OHbaby! Forums : Hitting https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 00:46:19 +0000 Tue, 15 Nov 2005 14:25:15 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=1154 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Hitting : I know! Isn&#039;t she fantastic!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19895&title=hitting#19895 Author: newmum
Subject: 1154
Posted: 15 November 2005 at 2:25pm

I know! Isn't she fantastic!!! ]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2005 14:25:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19895&title=hitting#19895 <![CDATA[Hitting : i have a feeling this will be...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19881&title=hitting#19881 Author: lizzle
Subject: 1154
Posted: 15 November 2005 at 12:24pm

i have a feeling this will be an interesting day!!!!


Have got the family in on Jake's discipline in regards to hitting. Yesterday he thumped MIL and she put him down and said "i don't want to play with a boy who hits" and he stopped. I was impressed. She had been hitting him (lightly) back but he seemed to think of this as a game. Walking away seems to help

On another note I watched supernanny for the first time last night. I want to divorce Lewis and marry her now...go civil unions!!]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2005 12:24:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19881&title=hitting#19881 <![CDATA[Hitting : Kiya will sort them out she...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19872&title=hitting#19872 Author: daikini
Subject: 1154
Posted: 15 November 2005 at 8:46am

Kiya will sort them out she is such a little madam!]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2005 08:46:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19872&title=hitting#19872 <![CDATA[Hitting : Ohhhhh that mite be quite light...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19846&title=hitting#19846 Author: Xander&Harmony
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 4:38pm

Ohhhhh that mite be quite light entertaiment lol]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 16:38:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19846&title=hitting#19846 <![CDATA[Hitting : Arna will for sure!! She&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19843&title=hitting#19843 Author: lenabeanz
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 4:29pm

Arna will for sure!! She's been doing the hitting thing too but as attention for me to put her down!! So if she get's tired and grumpy at the BBQ we will just put the 2 of them together for a taste of their own medicine!! ]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 16:29:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19843&title=hitting#19843 <![CDATA[Hitting : im sure the other kids will put...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19842&title=hitting#19842 Author: Xander&Harmony
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 4:14pm

im sure the other kids will put him in his place lol

 

]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 16:14:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19842&title=hitting#19842 <![CDATA[Hitting : Yeah, I&#039;ll try the no attention...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19822&title=hitting#19822 Author: lizzle
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 2:54pm

Yeah, I'll try the no attention thing, but it doesn't help at the moment we are at the PIL's who think the sun shines out of Jake's bum!! He gets sooooo much attention and is going through so much change. Got more sleep today so am feeling a lot better about coping. Was nearly in tears all day yesterday. And Jake hasn't been hitting as much today.....hopefuly just a phase..if not, watch out palmy BBQ!]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 14:54:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19822&title=hitting#19822 <![CDATA[Hitting : My friend&#039;s boy used to hit...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19805&title=hitting#19805 Author: lou
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 9:26am

My friend's boy used to hit a lot, not so much now she did the above and also taught her boy how to be gental, which I think helped]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 09:26:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19805&title=hitting#19805 <![CDATA[Hitting : that&#039;s the same as we do...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19795&title=hitting#19795 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 8:15am

that's the same as we do - saying "no, we don't hit, that hurts!" and then putting them down and walking away - because usually for kids that age, that immediate loss of attention from mum or dad is enough to make them pretty upset and teach them that hey, if i hit then mummy goes away and i'm left to play by myself.

definately praise for nice play too like Maria said.. when he does play nice or give cuddles stress how much you like them, when he hits, just say no and put him down.. that way he's getting attention for the good behaviour not the bad.]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 08:15:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19795&title=hitting#19795 <![CDATA[Hitting : What seems to work for us is giving...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19790&title=hitting#19790 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 7:42am

What seems to work for us is giving no attention. Saying that hitting hurts, mummy, daddy etc. And putting them in their cot, room etc with no toys. going back a short time later asking them if they would like a cuddle "mummy loves your cuddles".

Praising all the time for nice play.]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 07:42:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19790&title=hitting#19790 <![CDATA[Hitting : not such a new thing, but Jake...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19785&title=hitting#19785 Author: lizzle
Subject: 1154
Posted: 14 November 2005 at 12:15am

not such a new thing, but Jake is hitting big time. He slaps really really hard and giggles. I keep saying "no, we don't hit people" but he giggles at me and hits again. I don't wanna hit him back as I figure that's a bit counter-productive, any ideas? he slapped me in the face today and as we got up at 6AM with no naps today I was very very angry and had to walk away...but regardless of my mood, i really don't want him hitting.]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2005 00:15:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1154&PID=19785&title=hitting#19785