OHbaby! Forums : I lost the baby https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 07 May 2026 11:14:31 +0000 Tue, 14 Feb 2006 12:24:31 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=1312 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma....So sorry to hear about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28059&title=i-lost-the-baby#28059 Author: Roksana
Subject: 1312
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 12:24pm

Oh Emma....So sorry to hear about your loss (I never use to log on....so I am sooo behind). Dont know what to say??? ]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 12:24:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28059&title=i-lost-the-baby#28059 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : It takes time emma, you will know...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28015&title=i-lost-the-baby#28015 Author: nuttymama
Subject: 1312
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 6:46am

It takes time emma, you will know when you are ready and when you do you will find a lot of comfort in doing so. I brought a tiny little chest for our little might and it took me months before i could even bring myself to look at it. Then one day i was just ready to say goodbye. You never ever forget but on the whole it does get easier. And now you have this whole other thing to deal with as well. Look after yourself and remember to talk when you need to.]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 06:46:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28015&title=i-lost-the-baby#28015 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Thanks We are planning to bury...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28011&title=i-lost-the-baby#28011 Author: Maya
Subject: 1312
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 11:31pm

Thanks We are planning to bury bubs on Willie's family land up at Helensville, I'm not quite ready yet tho. Soon, but not yet.]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 23:31:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=28011&title=i-lost-the-baby#28011 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Thats really sad Emma, Im sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=27981&title=i-lost-the-baby#27981 Author: robyn
Subject: 1312
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 7:27pm

Thats really sad Emma, Im sorry to hear you lost your baby. Whenever I hear things like this it reminds me of when I lost our twins at 10 weeks. For ages I felt like I had to justify why I was so upset when I was only 10 weeks but in the end I thought no matter how far along I was they were still my babies and part of our future. I buried them with a rose and now think of them whenever I see it. Our baby is due 3 days before the twins were due which was not at all planned but kind of nice.]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 19:27:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=27981&title=i-lost-the-baby#27981 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=27940&title=i-lost-the-baby#27940 Author: 1ontheway
Subject: 1312
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 1:59pm

IM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS, I HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT MYSELF, I WAS 13WKS WHEN IT HAPPENED, SO I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH, BUT REST ASHORE THINGS DO HAPPEN FOR A REASON EVEN WHEN IT SEEMS THAT THE WORLD HATES YOU. IN TIME YOU WILL MEND THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND YOU MAY END UP WITH A LITTLE BUNDLE AGAIN

MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU  

]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 13:59:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=27940&title=i-lost-the-baby#27940 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma I&#039;m so sorry, It breaks...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=26165&title=i-lost-the-baby#26165 Author: nuttymama
Subject: 1312
Posted: 26 January 2006 at 6:31am

Emma I'm so sorry, It breaks your heart when you see that scan and then find they have gone. the best advice I can give you is talk about it, that was a baby and no matter how small you,willie and maya have suffered a loss. I reckon having bubs back really helps as it's quite healing. Thinking about you! ]]> Thu, 26 Jan 2006 06:31:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=26165&title=i-lost-the-baby#26165 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : aw emma, i am so sorry. sending...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=25273&title=i-lost-the-baby#25273 Author: faewie
Subject: 1312
Posted: 18 January 2006 at 1:51pm

aw emma, i am so sorry.
sending big soul hugs your way.
glad your home :)

]]> Wed, 18 Jan 2006 13:51:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=25273&title=i-lost-the-baby#25273 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Thanks It is getting easier as...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=24910&title=i-lost-the-baby#24910 Author: Maya
Subject: 1312
Posted: 16 January 2006 at 8:39pm

Thanks It is getting easier as time goe by, although in the beginning I thought it never would. And being home in NZ is really healing too, seeing Willie and being in my own house again.]]> Mon, 16 Jan 2006 20:39:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=24910&title=i-lost-the-baby#24910 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : I&#039;m so sorry to hear your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=24865&title=i-lost-the-baby#24865 Author: carissah
Subject: 1312
Posted: 16 January 2006 at 4:53pm

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you both at this difficult time. **Hugs**]]> Mon, 16 Jan 2006 16:53:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=24865&title=i-lost-the-baby#24865 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Im So Sorry to hear that. I Know...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23828&title=i-lost-the-baby#23828 Author: Dashone
Subject: 1312
Posted: 10 January 2006 at 2:18pm

Im So Sorry to hear that. I Know just how you feel. Before this pregnancy i had a missed miscarriage. I still remember seeing my baby on the ultrasound and there was no heart beat.

