OHbaby! Forums : Nervous! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 04 Apr 2026 19:44:45 +0000 Thu, 23 Aug 2007 15:25:52 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=10063 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Nervous! : Well (speaking for myself here)...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201832&title=nervous#201832 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 23 August 2007 at 3:25pm

Well (speaking for myself here) I'm mostly ok but I'm also a little bit anxious because I know it's a hard job to look for in Manawatu but we both don't feel it's time to leave (yet?).]]> Thu, 23 Aug 2007 15:25:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201832&title=nervous#201832 <![CDATA[Nervous! : At least now you know whats going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201825&title=nervous#201825 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 10063
Posted: 23 August 2007 at 3:18pm

At least now you know whats going on and hopefully you will find a job thats perfect for you guys]]> Thu, 23 Aug 2007 15:18:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201825&title=nervous#201825 <![CDATA[Nervous! : What a great way for them and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201776&title=nervous#201776 Author: Andie
Subject: 10063
Posted: 23 August 2007 at 2:37pm

What a great way for them and for you two to handle such bad news!  Like everyone else has said - sorry you've had to say 'bye' to that job security, and I'm sure that a more suitable job will appear in time.  That can't have been a nice meeting to sit though, even though they were nice about it.  How are you two feeling about it today?  I'll be praying for a good job arriving soon]]> Thu, 23 Aug 2007 14:37:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201776&title=nervous#201776 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Good luck with finding your next...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201442&title=nervous#201442 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:43pm

Good luck with finding your next journey, well done to your current bosses they can obviously see your potential and lucky they are willing to give you up to someone else!]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 21:43:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201442&title=nervous#201442 <![CDATA[Nervous! : good luck with the new job search,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201322&title=nervous#201322 Author: lizzle
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 7:32pm

good luck with the new job search, but by the sounds of it, you shouldn't need it!]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 19:32:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201322&title=nervous#201322 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Wow! Thanks, all, for your support. I&#039;m...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201313&title=nervous#201313 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 7:18pm

Wow! Thanks, all, for your support.

I'm a bit blown away actually by all the comments you guys have made.
]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 19:18:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201313&title=nervous#201313 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Wow what awesome bosses. sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201230&title=nervous#201230 Author: Redbedrock
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 5:08pm

Wow what awesome bosses. sorry it's not better news but it sounds like they are being really positive about his time at the company. It just means that there is something out there which is the right job for all of you and this role just wasn't it. I'm a great believer in things happening the way they are meant to be, that there is a reason around the cornor
Take care, enjoy your extra time together with the girls
i didn't see this post til just now]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 17:08:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201230&title=nervous#201230 <![CDATA[Nervous! : busymum wrote:Ginger you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201224&title=nervous#201224 Author: AnnC
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 4:51pm

Originally posted by busymum busymum wrote:

Ginger you're right on the button there (and not just about the thread being dodgy lol). DH has been trying so hard to fill the rather demanding role he has, and he's been working 8.30 - 6.00 or sometimes later, with not much of a break at lunch either. So I've told him hey now you can enjoy working there without pushing yourself so much (but not un-working either), work 8.30-5.30 and actually come home for dinner and see his kids before they get tucked in at night (which is hit and miss at the moment, and something he's been frustrated about).


its awful when they can't fit their work load into the hours they are paid for. DH will be happy he will get to come home to you and the girls at a decent hour.

Although my Dh is in IT and thats the way of the jobs for most. He has just started a new job closer to home and not so demanding so he will see rhyley before he goes to bed as alot of nights he wasn't.

Good luck on the job front and at least now he can concentrate on getting a job he wants and suits him better. ]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 16:51:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201224&title=nervous#201224 <![CDATA[Nervous! : This has been the most of the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201167&title=nervous#201167 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 3:54pm

This has been the most of the stress Emma. Even though he now needs to look for another job, in some ways I think he is feeling a bit relieved that he no longer has to try to fit into this job.]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 15:54:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201167&title=nervous#201167 <![CDATA[Nervous! : So after all of that, I didn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201149&title=nervous#201149 Author: Maya
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 3:40pm

So after all of that, I didn't even reply . Anyways, what I was trying to say before OHbaby! rudely interrupted me was that it sounds like Nat's employers are really impressed with him, otherwise they wouldn't be investing so much time and effort into finding him a new more sutable job. And I get the feeling that Nat's been awful stressed lately, so this could work out to be a blessing if it means he can find something more suited to him, and that allows him a wee bit more time with the girls.]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 15:40:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201149&title=nervous#201149 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Looks like they handled the sitution...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201121&title=nervous#201121 Author: Guests
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 3:15pm

Looks like they handled the sitution much better than alot of places would!

I am sure the right thing will come along and be bigger and better for Chovy!
Good luck with everything!

