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OHbaby! Forums : Should I be upset? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 08 Apr 2026 00:37:02 +0000 Thu, 13 Sep 2007 20:37:56 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=10680 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : My DP doesn't even remember...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213238&title=should-i-be-upset#213238 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 8:37pm

My DP doesn't even remember special days with me hinting all week. I even got him something on valentines day and he gave me a flower only because it got stuck to his shoe when he walked inside.]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 20:37:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213238&title=should-i-be-upset#213238 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : fleury wrote: Although I constantly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213141&title=should-i-be-upset#213141 Author: Leish
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 7:13pm

fleury wrote:

Although I constantly remind him of the Valentine's Day he took me to see Black Hawk Down

. Instead of Serendipity. Not very romantic.

I loved Black Hawk Down. Not all that romantic though I would have to agree but... what a fantastic movie]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:13:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213141&title=should-i-be-upset#213141 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : *puts on Tim Allen's voice*...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213134&title=should-i-be-upset#213134 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 6:58pm

*puts on Tim Allen's voice* ooooooogggghhhhh noooooooo. not BBM.]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 18:58:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213134&title=should-i-be-upset#213134 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : fleury wrote: Although I constantly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213128&title=should-i-be-upset#213128 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 6:53pm

fleury wrote:

Although I constantly remind him of the Valentine's Day he took me to see Black Hawk Down

. Instead of Serendipity. Not very romantic.

Yeah DH took me to see Tomb Raider and more recently Jar Head. I made him watch Broke Back Mountain as revenge.

Handmade Jewellery]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 18:53:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213128&title=should-i-be-upset#213128 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : fleury wrote:... Although I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213110&title=should-i-be-upset#213110 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 6:32pm

fleury wrote:

...
Although I constantly remind him of the Valentine's Day he took me to see Black Hawk Down

. Instead of Serendipity. Not very romantic.

Awwww. Black hawk down.... now that was an emotional movie. All those bullets getting wasted. Sad.

]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 18:32:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=213110&title=should-i-be-upset#213110 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Haha it is usually my DP that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212772&title=should-i-be-upset#212772 Author: fairsk8
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 11:05am

Haha it is usually my DP that remembers all our anniversaries while I walk around with my head in the clouds oblivious. But he did forget my birthday last year, and I didn't say anything to him all day as I wanted to see how long it took for him to remember. He remembered once said something to him about it being my birthday. I then got my birthday present with my christmas present. Wasn't too upset about it, but thats just me, I prefer to celebrate everyday and not just the days that everyone deems important.]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 11:05:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212772&title=should-i-be-upset#212772 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : If I exect recognition of any...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212757&title=should-i-be-upset#212757 Author: miss
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 10:50am

If I exect recognition of any particular date or event from anyone then I make sure I let them know beforehand. That way I am not disappointed in any way and it doesn't feel like a game for whoever I am watiing to be let down by. I much prefer not being let down at all - and if you do let them know and they still let you down then you are well within rights to give them a big kick.]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 10:50:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212757&title=should-i-be-upset#212757 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : AnnC wrote: Yeah mine did...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212732&title=should-i-be-upset#212732 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 10:02am

AnnC wrote:

[QUOTE=cuppatea]

Yeah mine did that too, and apparently valentines day isn't for married people

Yeah Right!! What kind of excuse is that?

My last name is Valentine so there is no chance of DF getting away with not doing anything.
Although I constantly remind him of the Valentine's Day he took me to see Black Hawk Down

. Instead of Serendipity. Not very romantic.]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 10:02:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212732&title=should-i-be-upset#212732 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : jack_&_charli wrote:i can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212727&title=should-i-be-upset#212727 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 10680
Posted: 13 September 2007 at 9:50am

Originally posted by jack_&_charli jack_&_charli wrote:

i can remember the date DH and i met, it was the day after anzac day....but i'm sure he doesn't have a clue. last year i mentioned it was our anniversary to him and his reply....'no it's not, we married now so you only get 1 anniversary a year now'

I think that is DH's approach too! I got over it by the time he got home from work - he didnt say anything at all about it, but I figured its just not important in the scheme of things....and at the moment I seem to get upset at the slightest little thing, so prob just me making a fuss for no reason!

