OHbaby! Forums : So its not her dad.. https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 10 Apr 2026 17:25:24 +0000 Mon, 21 Jan 2008 21:45:20 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=13781 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Wow Mel, that&#039;s great news!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282838&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282838 Author: Maya
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 9:45pm

Wow Mel, that's great news! I remember you talking about your MIL and thinking to myself what a cow she sounded like so you're a strong person for being able to lay all that aside for Briahna's sake.
Best of luck with it all! If it helps, Willie's family were great to Maya even when he was being a big time w*nker.]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 21:45:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282838&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282838 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Good on you for writing that letter...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282816&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282816 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 9:35pm

Good on you for writing that letter - I think it will be good for Briahna to know both sides of the family. Sounds like the grandmother is keen and hope you'll develop a good healthy relationship.

]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 21:35:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282816&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282816 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Thanks guys :) it was hard! It...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282341&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282341 Author: MelanieAndBree
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 1:50pm

Thanks guys :) it was hard! It took me amonth to put it in the mailbox. hehe

I really wanted her to know her whole family aye, cause growing up i had so much fun with lots of cousins and family do's and what not. I want her to have that too and even though she would have enough love from my side she deserves to know her other side even if her dad doesnt wanna meet her!

we yeah, its hard not to fall in love with that little chees ball!! ]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 13:50:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282341&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282341 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : thats really cool mel , and you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282270&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282270 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 12:43pm

thats really cool mel , and you were very brave and mature (and the better person) by taking that first step, it would have been easy to cut off contact etc after how they treated you but you obviously put your own feelings aside for your little girl, good for you :-)

I know she'll see her and fall in love , who wouldn't :-)]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 12:43:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282270&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282270 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Good on you for making that first...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282255&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282255 Author: EmDee
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 12:29pm

Good on you for making that first step, I seriously don't know if I could be 'big' enough to do it.

And that is awesome that her grandmother wants to meet her ]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 12:29:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282255&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282255 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Yay Mel, that&#039;s great that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282090&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282090 Author: .Mel
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 9:49am

Yay Mel, that's great that you have both made such an important step for your little girl.

]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 09:49:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282090&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282090 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : thats relly good well done chick...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282006&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282006 Author: james
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 7:13am

thats relly good well done chick ]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 07:13:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=282006&title=so-its-not-her-dad#282006 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Hey, that is a good step and hopefully...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281981&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281981 Author: miss
Subject: 13781
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 12:32am

Hey, that is a good step and hopefully you will be bale to have a nice relationship so that briahna can have a relationship with that side of her family.

i am very impressed that you have tried - yay you. ANd from the pics, she is gorgeous you did well!]]> Mon, 21 Jan 2008 00:32:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281981&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281981 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : good on you for getting in contact...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281944&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281944 Author: AnnC
Subject: 13781
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 11:18pm

good on you for getting in contact with them it would of been a hard thing to do. Glad the grandmother is keen to meet Briahna.]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 23:18:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281944&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281944 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Wow thats good of her. Hopefully...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281936&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281936 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 13781
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 11:09pm

Wow thats good of her. Hopefully she can have a good relationship with you grand mother.

]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 23:09:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281936&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281936 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : Awww glad to hear her grandmother...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281926&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281926 Author: Kels
Subject: 13781
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 10:58pm

Awww glad to hear her grandmother wants to meet her. they are very lucky you are willing to let them esp after the way they treated you when you were preg. Best of luck for you and Briahna

]]> Sun, 20 Jan 2008 22:58:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281926&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281926 <![CDATA[So its not her dad.. : but his mum wants to meet Briahna! Thats...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=13781&PID=281923&title=so-its-not-her-dad#281923 Author: MelanieAndBree
Subject: 13781
Posted: 20 January 2008 at 10:53pm

but his mum wants to meet Briahna!

Thats better than nothing right? Im quite happy about it. I wrote her a letter a couple weeks ago and she wrote back saying a whole lot of things. It was a surprisingly nice letter (if anyone remembers me saying about what happened, the exs parents werent exactly nice to me when i found out i was pregnant).

She admitted she lost her temper and said that she has put together a scrapbook of the exs pics for me to look at cause i mentioned how i dont know if she looks like him as a baby and yeah..

She didnt mention the ex but im just glad that my last effort to get them to have anything to do with her worked. Maybe not for Briahnas dad but at least his mum is interested in her grand daughter!

Im just so surprised. I didnt expect a reply! I expected the letter to be returned or something mean like that lol.

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