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OHbaby! Forums : got our first marriage counseling session https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 08 May 2026 07:24:34 +0000 Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:26:00 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12554 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : I'm glad it went well for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254303&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254303 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 8:26pm

I'm glad it went well for you both]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:26:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254303&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254303 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Wow that's fantastic, well...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254295&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254295 Author: busymum
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 8:10pm

Wow that's fantastic, well done!]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:10:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254295&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254295 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : I'm glad it is going to help...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254239&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254239 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 6:20pm

I'm glad it is going to help you Kellie.

]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 18:20:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254239&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254239 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Good for you guys! So cool to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254224&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254224 Author: katie1
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 5:19pm

Good for you guys!
So cool to aim to spend time doing things together too -it is so easy to let that all go out the door once you have a baby.
Great that it went well.

]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 17:19:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254224&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254224 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Glad to here it went well ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254133&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254133 Author: Kellz
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 3:54pm

Glad to here it went well]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 15:54:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254133&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254133 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : That is so awesome I really hope...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254123&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254123 Author: Jay_R
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 3:46pm

That is so awesome

I really hope things keep moving forward in such a positive way.

Yay for you guys!!]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 15:46:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254123&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254123 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : also we are making an effort now...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254110&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254110 Author: kellverona
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 3:34pm

also we are making an effort now to try and organise some time alone together...

Bring the romance back into our relationship///

]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 15:34:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254110&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254110 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hey everyone.. The session went...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254106&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254106 Author: kellverona
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 3:33pm

Hey everyone.. The session went well until i burst into tears when i had to explain why we were there...

Anyway we both feel it went well.. We are going back for a few more sessions and working on a few different goals... First is open communication...

and then the trust thing and also Im continuing alone to help with my low self esteem... help me become a sronger person.

Hubby and I are feeling alot closer than we have ever felt which feels great...

Looking forward to next session in 2 weeks time...

Thnaks everyone

]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 15:33:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254106&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254106 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : cool thanks everyone,...sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254009&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254009 Author: Kellz
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 1:42pm

cool thanks everyone,...sorry again for thread jacking!
I hope it went well Kellie.]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 13:42:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254009&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254009 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : kellz....my Dh isn't really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254007&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254007 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 1:36pm

kellz....my Dh isn't really that into the church so our place wasn't church related and was really good..
9and free for 6 sessions) just letting you know there are heaps of options.. ]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 13:36:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=254007&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#254007 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : How did it go Kellie? ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253932&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253932 Author: Maya
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 11:48am

How did it go Kellie?]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 11:48:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253932&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253932 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope it went really well! :hugs:...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253856&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253856 Author: Bumble
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 10:01am

Hope it went really well! :hugs:]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 10:01:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253856&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253856 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope it went well, Kellie - good...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253850&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253850 Author: Andie
Subject: 12554
Posted: 28 November 2007 at 9:56am

Hope it went well, Kellie - good on you for going, too. Sometimes counselling seems to make things feel a bit worse before they get better, so don't kick yourself if that happened, heaps of people find that's how it goes!

Kellz, we did pre-marital counselling with our pastor - it was pretty good (though could have gone further, I think). The course was one that heaps of people offer - called "prepare" or something like that - anyway, it's a course designed for couples about to marry who have not yet lived together, and the creators of it also have others for people already married, one for people living together, one for blended families, etc, etc - I think the one for married folk is called "enrich". Maybe a local church would be able to tell you who offers it?

]]> Wed, 28 Nov 2007 09:56:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253850&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253850 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Best of luck for you and your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253715&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253715 Author: Kels
Subject: 12554
Posted: 27 November 2007 at 10:29pm

Best of luck for you and your family....

]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2007 22:29:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253715&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253715 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Kellz wrote: Slightly off...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253630&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253630 Author: Paws
Subject: 12554
Posted: 27 November 2007 at 9:08pm

Kellz wrote:

Slightly off topic/ and slightly thread jacking (sorry kel )- has anyone attending a relationship course / couselling or whatever they called, before there is an actually "issue/problem",...like to help open lines of communication etc? Was iy any good etc? Where do u go? TIA

We had to do pre-martial counselling before our pastor could agree to marry us...he was the one who took us through it.

Highly recommend it. ]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2007 21:08:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253630&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253630 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : i did it after a problem(his problem...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253606&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253606 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12554
Posted: 27 November 2007 at 8:19pm

i did it after a problem(his problem not mine..long story) and initially i was quite annoyed that she implied i needed to change a bit too..but she was right i needed to learn to listen more and it really really helped with our communication..our relationship is a million times better...partly due to a fabulous councellor though...

personally i would recommend it before a problem..would have been great for us!]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2007 20:19:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253606&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253606 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope the counselling was worth...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253591&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253591 Author: Kellz
Subject: 12554
Posted: 27 November 2007 at 8:08pm

Hope the counselling was worth while Kelly. Big hugs. Really hope you are able to sort things out between you.

Slightly off topic/ and slightly thread jacking (sorry kel )- has anyone attending a relationship course / couselling or whatever they called, before there is an actually "issue/problem",...like to help open lines of communication etc? Was iy any good etc? Where do u go? TIA]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2007 20:08:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253591&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253591 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : How'd it go? ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253556&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253556 Author: busymum
Subject: 12554
Posted: 27 November 2007 at 7:23pm

How'd it go?]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2007 19:23:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253556&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253556 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope tonight went well. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253027&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253027 Author: Faraway
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 8:15pm

Hope tonight went well.]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:15:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253027&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253027 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope everything goes well tonight...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253025&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253025 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 8:15pm

Hope everything goes well tonight I was actually thinking how things were going for you this morning and yay for both of you going and doing something about.]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:15:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=253025&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#253025 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Hope that tonight goes well and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252965&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252965 Author: Leish
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 7:26pm

Hope that tonight goes well and helps you guys on the road to getting things back on track.

will be thinking of you and big pat on the back to you both for doing something about it all.]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:26:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252965&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252965 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Good luck Kelly, i'm sure...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252963&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252963 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 7:24pm

Good luck Kelly, i'm sure it will help you a lot.

]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 19:24:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252963&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252963 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : i have no idea what they do....probably...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252875&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252875 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 4:23pm

i have no idea what they do....probably just sit and talk i guess.....good luck hun!! and good on you both for going

]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:23:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252875&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252875 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : Good luck, don't be nervous...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252874&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252874 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 4:23pm

Good luck, don't be nervous they are there to help.]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:23:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252874&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252874 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : oh good luck i hope it works for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252870&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252870 Author: AnnC
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 4:19pm

oh good luck i hope it works for you all]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:19:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252870&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252870 <![CDATA[got our first marriage counseling session : tonight... Im pretty nervous...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252864&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252864 Author: kellverona
Subject: 12554
Posted: 26 November 2007 at 4:12pm

tonight...

Im pretty nervous actually...

I wonder what they do??

]]> Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:12:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12554&PID=252864&title=got-our-first-marriage-counseling-session#252864