Kellie, at the end of the day you'll have to weed through all the stuff he's told you and decide what you think is the most likely scenario.  If his story keeps changing, that's a huge red flag though.  And if one of them 'couldn't wait till this afternoon', either they had something really exciting happening that they'd told the other person about and needed lots of energy for , or it could be just what it sounds like when you first read it.  At the end of the day, no-one will judge you for staying or leaving, regardless of what you do or don't find out when (if) you get to the bottom of the story,  'cause a marriage can be a complicated thing.  But remember that you don't deserve to be cheated on or have to worry that it might happen - you've been a loving and devoted wife and a fantastic mum to his son.  He might have his reasons for getting flirty with another woman, but that doesn't excuse it in my books. 

Or me I went through this a few months ago and Liz helped me out.

He just came clean!!

Dont know what to do...

He just emailed me and told me he is coming clean... and that she is a lady that got his mobile number off his works website and started texting flirty to him and told him he was cute...  He text back but reckons he had no intentions on meeting her.

he didnt ask for photos apparently and sent them on her own accord.

he says he still loves Jaxon and I and doesn not want to lose us.

he said he was just curious...

Im scared now that it will go further one day if he ever gets that opportunity again.. I dont know what to do...

Hes never met her.

Thanks everyone... You are all so supportive. It helps..

Hubby at work today but wehave talked and he has admitted that he has crossed the line but has not even met this lady as yet. Im still waiting for proof in which he is trying his best to get right at this moment.

If its not good I will look at that path if that happens and if it is just the texting etc then we will look at trying with counselling etc and see if we can get over this hurdle but will be the last time.

I still cant sleep!!! Need some sleeping tablets... Hoping he comes home this arvo from work to sort this out... Im a bit worried cos part of the text i did read was telling thsi lady he cant wait till the afternoon meaning today and keep up the energy. he says he has a training session on which he cant get out of but Ive asked him to come home . Took a bit of persuading but I think hes going to now since I told him I was feeling a bit insecure about the lady on phone.

I dont believe he is actually having an affair , well not in person anyway..

MY hubby just does not seem that type of guy.. We have had a great relationship apart from the sex life since Jaxon arrived, lol but other than that we are happy and he says hes not concerned.

I dunno Im starting to look into it a bit more I think... I better wait and see if he can get these texts or give me her number...

Awm hun, that completely sux.  Whether he has cheated or not, that's a helluva lot for you to go through trying to get to the bottom of it. 

...how much effort does it take to break a cellphone?!?  Was it the kind of thing that could have easily happened accidentally, or did he put in an effort to bend the SIM card?  Cause if he did, ruining his phone must have seemed the better option than having his wife read what was on it.  Hugs to you, girl, because whether he has been unfaithful or not, it's not fair on you to have to question it. 

Men Men Men - Cellphones are so dangerous -

Just remember you are a good mum and a good wife.

Hi everyone...

I got about an hours sleep last night.... Feel like crap today thats for sure...

My friend is coming around this morning

Im a mess.

Hubby still denys everything and says its totally innocent..

He broke the phone last night trying to retrieve off me so cant read al the msgs.. he reckons hes going to try get them today via bluetooth or something.. The sim card has been bent too...  Ive asked for the girls number also... he reckons I can have it if he cant get the numbers...

I guess I will see what happens after today..

I so cant imagine life without him in it.. Thought we had the perfect family...

I cant stop thinking about poor wee Jaxon if this is all true...

Anyway I am getting all worked up and overthinking it and making it worse...

Thanks for all your support..

xox

What a night....

Im so upset I dont know what to think....

I suspect my husband is cheating and its so fricken hard...

Just found pics and msgs on his phone that suggest he may be but he swears on his sons life he isnt....

Ive got a headache, I feel sick in the gut and just cant believe this is happening...

Gees I hope I am wrong!!