Big Hugs]]> Tue, 10 Jan 2006 14:18:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23828&title=i-lost-the-baby#23828 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma, I&#039;m so sorry to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23430&title=i-lost-the-baby#23430 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 1312
Posted: 06 January 2006 at 7:41pm

Oh Emma, I'm so sorry to hear your news. We are all thinking of you. ]]> Fri, 06 Jan 2006 19:41:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23430&title=i-lost-the-baby#23430 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : I was reading a post and noticed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23329&title=i-lost-the-baby#23329 Author: meow
Subject: 1312
Posted: 05 January 2006 at 9:19pm

I was reading a post and noticed that you didn't have your baby due message in your sig anymore, so came looking here for answers.
I'm so, so sorry.. I can't imagine how it must feel, but take heart in that everything happens for a reason. *big hugs*

p.s
I'm not sure what you should do about being in Australia, but your parents will help look after Maya if you stay.. but like you, I'd want to be with my s/o too hope you figure things out soon!]]> Thu, 05 Jan 2006 21:19:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23329&title=i-lost-the-baby#23329 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Ohhh, Emma! I read one of your...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23303&title=i-lost-the-baby#23303 Author: daikini
Subject: 1312
Posted: 05 January 2006 at 5:27pm

Ohhh, Emma! I read one of your other posts somewhere else, and was so excited for you I went looking for your "official" announcement so I could congratulate you. When I saw this one, I cried.

You, Willie and Maya are in my prayers (but especially you).]]> Thu, 05 Jan 2006 17:27:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23303&title=i-lost-the-baby#23303 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma, I am really sad to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23172&title=i-lost-the-baby#23172 Author: preggy_sunflower
Subject: 1312
Posted: 04 January 2006 at 8:35am

Emma, I am really sad to hear your news. I hope you are doing ok. Take care, and big hugs to you.

Clare]]> Wed, 04 Jan 2006 08:35:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23172&title=i-lost-the-baby#23172 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : please just do what u feel is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23137&title=i-lost-the-baby#23137 Author: james
Subject: 1312
Posted: 03 January 2006 at 6:40pm

please just do what u feel is right for u and maya (big hugs)]]> Tue, 03 Jan 2006 18:40:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23137&title=i-lost-the-baby#23137 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Im glad the docs were respectful...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23129&title=i-lost-the-baby#23129 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 1312
Posted: 03 January 2006 at 4:50pm

Im glad the docs were respectful of your wishes.

Go where you feel you will have the most support. Is it possible or do you want to leave Maya in Australia for a couple of weeks so you can come back to NZ for just some you and Willie Time?

Thinking of you, and Im glad that the bush fires didnt get to you!]]> Tue, 03 Jan 2006 16:50:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23129&title=i-lost-the-baby#23129 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Thank you everyone for your support....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23118&title=i-lost-the-baby#23118 Author: Maya
Subject: 1312
Posted: 03 January 2006 at 3:20pm

Thank you everyone for your support. I had a D & C last night at Royal North Shore Hospital here in Sydney. The doctor told me that it is the safest way to ensure that we are able to fall pregnant again soon, and it also gives me some closure knowing that baby is actually gone. They have been really good about letting me keep 'baby' too, so we are able to bring him/her home and bury him/her in the same spot where we buried Maya's placenta. Its apparantly an unusual request for them here, in NZ it is commonplace, so the doctors did think I was a little strange, but they were very respectful of our wishes.

I am now undecided whether or not to cut our plans short and come home in a couple of days, or wait till 15th like planned. On teh one hand I really believe that this is something Willie and I need to work thru together, and so I should go home, but on the other hand it is 3 weeks till Maya starts back at daycare, so I will just be sitting at home feeling miserable, and making her miserable too, and Mum and Dad have booked an apartment for next week on the Central Coast and I'm sure Maya would enjoy that a lot more. PLus I have great supportive friends up there who will look after me.
So I haven't decided yet. I wish Willie would come here, but this place already holds bad memories for him (his first wife died here) so he isn't keen on coming back again under bad circumstances either.]]> Tue, 03 Jan 2006 15:20:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23118&title=i-lost-the-baby#23118 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma, I too am so sorry. My thoughts...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23080&title=i-lost-the-baby#23080 Author: newmum
Subject: 1312
Posted: 02 January 2006 at 10:10pm

Emma, I too am so sorry. My thoughts are with you. ]]> Mon, 02 Jan 2006 22:10:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23080&title=i-lost-the-baby#23080 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma. So so sorry to hear about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23079&title=i-lost-the-baby#23079 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 1312
Posted: 02 January 2006 at 9:40pm

Oh Emma. So so sorry to hear about your loss. Lots of love and hugs
xoxoxox]]> Mon, 02 Jan 2006 21:40:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23079&title=i-lost-the-baby#23079 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : i am so soo sorry to hear about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23066&title=i-lost-the-baby#23066 Author: james
Subject: 1312
Posted: 02 January 2006 at 3:28pm

i am so soo sorry to hear about your loss (lots of hugs)
]]> Mon, 02 Jan 2006 15:28:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23066&title=i-lost-the-baby#23066 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : I&#039;m really sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23062&title=i-lost-the-baby#23062 Author: Paws
Subject: 1312
Posted: 02 January 2006 at 2:13pm