]]> Thu, 13 Sep 2007 09:50:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212727&title=should-i-be-upset#212727 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : cuppatea wrote: Yeah mine...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212637&title=should-i-be-upset#212637 Author: AnnC
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 10:50pm

cuppatea wrote:

Yeah mine did that too, and apparently valentines day isn't for married people

yep thats what my Dh said (and i agree) our anniversary is the 19th of feb so we skip valentines with a Kiss and a Happy Valentines

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:50:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212637&title=should-i-be-upset#212637 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : LOL no we only celebrate weddi...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212622&title=should-i-be-upset#212622 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 10:18pm

LOL no we only celebrate weddi anniversary- aka guy fawkes - so there will always be fireworks!!! and of course Ellas birthday and Valentines - if he is in mood

Dates for engagement as we kept it secret for a while so we could get the perfect ring done....when it was ready we announced engagement and happened to fall around valentines so we put it in herald!]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:18:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212622&title=should-i-be-upset#212622 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Hey Bombshell, why so long between...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212617&title=should-i-be-upset#212617 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 10:14pm

Hey Bombshell, why so long between engagement and the announcement???]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:14:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212617&title=should-i-be-upset#212617 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Bombshell wrote:I would not...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212615&title=should-i-be-upset#212615 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 10:13pm

Bombshell wrote:

I would not be too upset if he didnt remember when we got together....BUT

BSDH heres how it went - just in case u forgot...

first email - 20th jan

first stalker date (he stalked me two days pre our first date!) 27 Feb

first date 29th feb - not to be repeated til next leap year!!!! clever boy on that one!!! humph!

engagement - day we bought the boat (sept 2?th)

engagement announcement - 14th feb

wedding - 05-11-05

Ella born - 07-03-07

Divorce date....TBA (just to keep u on your toes!)

's added.]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:13:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212615&title=should-i-be-upset#212615 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Oh my gosh BS, I hope you don't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212604&title=should-i-be-upset#212604 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 10:08pm

Oh my gosh BS, I hope you don't expect a pressie on ALL of those days

Cuppatea we don't really do Valentine's Day cause our anniversary is just a week after. It means cheap flowers/chocs/etc but I don't think DH has realised yet?

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:08:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212604&title=should-i-be-upset#212604 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : I would not be too upset if he...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212589&title=should-i-be-upset#212589 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:55pm

I would not be too upset if he didnt remember when we got together....BUT

BSDH heres how it went - just in case u forgot...

first email - 20th jan
first stalker date (he stalked me two days pre our first date!) 27 Feb
first date 29th feb - not to be repeated til next leap year!!!! clever boy on that one!!! humph!
engagement - day we bought the boat (sept 2?th)
engagement announcement - 14th feb
wedding - 05-11-05
Ella born - 07-03-07
Divorce date....TBA (just to keep u on your toes!)

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:55:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212589&title=should-i-be-upset#212589 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : jack_&_charli wrote:i can remember...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212585&title=should-i-be-upset#212585 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:53pm

jack_&_charli wrote:

i can remember the date DH and i met, it was the day after anzac day....but i'm sure he doesn't have a clue. last year i mentioned it was our anniversary to him and his reply....'no it's not, we married now so you only get 1 anniversary a year now'

Yeah mine did that too, and apparently valentines day isn't for married people

Handmade Jewellery]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:53:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212585&title=should-i-be-upset#212585 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : I remind DF every year when its...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212582&title=should-i-be-upset#212582 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:52pm

I remind DF every year when its our anniversary. I'm not relying on him to remember for himself. I organise both our lives didn't you know. He feels really guilty if I give him a card or something and he's forgotten.

