quite agree with his choice. And anyway, they never loved my sister. But my sister's husband and sister are now calm and they do not pay attention to convictions. Therefore, I advise you not to take into account the views of others. Now many people are against surrogate motherhood. And others on the contrary support people who have no other choice. Surrogate motherhood requires monetary investment, but it depends on the country. In Ukraine it is not so expensive as in America or Russia. Another surrogate motherhood is allowed in India. But unfortunately, I do not know anything about the quality of medicine in India. In Ukraine they liked everything, a clinic of European level, professional doctors, new equipment. What else can I add is inexpensive flights. And also there are no age restrictions that exist in Europe.

Hi. We were thinking of Georgia when we were looking for reproduction center. My husband travels a lot, so he had a chance to visit medical centers in different countries. We wanted to make sure that our baby will be born in a safe place. My mother was against the surrogacy. She said that it is unnatural and dangerous for the baby. I don't think so because we have a healthy 7 months old boy and we love him so much. We were TTC for 6 years. I was pregnant for 3 times, but miscarried every time. So, I know how hard it is. I wasn't ready to lose one more baby. As for me surrogacy is absolutely safe and natural procedure. I saw how my baby was born. He was born in a natural way without extra surgery. The only problem is that he was born by the outside woman. But I can live with this. As my husband and me are mentioned as his biological parents, he will never find out who gave birth to him.
I met several couples from America, which also came to BioTexCom to get help. You know, we became good friends. After coming back home we decided to meet as often as possible. Some of them live in our city, so we walk with our babies together. It is such a fun to discuss all those kids troubles. They are growing up so fast. I can say that I am ready to go for one more baby. But my husband said that we should wait a couple of years. First of all, the surrogacy is not cheap at all. So we need to collect some money. Secondly, our son is so small. He needs all our attention. I agreed, so we will wait. But I'm happy that we have a chance to become parents as many times as we want thanks to the surrogacy.

Hello OP! Thank you for sharing this story with us. I'm sure it will give strength and hope to many girls here. This story definitely will make everyone to think about their TTC. We shouldn't waste time. Sometimes it seems there is no way out and we let depression take over, ruining our relationships. All we need is just seat and talk with our other half and decide what to do next. We are using European clinic. Our sm is pregnant and we'll go for our first ultrasound check in a week. I'm so excited! Can't wait to see a scan) I can't believe we'll have our baby in a few months. I wish all of you the best with your journeys!

Regarding surrogacy, I found a Ukrainian law translated into English. I advise anyone interested to read it. https://www.mother-surrogate.com/pdf/surrogate_motherhood_law.pdf