I'm really sorry to hear that, I know words cannot make it easier so just know that my thoughts are with you. *hug* ]]> Mon, 02 Jan 2006 14:13:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23062&title=i-lost-the-baby#23062 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma, thats such awful news....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23057&title=i-lost-the-baby#23057 Author: toniellis
Subject: 1312
Posted: 02 January 2006 at 12:55pm

Oh Emma, thats such awful news. Hope you are doing ok. We are all here for you & I'm sure you are spending a lot of time with family. Big hugs
]]> Mon, 02 Jan 2006 12:55:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23057&title=i-lost-the-baby#23057 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma I am soooo sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23042&title=i-lost-the-baby#23042 Author: k&jsmum
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 5:47pm

Emma I am soooo sorry to hear your sad news and shed a few tears for you. Big hugs to you from us ]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 17:47:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23042&title=i-lost-the-baby#23042 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : you know where i am if you want...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23040&title=i-lost-the-baby#23040 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 3:37pm



you know where i am if you want to talk...]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 15:37:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23040&title=i-lost-the-baby#23040 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma i am so sorry to hear if...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23038&title=i-lost-the-baby#23038 Author: Guests
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 1:51pm

Emma i am so sorry to hear if you need to chat u can talk to me my thoughts are with you and your family *hugs*]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 13:51:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23038&title=i-lost-the-baby#23038 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma, I am so sorry. This...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23034&title=i-lost-the-baby#23034 Author: AnnaD
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 12:00pm

Oh Emma, I am so sorry. This is such sad news, I hope that you are being well looked after. You are in our thoughts.]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 12:00:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23034&title=i-lost-the-baby#23034 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Sorry to hear this Emma, that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23032&title=i-lost-the-baby#23032 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 10:52am

Sorry to hear this Emma, that is so sad. Lots of hugs to you all, we'll be thinking of you.]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 10:52:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23032&title=i-lost-the-baby#23032 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : send you and your family lots...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23025&title=i-lost-the-baby#23025 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 8:39am

send you and your family lots of love and support, my thoughts are with you at this time.]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 08:39:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23025&title=i-lost-the-baby#23025 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : My thoughts are with you - make...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23020&title=i-lost-the-baby#23020 Author: lou
Subject: 1312
Posted: 01 January 2006 at 7:25am

My thoughts are with you - make sure you take care of yourself]]> Sun, 01 Jan 2006 07:25:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23020&title=i-lost-the-baby#23020 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : oh Emma I am so sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23007&title=i-lost-the-baby#23007 Author: Alan Mum
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 8:41pm

oh Emma I am so sorry to hear about your loss take care of yourself .]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 20:41:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23007&title=i-lost-the-baby#23007 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma!I&#039;m so sorry for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23005&title=i-lost-the-baby#23005 Author: lizzle
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 5:16pm

Oh Emma!   I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss! ]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 17:16:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23005&title=i-lost-the-baby#23005 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Emma, I wish I was there so I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23004&title=i-lost-the-baby#23004 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 5:09pm

Emma, I wish I was there so I could give you a big hug. Im so sorry for your loss. Im sending lots of love your way.]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 17:09:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=23004&title=i-lost-the-baby#23004 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Oh Emma I am so sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22998&title=i-lost-the-baby#22998 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 4:33pm

Oh Emma I am so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you too ]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 16:33:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22998&title=i-lost-the-baby#22998 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : ohh Maya Im sorry to hear about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22994&title=i-lost-the-baby#22994 Author: Tastic
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 4:03pm

ohh Maya Im sorry to hear about your loss :( My thoughts are with you and your family

Trish]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 16:03:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22994&title=i-lost-the-baby#22994 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : Maya i dont know what to say except...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22993&title=i-lost-the-baby#22993 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 3:58pm

Maya i dont know what to say except i am so sorry for your loss.....this must be a really difficult time for u and i wont give u any of the "u can try again" speeches etc cos i know it wont bring ur baby back....my thoughts are with u chick *big hugs*


But let us know when u know for sure a?]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 15:58:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22993&title=i-lost-the-baby#22993 <![CDATA[I lost the baby : I sterted spotting this morning,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22991&title=i-lost-the-baby#22991 Author: Maya
Subject: 1312
Posted: 31 December 2005 at 3:51pm

I sterted spotting this morning, and went to the doctors. The ultrasound shows a gestational sac only 4w6days which is smaller than it should be, and fluid around my ovaries. They told me to come back in a few days to repeat the ultrasound and see if baby is growing, but it looks like he/she stopped growing a few days ago.
I also had my hCg levels checked, and will get the results later today or first thing tomorrow, but the bleeding is quite heavy now so I supsect that the test will just confirm the obvious.]]> Sat, 31 Dec 2005 15:51:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1312&PID=22991&title=i-lost-the-baby#22991