OHbaby! Forums : custody issues https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 20 May 2026 12:15:23 +0000 Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:51:21 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12758 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[custody issues : Hope everything is ok with you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258757&title=custody-issues#258757 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 12758
Posted: 07 December 2007 at 10:51am

 Hope everything is ok with you Natalie.

]]> Fri, 07 Dec 2007 10:51:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258757&title=custody-issues#258757 <![CDATA[custody issues : Sorry you ar having such a rough...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258671&title=custody-issues#258671 Author: Kellz
Subject: 12758
Posted: 07 December 2007 at 7:39am

Sorry you ar having such a rough time Natalie. I hope things get sorted as easily as possible. ]]> Fri, 07 Dec 2007 07:39:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258671&title=custody-issues#258671 <![CDATA[custody issues : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258169&title=custody-issues#258169 Author: mummy_dee
Subject: 12758
Posted: 06 December 2007 at 9:05am

]]> Thu, 06 Dec 2007 09:05:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258169&title=custody-issues#258169 <![CDATA[custody issues : Hope you are ok. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258138&title=custody-issues#258138 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 12758
Posted: 06 December 2007 at 8:34am

Hope you are ok.]]> Thu, 06 Dec 2007 08:34:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258138&title=custody-issues#258138 <![CDATA[custody issues : I been thru it so if you have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258065&title=custody-issues#258065 Author: AnnC
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 9:51pm

I been thru it so if you have an more questions PM I will try to answer you.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 21:51:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258065&title=custody-issues#258065 <![CDATA[custody issues : no worries...feel free to PM me...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258046&title=custody-issues#258046 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 9:41pm

no worries...feel free to PM me anytime....]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 21:41:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258046&title=custody-issues#258046 <![CDATA[custody issues : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258027&title=custody-issues#258027 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 9:31pm

]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 21:31:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=258027&title=custody-issues#258027 <![CDATA[custody issues : Thanks Bombshell, that was a really...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257980&title=custody-issues#257980 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 8:48pm

Thanks Bombshell, that was a really good website. its a lot to digest at the moment, and I am so angry with the situation I don't think i can make any clear decisions yet...but at least i have all the info on hand now when i need it.

]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:48:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257980&title=custody-issues#257980 <![CDATA[custody issues : oh thank you = im hopeless with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257951&title=custody-issues#257951 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 8:10pm

oh thank you = im hopeless with that! ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:10:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257951&title=custody-issues#257951 <![CDATA[custody issues : Bombshell wrote: link There...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257930&title=custody-issues#257930 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 8:02pm

Originally posted by Bombshell Bombshell wrote:



link



There you go.

Good luck with everything]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:02:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257930&title=custody-issues#257930 <![CDATA[custody issues : he is a guardian (married and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257923&title=custody-issues#257923 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 8:00pm

he is a guardian (married and on birth cert!) - and that cant be changed. That continues for you both til bubs is 18!!!! lots of rights and obligations with that - look here

http://www.courts.govt.nz/family/what-familycourt-does/children/guardianship.asp

(cna anyone change this to a linky for me?)

as for custody etc - PM me....Now all covered by the care of children act

BTW do not google guardianship as USA definition is VERY different to NZ!]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:00:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257923&title=custody-issues#257923 <![CDATA[custody issues : Hope everything is ok with you....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257873&title=custody-issues#257873 Author: Leish
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 6:43pm

Hope everything is ok with you. Hugs ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 18:43:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257873&title=custody-issues#257873 <![CDATA[custody issues : Yea PM Bombshell&#039;s your best...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257870&title=custody-issues#257870 Author: busymum
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 6:42pm

Yea PM Bombshell's your best way to go. Hope all works out well ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 18:42:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257870&title=custody-issues#257870 <![CDATA[custody issues : i dont know much but if they are...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257798&title=custody-issues#257798 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 4:33pm

i dont know much but if they are on birth certificate and married i assume they have equal legal rights..but yes i think people normally try to sort it out themselves and then it goes to court if they cant.. in my aunties case he didn't want contact and they told him he would lose access if he didn't see them every once in a while and he didn't want to..it was sad:( 2 years on he still doesn't ...sorry i dont know from personal experience..but someone around here will. ]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 16:33:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257798&title=custody-issues#257798 <![CDATA[custody issues : Danni-chick wrote:I think it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257779&title=custody-issues#257779 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 3:59pm

Originally posted by Danni-chick Danni-chick wrote:

I think it's normally a private choice adn if one party doesn't like the arrangements thats when it would go to court.


yep thats it - but it pays to get it written up as a legal doc even if you do decide between youselves.]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 15:59:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257779&title=custody-issues#257779 <![CDATA[custody issues : yes married and yes on the birth...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257777&title=custody-issues#257777 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 3:58pm

yes married and yes on the birth certificate....

]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 15:58:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257777&title=custody-issues#257777 <![CDATA[custody issues : Bombshell might be able to answer...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257762&title=custody-issues#257762 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 3:26pm

Bombshell might be able to answer your questions, PM her. Hope all is ok *hugs*]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 15:26:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257762&title=custody-issues#257762 <![CDATA[custody issues : I think it&#039;s normally a private...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257723&title=custody-issues#257723 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 1:51pm

I think it's normally a private choice adn if one party doesn't like the arrangements thats when it would go to court.
]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 13:51:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257723&title=custody-issues#257723 <![CDATA[custody issues : assuming they aren&#039;t married?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257698&title=custody-issues#257698 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 1:05pm

assuming they aren't married? is he on the birth certificate?]]> Wed, 05 Dec 2007 13:05:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257698&title=custody-issues#257698 <![CDATA[custody issues : Does anyone know what legal rights...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12758&PID=257694&title=custody-issues#257694 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 12758
Posted: 05 December 2007 at 12:56pm

Does anyone know what legal rights the father has to the child if he leaves. Is there a certain amount of time that he has the definate right to, or is it all done via private agreement, (or through the courts if it goes that way)

Any help would be great.

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