OHbaby! Forums : Bittersweet https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 07:53:21 +0000 Sun, 26 Aug 2007 09:01:12 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=10169 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Bittersweet : Its such a sad story!! Its such...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203245&title=bittersweet#203245 Author: hailstones
Subject: 10169
Posted: 26 August 2007 at 9:01am

Its such a sad story!! Its such a shame when such beautiful people are taken from us far to early - and especially in those circumstances!

At least her daughter will have amazing people like you around her while she grows up to help her learn all the wonderful things about her Mum.]]> Sun, 26 Aug 2007 09:01:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203245&title=bittersweet#203245 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : thankyou again everyone for your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203213&title=bittersweet#203213 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10169
Posted: 26 August 2007 at 2:11am

thankyou again everyone for your kind words and prayers and virtual hugs, it really means a lot to me that i can post these kind of things and you guys will give me support, i know i havent met most of you but im really grateful for all the people on this site,your all such an amazing ,caring, supportive group of people and as naff as it sounds when i read your caring words im filled with such love and appreciation for you all...]]> Sun, 26 Aug 2007 02:11:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203213&title=bittersweet#203213 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : Breaks my heart and made me cry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203207&title=bittersweet#203207 Author: CRS
Subject: 10169
Posted: 25 August 2007 at 11:58pm

Breaks my heart and made me cry to read that story. Thank you for sharing, makes you appreciate what you take for granted (partner, kids etc) so sad ]]> Sat, 25 Aug 2007 23:58:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203207&title=bittersweet#203207 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : thanks everyone for your kind...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203094&title=bittersweet#203094 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10169
Posted: 25 August 2007 at 6:42pm

thanks everyone for your kind words.

Yeah her husband is doing well considering theyd only been married for less than a year and hes only about 27 and has found himself a widower and now a single father, hes got a lot of support tho .

Her mum is really struggling tho,but then you would i guess especially if you saw your daughter pass away in front of you (it was just her there), so her granddaughter is understandably very precious to her.

Man, life is precious, we should all enjoy everything that comes with it while we can.
]]> Sat, 25 Aug 2007 18:42:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=203094&title=bittersweet#203094 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : kelly what a lovely tribute!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202903&title=bittersweet#202903 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 10169
Posted: 25 August 2007 at 10:48am

kelly what a lovely tribute! had me in tears. especially the bit about the wee girl gazing in one spot, i do believe her mum is watching her

i hope dad is coping ok, what a terrible thing to happen, especially someone so young and just starting a family

hugs to you and her family ]]> Sat, 25 Aug 2007 10:48:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202903&title=bittersweet#202903 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : Italiah wrote:What!! What...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202891&title=bittersweet#202891 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10169
Posted: 25 August 2007 at 10:34am

Originally posted by Italiah Italiah wrote:

What!! What an awful way for it to have happened! Did she have any idea about the clot?? Things like that freak me out, that's my ultimate fear - to die & leave my kids behind this young.

My heart goes out to you & her family. I bet that baby girl is well treasured.


no, she had no idea, on the tuesday she was short of breath, went to the doctor on wednesday who said it was stress of the pregnancy or something, thursday she went to a&e same thing happened, friday her mum took her to hospital they gave her some blood thinning things and transferred her, being her she laughed off the idea of a stretcher and said she could walk, got halfway and fainted...and never woke up.

Yeah , thats my biggest fear as well, and its silly and naive but until this happened i thought it couldnt happen to me because im a mum, and im needed ]]> Sat, 25 Aug 2007 10:34:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202891&title=bittersweet#202891 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : That is so beatiful what you wrote...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202745&title=bittersweet#202745 Author: Kels
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 9:35pm

 That is so beatiful what you wrote about her. Thankyou for the update

]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 21:35:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202745&title=bittersweet#202745 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : i,m soo sorry to hear of your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202711&title=bittersweet#202711 Author: james
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 8:49pm

i,m soo sorry to hear of your friends death i think maybe that baby has a angle whatching over her(not meaning to offed) ]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 20:49:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202711&title=bittersweet#202711 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : What!! What an awful way for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202624&title=bittersweet#202624 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 7:37pm

What!! What an awful way for it to have happened! Did she have any idea about the clot?? Things like that freak me out, that's my ultimate fear - to die & leave my kids behind this young.

My heart goes out to you & her family. I bet that baby girl is well treasured. ]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 19:37:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202624&title=bittersweet#202624 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : That is such a beautiful tribute...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202583&title=bittersweet#202583 Author: caraMel
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 6:46pm



That is such a beautiful tribute to your friend Kelly.

to you and prayers for her family.]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 18:46:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202583&title=bittersweet#202583 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : yeah, she had a blood clot on...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202577&title=bittersweet#202577 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 6:36pm

yeah, she had a blood clot on her lungs and it travelled to her heart and burst-it was very sudden , she was only 23 exactly a month before she died

Edited by caitlynsmygirl]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 18:36:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202577&title=bittersweet#202577 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : Aww that sounds so tragic! I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202576&title=bittersweet#202576 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 6:28pm

Aww that sounds so tragic! I didn't see that thread about your friend dying. How truely terrible! ]]> Fri, 24 Aug 2007 18:28:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202576&title=bittersweet#202576 <![CDATA[Bittersweet : Some of you might remember a few...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10169&PID=202568&title=bittersweet#202568 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10169
Posted: 24 August 2007 at 6:13pm

Some of you might remember a few months ago I put a thread up about my friend who passed away suddenly three weeks after the birth of first daughter.

I went and saw her daughter on tuesday and thought I would post an update.
Its been almost 2 months (already?!) since my friend was taken so suddenly and for her family and close friends the pain hasnt lessened much,she was such a fun girl, really loving and cared about all her family and friends so much, and it still feels so unfair that she had her whole life ahead of her, with her husband and baby and was taken so soon.
But, one thing she did leave us with was of course her daughter, and what a delight she is.
So pretty, and such a relaxed baby, she often stares beyond you and fixes her eyes on one spot and "talks" and laughs, perhaps her mummy is visiting her?
Her mum didnt get to see her turn a month old (she turned a month old incidentally, 2 days after her mums funeral) or see all the daily things we take for granted, her smiling, or crying, her walking, her first words,her sleeping peacefully after a long night of crying....but i know this, wherever my friend is, im sure she watches her daughter everyday, and is going to be there through her whole journey in life, through the tears and the laughter, she would be so proud of her girl, and so she should.
Nothing will ever replace her mum, and nothing ever could, but i for one thank god for her daughter, that her family and friends were left with this most precious gift.



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