https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 03 Apr 2026 21:25:36 +0000 Thu, 27 Dec 2007 19:24:18 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=12997 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=267400&title=dummies#267400 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 12997
Posted: 27 December 2007 at 7:24pm

Hmmmm I really should start doing this too with Blake.........]]> Thu, 27 Dec 2007 19:24:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=267400&title=dummies#267400 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=265650&title=dummies#265650 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 12997
Posted: 21 December 2007 at 8:44am

Awesome!! Well done Rach ]]> Fri, 21 Dec 2007 08:44:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=265650&title=dummies#265650 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=265608&title=dummies#265608 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 12997
Posted: 20 December 2007 at 11:00pm

Its gone yay been a week now He never had a word for it so I suspect he asked for it but i just pretended I didn't know what he was saying. ]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2007 23:00:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=265608&title=dummies#265608 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=264343&title=dummies#264343 Author: mamawendz
Subject: 12997
Posted: 18 December 2007 at 12:22pm

This was a big thing for us too.

Maddisyn didn't use a dummy, but Layla-Mei did and we only just weaned her off last month.

Layla-Mei is 17 months now and we felt it was time for her to give up the dummy.

During the day she was fine, never asked for it. But at night I felt terrible. She cried and cried and always asked for it, but I just told her "no more, its okay, you're such a good girl!" and cuddled her until she would fall asleep.

Thankfully by sticking to our guns, it only lasted 3 nights until she learned that she just wasn't going to get it. After the third night she would still ask for it but wouldn't cry when she didn't get it, only a moan.

It took about another week for her to completely forget about it and not want it anymore, then we gave her a lovely soft toy "Mr Monkey" which she adores and that is her bed-time friend now.

You just have to stick to it. You feel so mean at first, but once its over, its over, and its worth it! :o)

Be strong... you can do it. ]]> Tue, 18 Dec 2007 12:22:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=264343&title=dummies#264343 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262765&title=dummies#262765 Author: busymum
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 9:23pm

Well done Jack! ]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:23:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262765&title=dummies#262765 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262763&title=dummies#262763 Author: AnnC
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 9:20pm

I would say we lost it... he would understand or say hes a big boy now and big boys don't have dummies. my kids were around Jacks age when i took their off him (maybe a few months younger) Rhyley still has one, I know hes not ready to give it up but he only has it at bedtime (sleep time) or if hes really grumpy and upset.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:20:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262763&title=dummies#262763 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262755&title=dummies#262755 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 9:16pm

I had no real plan as to when we would get rid of it and he falls asleep all the time without it anyway. I've given him all these toys and a ball in his bed but he still kept asking. I left him to it and within 10 mins he was asleep which is about the same as with dums so we might leave it.

I can't help but feel terrible, his wee eyes would roll back in his head when he had dums lol I think I might get him something special as a replacement so he still has something to love.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:16:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262755&title=dummies#262755 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262749&title=dummies#262749 Author: katie1
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 9:11pm

Hmmm a hard one. I don't know either. He has done well not having it for a few nights so you are possibly halfway there??? I guess I would probably see how upset he gets. If he is totally distressed and you are not bothered if he has it for longer maybe give it back???? I really don't know though. Ollie has one and I have no idea how we will get rid of it.
Good luck.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:11:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262749&title=dummies#262749 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262736&title=dummies#262736 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 9:01pm

IT took Hannah a full week before she seemed to forget about her dummy. I guess now is as good a time as any. Maybe not if he's still a bit off colour tho.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 21:01:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262736&title=dummies#262736 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262727&title=dummies#262727 Author: busymum
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 8:56pm

I suspect it will take him a week to forget... when did you want to wean him off it? Now is definitely a possibility. Does he have any other usual bedtime thing, eg teddy bear - for comfort? I suspect if you ride through 2 nights, you'll be ok.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 20:56:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262727&title=dummies#262727 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262719&title=dummies#262719 Author: lizzle
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 8:54pm

no idea. we really had lost Jake and Taine's dummies whe they weened themselves and espcially in Jake's case, we had nothing else we could give them. so they went cold turkey and didn't really care too much. Not sure what you should do, but keeping it from him certianly won't scar him for life, and he probabloy won't even remember it in a months time.]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 20:54:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262719&title=dummies#262719 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262710&title=dummies#262710 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 12997
Posted: 15 December 2007 at 8:50pm

Ok Jack didn't have his dummy while he was sick for the 2 days so I thought that could be the end of dums. But then tonight (about 3 days since dums was last used) he was asking for it and has been really upset looking for it. Up until this point I haven't mentioned it at all so what should I say? Should I try and distract him or explain that he doesn't need them, or should I pull them back out and say goodbye properly?

Also how long until hes forgotten about them?

There is a wee part of me that feels so mean and think I should give in and give him his dums and let him choose when its time to give up. Argghh somebody tell me what to do I feel like either way I'll scar him for life]]> Sat, 15 Dec 2007 20:50:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=12997&PID=262710&title=dummies#262710