]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 15:15:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201121&title=nervous#201121 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Ginger you&#039;re right on the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201113&title=nervous#201113 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 3:02pm

Ginger you're right on the button there (and not just about the thread being dodgy lol). DH has been trying so hard to fill the rather demanding role he has, and he's been working 8.30 - 6.00 or sometimes later, with not much of a break at lunch either. So I've told him hey now you can enjoy working there without pushing yourself so much (but not un-working either), work 8.30-5.30 and actually come home for dinner and see his kids before they get tucked in at night (which is hit and miss at the moment, and something he's been frustrated about). ]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 15:02:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201113&title=nervous#201113 <![CDATA[Nervous! : I think its sounds like everyone...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201107&title=nervous#201107 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:55pm

I think its sounds like everyone (them and you guys) have handled it really well. Its obviously disapointing, but good to stay positive and think of it as a stepping stone to something better.

Am sure that the perfect role is out there somewhere for you!!

]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:55:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201107&title=nervous#201107 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Wow, good luck with your job hunting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201105&title=nervous#201105 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:54pm

Wow, good luck with your job hunting hope it goes quickly and that you get the position that is gonna suit you more.]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:54:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201105&title=nervous#201105 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Hey guys (dodgy thread by the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201100&title=nervous#201100 Author: ginger
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:44pm

Hey guys (dodgy thread by the way - disappearing and reappearing like that! I thought I was going mad! um ... mad-er )

I'm really glad that chovy's work have handled things well for you both, though I imagine it's really disappointing. The only thing I would say is - chovy, stay positive that there is something much better for you out there, which is not going to be so demanding, because it will be what you do. It will have the benefit of allowing you more time with T and the girls, and it will be better quality time because you will not be so stretched/stressed/pressured/tired.

All the very best with the job hunt - I hope it all works out really well!!]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:44:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201100&title=nervous#201100 <![CDATA[Nervous! : it sounds like they have been...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201084&title=nervous#201084 Author: MILF
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:28pm

it sounds like they have been upfront about it all with you both, which not a lot of employers would do. it sucks it isnt the best news (afterall, a steady income is the best news) but the steps they are putting in place sound so positive, i am sure chovy will have a fantastic job offer before long.

good luck with the next 6 weeks to you both.]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:28:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201084&title=nervous#201084 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Sounds like they have been as...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201065&title=nervous#201065 Author: my2angels
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:13pm

Sounds like they have been as good as they can be about it which is cool but i guess it still a bit of a blow really aye.
Will have my fingers crossed he gets a great job soon.]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:13:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201065&title=nervous#201065 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Where did this come from? ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201061&title=nervous#201061 Author: Maya
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:09pm

Where did this come from?]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:09:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201061&title=nervous#201061 <![CDATA[Nervous! : *bump* does this work??? ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201052&title=nervous#201052 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 2:03pm

*bump* does this work???]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 14:03:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201052&title=nervous#201052 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Wow, lots for you to process! Good...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201025&title=nervous#201025 Author: daikini
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 1:26pm

Wow, lots for you to process!

Good luck for these changes and stages in your lives. I'm PMing you, Teresa ]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 13:26:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201025&title=nervous#201025 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Hi guys, thanks for thinking of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201020&title=nervous#201020 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 1:22pm

Hi guys, thanks for thinking of us. The meeting was at 10am and sadly, it was the news we were dreading. But.... they've been really nice about it all. And then we went out for morning tea (and debriefing) together so he could collect his thoughts before getting back to work. Here's the gist:

DH has been working there for 3 months on probation (due to expire on 14 Sept). His job is "Conference and Publications Assistant" but it is actually a high-admin job and DH is qualified in the area of graphic design. Also they are a very busy, small business and were wanting someone with a couple of years' experience. (DH is not long out of UCOL/polytech). So the job doesn't exactly fit him and that has become clear in the last 6 weeks or so.

So the first thing they did was to push him to see what he was capable of. And they say he did really well and they are impressed with his good attitude through that process. Then they (the bosses) had lengthy discussions about whether they could utilise his design/creative skills by giving him a different role in the company. Unfortunately they are too small to be able to offer that at the moment. There wouldn't be enough work to create a position.

So what they have decided to do is to extend his working days to the end of September, send him to a careers counsellor (if he agrees, but he will) and use that as a springboard to find him another job, elsewhere. They said he is welcome to see the careers counsellor (it sounds like they will get in touch with a couple of good report and let him choose) in work time, and same for job interviews.

If they find a replacement in time, they would be keen for him to be part of that person's integration into the company, but if he finds a job before then he's free to go. And if he finds a job before the end of September they are happy for him to take that position up on an asap basis, as a lot of places ask for these days. They also said they want to help him get a job by giving good references etc, they really like him but they would like to see him in a creative job instead of administrative. The CEO said she would be amazed if he hadn't got a job by the end of September.