I would like to think he will remember our wedding day, once it's arrived. The big party, all our friends and family might make it easier, also happens to be the same day as friends of mine so no excuses.

Give him a gentle reminder, Men don't get anniversaries.]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:52:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212582&title=should-i-be-upset#212582 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : i can remember the date DH and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212580&title=should-i-be-upset#212580 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:50pm

i can remember the date DH and i met, it was the day after anzac day....but i'm sure he doesn't have a clue. last year i mentioned it was our anniversary to him and his reply....'no it's not, we married now so you only get 1 anniversary a year now'

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:50:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212580&title=should-i-be-upset#212580 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : It's Roll On Floor Laughing...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212576&title=should-i-be-upset#212576 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:47pm

It's Roll On Floor Laughing - kinda the next step from LOL

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:47:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212576&title=should-i-be-upset#212576 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Sorry to be thick all the time...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212574&title=should-i-be-upset#212574 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:45pm

Sorry to be thick all the time but what does ROFL stand for? I did check the TTC101 but its not on there.

Handmade Jewellery]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:45:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212574&title=should-i-be-upset#212574 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : ROFL!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212570&title=should-i-be-upset#212570 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 9:42pm

ROFL!!!]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 21:42:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212570&title=should-i-be-upset#212570 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : haha, we should...and then we...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212431&title=should-i-be-upset#212431 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:51pm

haha, we should...and then we can have a laugh at their expense...and when they finally say " hunny....what exactly was today " we can look at them tenderly and say (eg) "honey....its THURSDAY" ]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:51:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212431&title=should-i-be-upset#212431 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : caitlynsmygirl wrote: Chovynz...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212423&title=should-i-be-upset#212423 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:46pm

caitlynsmygirl wrote:

Chovynz wrote:

Orrrrrrrrrrrr....

You could just say, "Honey, know what day it is today?" kiss him on the cheek and walk away. Don't say anything else and start to watch the panic run through his head.

haha, im gonna do that for absolutely nooooo reason , on a day that means nothing to us, just for fun

That's hilarious, I might do that too!!!

Handmade Jewellery]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:46:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212423&title=should-i-be-upset#212423 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Chovynz wrote:Orrrrrrrrrrrr.... You...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212419&title=should-i-be-upset#212419 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:40pm

haha, im gonna do that for absolutely nooooo reason , on a day that means nothing to us, just for fun ]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:40:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212419&title=should-i-be-upset#212419 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : busymum wrote:LOL Emma I'd...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212415&title=should-i-be-upset#212415 Author: Maya
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:36pm

busymum wrote:

LOL Emma I'd like to soon, but I know for certain that it's not yet - us women have ways of knowing such things

Bugger! Oh well, wishful thinking on my part, seeing as the boss says no more for me I have to live vicariously thru others. Must admit that vicarious morning sickness isn't as bad as the real kind either

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:36:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212415&title=should-i-be-upset#212415 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : A bit OT but I actualy regret...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212402&title=should-i-be-upset#212402 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:20pm

A bit OT but I actualy regret not remembering the date we first got together.
And I also can't even remeber what we did this year for our first wedding anniversary - we were so wrapped with the 2 month old in the house!

Hmm I,m sure we did do something

Anyways, hope he makes it up to you SimSam!]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:20:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212402&title=should-i-be-upset#212402 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Yep I agree with Sally ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212395&title=should-i-be-upset#212395 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:12pm

Yep I agree with Sally

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:12:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212395&title=should-i-be-upset#212395 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Helen21 wrote:...I talked about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212389&title=should-i-be-upset#212389 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:09pm

Helen21 wrote:

...I talked about some stuff and got 100 posts...

OT: Gratz!

