OHbaby! Forums : My ILs are making me crazy https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 05 May 2026 11:32:53 +0000 Sat, 01 Mar 2008 16:08:54 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=14898 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Ha ha - me too Jen!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=315179&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#315179 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 14898
Posted: 01 March 2008 at 4:08pm

Ha ha - me too Jen!!]]> Sat, 01 Mar 2008 16:08:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=315179&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#315179 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : mummy_becks wrote: Maya wrote:I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=315042&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#315042 Author: Jennz
Subject: 14898
Posted: 01 March 2008 at 10:30am

Originally posted by mummy_becks mummy_becks wrote:

Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:

I DEFINITELY won't have one!


Um you can't say that, you never know how your girls may turn out.



LOL! Charlotte was just saying today that she doesn't want to marry William anymore- she wants to marry Isabel AND Abby So I may have a lesbian polygamist on my hands!

I must admit I am glad I most likely won't ever have a DIL! (I mean most likely in that the girls will most likely be straight NOT as in I might wind up having another child!).

]]> Sat, 01 Mar 2008 10:30:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=315042&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#315042 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Maya wrote:I DEFINITELY won&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314831&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314831 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 9:50pm

Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:

I DEFINITELY won't have one!

Um you can't say that, you never know how your girls may turn out.

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 21:50:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314831&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314831 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : I DEFINITELY won&#039;t have one!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314826&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314826 Author: Maya
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 9:46pm

I DEFINITELY won't have one!]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 21:46:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314826&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314826 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : At least I won&#039;t have a DIL...at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314823&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314823 Author: busymum
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 9:43pm

At least I won't have a DIL...at this rate ]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 21:43:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314823&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314823 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : *note to self* don&#039;t let...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314773&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314773 Author: Maya
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:57pm

*note to self* don't let a gremlin marry Josh...]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:57:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314773&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314773 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : OMG I think I would be the worlds...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314747&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314747 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:36pm

OMG I think I would be the worlds worst MIL when my boys get married. If I have a girl boys will have a lot to learn with her daddy in the Army

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:36:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314747&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314747 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Hell yes, Daddy has a shotgun...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314740&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314740 Author: Maya
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:27pm

Hell yes, Daddy has a shotgun AND a pair of steel capped boots....

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:27:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314740&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314740 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : or daughter.... she will be in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314736&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314736 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:22pm

or daughter.... she will be in the convent at 11...]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:22:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314736&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314736 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : lol, nor can I, Emma, and I already...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314734&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314734 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:22pm

lol, nor can I, Emma, and I already know I will be a beearch, cos NO SKANK will EVER be good enough for my son... mwa ha ha ]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:22:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314734&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314734 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : fattartsrock wrote: Maya...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314733&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314733 Author: Maya
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:20pm

Originally posted by fattartsrock fattartsrock wrote:

Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:

*hugs* I have absolutely no experience with IL's having thankfully been spared PIL's (not that I wanted them to die or anything but it's worked out well for me ) but big hugs Mel!


Same here....

Just remember, though, one day you will be the inlaw...lolololol!


Ah yes, four times over even - I can hardly wait *rubs hands together in glee* ]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:20:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314733&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314733 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Maya wrote:*hugs* I have absolutely...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314729&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314729 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 8:15pm

Originally posted by Maya Maya wrote:

*hugs* I have absolutely no experience with IL's having thankfully been spared PIL's (not that I wanted them to die or anything but it's worked out well for me ) but big hugs Mel!


Same here....

Just remember, though, one day you will be the inlaw...lolololol!]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 20:15:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314729&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314729 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : aimeejoy wrote:We need a dedicated...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314713&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314713 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 7:53pm

Originally posted by aimeejoy aimeejoy wrote:

We need a dedicated thread for this, it is such a recurring topic!!

Very true Aimee

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 19:53:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314713&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314713 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : We need a dedicated thread for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314711&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314711 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 7:49pm

We need a dedicated thread for this, it is such a recurring topic!! You definitely have my sympathy Mel ]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 19:49:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314711&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314711 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : *hugs* I have absolutely no experience...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314680&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314680 Author: Maya
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 7:01pm

*hugs* I have absolutely no experience with IL's having thankfully been spared PIL's (not that I wanted them to die or anything but it's worked out well for me ) but big hugs Mel!]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 19:01:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314680&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314680 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Awww Mel that totally bites for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314657&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314657 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 6:40pm

Awww Mel that totally bites for you. Spose I should be glad mine are getting a lot better.

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 18:40:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314657&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314657 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : It sounds like me having another...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314645&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314645 Author: BessieBear
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 6:22pm

It sounds like me having another whinge again. My inlaws are right royal pains in the behinds. I am feeling very scared about bringing their first grandchild into the world they seem to ring and turn up at our house enuff as it is.

I feel for ya hun. but frankly if we get a man we get inlaws.

]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 18:22:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314645&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314645 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : Mel you&#039;ve married their...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314640&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314640 Author: .Mel
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 5:54pm

Mel you've married their little boy. Regardless of how old he is they will always see him as that.

I so can relate to you, I have a very difficult relationship with my outlaws. But I grin and bear it and bite my tongue ALOT.

You may need to stick up for yourself, and let it be known to them that you aren't putting up with their demands anymore, and that they are NOT to interfer anymore.

You can either tell Dh what you are going to do and have him backing you up, or do it on your own.

Be Strong Mel, it's the only way you can keep your sanity.]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 17:54:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314640&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314640 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : It never is good enough usually....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314627&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314627 Author: MissAngel
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 5:33pm

It never is good enough usually. My inlaws are retards - and I dont say that lightly either. BFs mum ALWAYS makes me do excessive amounts of work when I go over there - lifting etc, I got to the point where I had to be verbally rude to her to make her listen to me. I hope you get things sorted :)]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 17:33:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314627&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314627 <![CDATA[My ILs are making me crazy : They&#039;re too hard to explain...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314622&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314622 Author: caraMel
Subject: 14898
Posted: 29 February 2008 at 5:28pm

They're too hard to explain but their constant demands and expectations are too much for me at the moment!
I'm just not what they want me to be and I never will be.
Why doesn't loving and doing my best for their son and grandchildren make me good enough?
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!
*tanties*]]> Fri, 29 Feb 2008 17:28:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=14898&PID=314622&title=my-ils-are-making-me-crazy#314622