TraceyA wrote: Ohh Emmecat, I'm sorry, the temptation can just get too much not to, I know, especially when you feel pretty sure this is it this time. Want some chocolate? *passes the Lindt balls*

Hey thanks Tracey....it just gets on top of me too...and doesn't take much!!

**grabs offered Lindt balls, shoves the entire lot in my face and walks down to dairy to get more**

Aargh this ttc thing is doing my head in a little! Only an hour ago I'm posting some words of comfort to Tracey and now I"m the one who needs it!  Posted it in the 2WW thread as well but am just feeling like a dick cos I went and tested at 5pm?! and got a BFN. The biggest BFN you have ever seen.  Why did I do that? And why late in the afternoon at 11DPO?! Jeez. Feel like my body is playing tricks on me and maybe I'm not pg after all.

**Grumble grumble**

Hi Tracey, been there, think its half the reason I joined this site. I am not telling friends of family we are trying i'm not entirely sure why, just want to keep it between us at this stage (and all of you,) we've been married 4 years and the other day I got an email from my dad saying this is the year of the granddad hint hint, I felt like writing back and saying its not for lack of trying!!

So yes I guess i'm just saying i know how you feel - chocolate really will help on days like today.

As for people will little tiny and amazingly cute babies, yes they seem to be everywhere.

So that is what we are all here for, support because we all know how this feels and on some days how frustrating it can be - but we WILL get there

LMAO re the walking to get the choclate means the calories don't count!!  Totally right BTW. heehee

Enjoy the choccie. You deserve it. And don't automatically assume you're not gonna get pg this month either...someone has to, and it may as well be you..or me...or both of us!  Also think of the BIG rest you and DP can have now you've past ov......LOL means next time you do it, it'll be cos you both want to, not cos you have to haha  And that's always fun.....

Hi TraceyA, I'm sorry you're feeling blue- if it helps (and it probably won't), I do know what you're going through...as do heaps of the other ladies on here!!

It doesn't seem fair and trust me, I have had moments exactly like yours and even more uncharitable ones where I'm afraid to admit I have judged and thought how unfair it is that young teenage girls get pg after one bad decision and here's me and DP trying after months and it not happening.  Not very nice of me I know, it just sometimes hits when I get anxious about BD'ng at the right times etc. The 2WW is really hard too.

BUT on the bright side, we have DP's who support us- even though they don't quite realise how anxious and time consuming the whole ttc is- and that statistics (such as they are) show that most of us WILL concieve the baby we so want at some stage. Not very consoling when you want to be pg RIGHT NOW (like I do), but heartening nonetheless I think?

It's also good to be able to come onto this board and know that whatever we are feeling or going through, someone else already has or is as well. It's paticularly heartening when you see that someone is pg or now has a baby of their own!

Hope you feel better babe....all I can suggest is a big cry, some good chocolate and a big cuddle from DP.

Take care of yourself.