Edited by Chovynz]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:09:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212389&title=should-i-be-upset#212389 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Knowing what my DH's memory...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212386&title=should-i-be-upset#212386 Author: sally belly
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:07pm

Knowing what my DH's memory is like (i.e. shocking) I wouldn't expect him to remember what date we got together (& to be honest I'm not sure I can remember either). But it has obviously bothered you so I would say something to your partner. You'll feel better getting it out in the open. He must know what day it is, since you gave him a card this morning.

Maybe he's cooked you a romantic dinner by now?

Edited by sally belly]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:07:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212386&title=should-i-be-upset#212386 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : I hate to say it but I would be...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212379&title=should-i-be-upset#212379 Author: Helen21
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:02pm

I hate to say it but I would be disappointed if DH forgot an important date like that, but not saying anything after giving him a card, that would really annoy me.

DH forgot valentines day which I love to celebrate so I bought him a massive gift basket with all the things he loves and I gave it to him before work, he look confused so I had to tell him what day it was. Anyway he didn't come home at lunch time but that night he proposed with a ring and everything(he bought it in his lunch break) he well and truely made up for forgetting!!

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:02:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212379&title=should-i-be-upset#212379 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : LOL Emma I'd like to soon,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212378&title=should-i-be-upset#212378 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:01pm

LOL Emma I'd like to soon, but I know for certain that it's not yet - us women have ways of knowing such things

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:01:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212378&title=should-i-be-upset#212378 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212377&title=should-i-be-upset#212377 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:01pm

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:01:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212377&title=should-i-be-upset#212377 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : He may just be too consumed with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212376&title=should-i-be-upset#212376 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 7:01pm

He may just be too consumed with the impending birth. It affects men a lot more than we give them credit for. My husband made himself so sick he ended up on meds for a stomach condition. He didn't think it was stress over having a baby but 3 months on when things have settled down he is suddenly feeling ok again.

You should have seen him the day of the c/s, anyone would have thought he was getting surgery!!!!

Handmade Jewellery]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 19:01:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212376&title=should-i-be-upset#212376 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Chovynz wrote: Maya wrote: ...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212372&title=should-i-be-upset#212372 Author: Maya
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:59pm

Chovynz wrote:

Maya wrote:

Chovynz wrote:

At least I know i have 1 wife and 3 kids...

Are you sure? I mean reaaaaally sure? These things can kinda sneak up on you

I have nothing useful to add. I doubt Willie even remembers what YEAR we got together let alone the actual date. I nearly fell over backwards when he remembered Mothers Day.

I am reeeaaaaaalllly sure. I'd know if i went and..erm...did someone else. And I'm fairly certian nobodys used any of my ... donations.

Good on yah Willie!

I was thinking more of stated wife perhaps growing a wee bean sometime soonish...]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:59:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212372&title=should-i-be-upset#212372 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Maya wrote: Chovynz wrote:At...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212366&title=should-i-be-upset#212366 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:55pm

Maya wrote:

Chovynz wrote:

At least I know i have 1 wife and 3 kids...

Are you sure? I mean reaaaaally sure? These things can kinda sneak up on you

I have nothing useful to add. I doubt Willie even remembers what YEAR we got together let alone the actual date. I nearly fell over backwards when he remembered Mothers Day.

I am reeeaaaaaalllly sure. I'd know if i went and..erm...did someone else. And I'm fairly certian nobodys used any of my ... donations.

Good on yah Willie! ]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:55:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212366&title=should-i-be-upset#212366 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Chovynz wrote:At least I know...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212362&title=should-i-be-upset#212362 Author: Maya
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:52pm

Chovynz wrote:

At least I know i have 1 wife and 3 kids...

Are you sure? I mean reaaaaally sure? These things can kinda sneak up on you

I have nothing useful to add. I doubt Willie even remembers what YEAR we got together let alone the actual date. I nearly fell over backwards when he remembered Mothers Day.]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:52:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212362&title=should-i-be-upset#212362 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : At least I know i have 1 wife...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212360&title=should-i-be-upset#212360 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:50pm

At least I know i have 1 wife and 3 kids...

