https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 11:28:11 +0000 Thu, 06 Dec 2007 06:19:19 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12614 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=258106&title=do-you-ever#258106 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 12614
Posted: 06 December 2007 at 6:19am

TTC can be stressful - hope it's a quick process for you ]]> Thu, 06 Dec 2007 06:19:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=258106&title=do-you-ever#258106 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=258066&title=do-you-ever#258066 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 12614
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 9:52pm

oh yeah....and then bubba arrives and you do the same thing - altho you hate yourself for thinking it!!!

we did the whole - "well why are we even bothering then we might as well break up and get on with our lives"

yeah - TTC was stressful...and only when we relaxed and didnt think about what we were doing (**cough "quickie" cough**) did we conceive!!! ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 21:52:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=258066&title=do-you-ever#258066 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254625&title=do-you-ever#254625 Author: Peace
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 12:55pm

No fighting here... all lovin!!]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2007 12:55:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254625&title=do-you-ever#254625 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254533&title=do-you-ever#254533 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 10:23am

yes I worried about this too and I still do when we have arguments now. TTC and pregnancy are both stressful times and it's natural for you to clash occasionally as you both readjust to everything.

It's ok to worry about it but I think everyone does. And chances are you will fight when you're pregnant because of hormones and stress and tiredness etc. etc. but whenever we have little fights we try to use them as a chance to handle to conflict better so that when the baby does arrive if we have an argument we are doing it in a constructive way.]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2007 10:23:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254533&title=do-you-ever#254533 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254480&title=do-you-ever#254480 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:31am

depending on where i am in my cycle, i something think, do i even want to be married to you, and then am upset cos i was evening thinking that...i think its natural to have those thought especially when aguring as it brings out the worst in everybody]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2007 09:31:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254480&title=do-you-ever#254480 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254474&title=do-you-ever#254474 Author: Jennz
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:23am

I felt this way when we were TTC our second- I think its natural to have doubts ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2007 09:23:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254474&title=do-you-ever#254474 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254453&title=do-you-ever#254453 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 9:06am

i was the same when we were ttcing.. :( in our case the first time we would have been better to wait..but by the second time we had got things sorted so it wasn't so bad..but i think it's natural to feel that way. ]]> Thu, 29 Nov 2007 09:06:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254453&title=do-you-ever#254453 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12614&PID=254446&title=do-you-ever#254446 Author: IVFGirl1111
Subject: 12614
Posted: 29 November 2007 at 8:53am

Have arguments with your DP/DH and then wonder if your doing the right thing TTC?

DH and I had a small argument last night and I thought at the time hmm is TTC the best thing and what happens if we argue all the time when baby is here because of the stress etc?
Then when we made up (all of 5 minutes later lol) I felt guilty for thinking about the whole ttc thing?!

Am I the only one that does this - what do you guys think etc when you have an argument big or small?

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