Baby Loss Awareness Week (BLAW)
"Grief, for me, is a mixture of
heartache, loneliness and desperate confusion washing over me, in
waves of various heights, since the deaths of our babies, Isabel,
Phoebe and Daniel. Everyday their father and I talk of them and
love them. They were not with us for a great amount of time but
they will always be our children. There are no time restrictions to
grieving. All bereaved parents and families need
compassionate care at the
time of their precious baby's birth and continued support after
their death.
Baby Loss & grief are different for everyone. I have found,
through going to Sands support groups, that my emotions are not
entirely unique. With understanding and support I have begun to
learn to live with my grief.
Feeling that our babies are remembered is vital. A simple way to
help parents do this can be to say baby's name aloud. In general,
avoiding mentioning a baby who has died is not protecting the
parents from further
pain; quite the opposite. Baby Loss Awareness Week is a time to
remember all babies who have died, their parents, families and
those who provide continued support for them."
- Claire Wright, Co-ordinator Sands Auckland Central Inc
Baby Loss Awareness Week 9th
- 15th October
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day October 15th
International Baby Loss Awareness Week provides the opportunity for
parents and families around New Zealand to come together and
remember the lives of their babies who have died. We acknowledge
the lives and deaths of all babies, no matter what their gestation,
length of life or how they died. It is also a chance to highlight
the work done by Sands around New Zealand.
The aims for the week are:
*To promote 15th October as National Baby Loss Awareness
Day
*To promote the annual Global Wave of Light and other events or
services where parents can publicly acknowledge their babies
*To raise awareness and increase understanding of the impact of
baby loss amongst the wider public
Wristbands - saying 'Sands - A Little Life, Not A
Little Loss' and Ribbon Pins with blue & pink footprints are
available through Sands Auckland Central. Please call or email for
details.
Events - Please visit our national website for details
www.sands.org.nz
We are a voluntary organisation and operate through grants and
donations. We greatly appreciate any gesture of support. If you
would like to make a donation please contact us (details
below).
Contact details:-
Sands Auckland Central Ph: 0508 SANDSA - 0508 72 63
72
Sands Auckland Central Co-ordinator, Claire: email clairewright@xtra.co.nz
Sands Auckland Central Postal Address: P O Box 14 306
Panmure Auckland
National Website for further information and contact
details of groups nationwide www.sands.org.nz