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:50:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212360&title=should-i-be-upset#212360 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Now he's guessing that Kryssi...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212358&title=should-i-be-upset#212358 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:49pm

Now he's guessing that Kryssi was born on 14 Feb (errrrr 14 Jan) and that's by process of elimination cause "Hannah's is on the 23rd of January... I think" (says him). Man this is getting far, far, worse. He's on the 23 Dec and Hannah's on the 27 Dec, I thought that was easy to remember!!! What a laugh!!

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:49:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212358&title=should-i-be-upset#212358 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Oh yea DH forgot our first wedding...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212355&title=should-i-be-upset#212355 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:46pm

Oh yea DH forgot our first wedding anniversary and when I gave him something he completely freaked out ROFL. It may be that your DP is flipping cause of the card - either trying to work out if he 'should' get something (tomorrow when he's at work) or it's not a biggie to him.

Oh man now my DH (chovy) is reading my previous post "But we were engaged for 4 years" No, I was 19 at engagement and 20 and wedding. "14th of Feb is Briona's birthday isn't it?" Nope. 27 July ROFL. This man hasn't a clue! I hope he remembers when Christmas is

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:46:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212355&title=should-i-be-upset#212355 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Did he do something for your birthday?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212353&title=should-i-be-upset#212353 Author: busymum
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:44pm

Did he do something for your birthday? I presume you don't have a wedding anniversary... um... I suspect it's one of those female vs male things where the girls are like, wow it's our getting together anniversary, so cool, etc etc, but the guys are like, yea well I loved you then, I still love you now, there's still a lot of life together left... they don't seem to have as much emphasis on dates.

Practical example (for fun). I asked my DH what date he first talked to my parents about me (I was only 16). It was about the 21st of April in 1999 but he hasn't a clue.
Engagement date: He thinks it was 14 Feb 1998. I think 14 Feb is sticking in his mind for "some important reason" but he can't work out what it is. Haha. The correct answer is 2 July 2002 LOL
Engagement party date: 20 July 2002, he hasn't the foggiest.
Wedding anniversary: 23, no 22 Feb 2002 hehe the 2's and 3's sometimes mix me up too. We were going to get married on the 23rd for a while and then we finally read the calendar right and figured it was a Sunday! So we changed to 22nd, but it was in 2003 (but 22/02/02 is easier to remember!)
My birthday: he got that right

Case in point?

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:44:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212353&title=should-i-be-upset#212353 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Orrrrrrrrrrrr.... You could just...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212351&title=should-i-be-upset#212351 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:41pm

Orrrrrrrrrrrr....

You could just say, "Honey, know what day it is today?" kiss him on the cheek and walk away. Don't say anything else and start to watch the panic run through his head.

]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:41:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212351&title=should-i-be-upset#212351 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Um... "...the date of my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212337&title=should-i-be-upset#212337 Author: Chovynz
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 6:19pm

Um...

"...the date of my 21st b'day party which was 2 days after my actual b'day..."

I'd quietly suggest you wait for two more days....]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:19:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212337&title=should-i-be-upset#212337 <![CDATA[Should I be upset? : Today was the 10th anniversary...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=10680&PID=212323&title=should-i-be-upset#212323 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 10680
Posted: 12 September 2007 at 5:37pm

Today was the 10th anniversary of DH and I getting together....its not our wedding anniversary, but its the day that we actually got together. I know that DH knows (its easy to remember as it was the date of my 21st b'day party which was 2 days after my actual b'day - and I KNOW he KNOWS!!

I gave him a nice card this morning, but he hasnt even said anything about it today. I didnt expect a big celebration or anything like that, but I dunno maybe an acknowledgement might have been nice.

Would you be upset - or am I just over-reacting (due to hormones AGAIN!!)

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