So all in all, I think it was a pretty positive meeting. DH's boss encouraged him to think of this job as a stepping stone, not as a failure. It's fair to say that DH is disappointed and he's really going to miss the people there too, but I think if they had offered to give him the full contract (until mid-winter 2008), he would have felt a bit trapped.

So, a new season for us (freaky but exciting!) and to his bosses!]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 13:22:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201020&title=nervous#201020 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Just caught up on this thread......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201002&title=nervous#201002 Author: daikini
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 12:55pm

Just caught up on this thread... thinking of you guys (and saying a quick prayer). Come back online and update us soon, okay?]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 12:55:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=201002&title=nervous#201002 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Bump! Where are you guys? Dying...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200981&title=nervous#200981 Author: Maya
Subject: 10063
Posted: 22 August 2007 at 12:42pm

Bump! Where are you guys? Dying of nerves over here in the cheap seats!]]> Wed, 22 Aug 2007 12:42:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200981&title=nervous#200981 <![CDATA[Nervous! : T i pmed you back! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200741&title=nervous#200741 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 10:04pm

T i pmed you back!]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 22:04:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200741&title=nervous#200741 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Hope everything goes well tomorrow....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200681&title=nervous#200681 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 8:58pm

Hope everything goes well tomorrow.]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:58:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200681&title=nervous#200681 <![CDATA[Nervous! : hmmm hope it all goes well!!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200651&title=nervous#200651 Author: Bumble
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 8:25pm

hmmm hope it all goes well!!!!]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:25:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200651&title=nervous#200651 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Fingers crossed everything is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200629&title=nervous#200629 Author: Kels
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 8:00pm

Fingers crossed everything is ok]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 20:00:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200629&title=nervous#200629 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Oh I hope all goes ok. Let us...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200625&title=nervous#200625 Author: MelandBri
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 7:53pm

Oh I hope all goes ok. Let us know ]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 19:53:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200625&title=nervous#200625 <![CDATA[Nervous! : they are required to offer someone...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200611&title=nervous#200611 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 7:26pm

they are required to offer someone to have a support person there and offer the opportunity for a spouse, lawyer, friend etc to attend for any disciplinary meetings

if it is one and he wants to continue in the job ask for mediation....they have to go through that process and you asking BEFORE they fire him has to be given....if that is what is happening...altho i truly hope not! ]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 19:26:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200611&title=nervous#200611 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Weird, hope it goes well tomorrow...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200525&title=nervous#200525 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 4:32pm

Weird, hope it goes well tomorrow for you both.]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 16:32:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200525&title=nervous#200525 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Oh ok, I hope it is not bad news, ...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200503&title=nervous#200503 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:42pm

Oh ok, I hope it is not bad news,
I don't reckon there should be probationary periods anymore, what's happened to just good old plane managing people, and if they are not performing to how they are expected to, then they need to be told/shown/trained etc... sorry vent over just my dh got sucked in not long ago and was promised a job then was layed off for no reason, well they would not provide one. ]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:42:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200503&title=nervous#200503 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Well all I can think is that when...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200497&title=nervous#200497 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:30pm

Well all I can think is that when they are going to say bad news, they ask if you want a support person ie lawyer/spouse. DH said he doesn't really feel that he needs support but it would be good to have me there so I know what's going on too.]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:30:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200497&title=nervous#200497 <![CDATA[Nervous! : wow that is kinda strange aye...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200496&title=nervous#200496 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:30pm

wow that is kinda strange aye as your not an employee??!!?? Hope it all goes well. ]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:30:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200496&title=nervous#200496 <![CDATA[Nervous! : I was thinking the same thing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200495&title=nervous#200495 Author: my2angels
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:28pm

I was thinking the same thing Emma. Why would they ask you to come too? Good luck though]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:28:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200495&title=nervous#200495 <![CDATA[Nervous! : Is that weird? Being asked to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200485&title=nervous#200485 Author: Maya
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:17pm

Is that weird? Being asked to come in to the interview I mean?
Good luck!]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:17:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200485&title=nervous#200485 <![CDATA[Nervous! : fingers crossed everything a ok!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200471&title=nervous#200471 Author: Faraway
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 3:01pm

fingers crossed everything a ok!]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 15:01:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200471&title=nervous#200471 <![CDATA[Nervous! : DH had a review at work today...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200463&title=nervous#200463 Author: busymum
Subject: 10063
Posted: 21 August 2007 at 2:45pm

DH had a review at work today (as part of his probation terms) and they have asked him to come back tomorrow, with me Kinda as a support thing but mostly to keep me in the loop I think. Now I'm nervous and have butterflies! It's almost as bad as going for an interview! ]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2007 14:45:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10063&PID=200463&title=nervous#200463