OHbaby! Forums : I got some answers https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 29 Apr 2026 22:02:38 +0000 Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:07:29 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15122 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I got some answers : take care of u ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320914&title=i-got-some-answers#320914 Author: LJsmum
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 8:07pm

take care of u]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:07:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320914&title=i-got-some-answers#320914 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Big hugs Stacey, thinking of you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320860&title=i-got-some-answers#320860 Author: Maya
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 7:07pm

Big hugs Stacey, thinking of you and Richard ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 19:07:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320860&title=i-got-some-answers#320860 <![CDATA[I got some answers : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320801&title=i-got-some-answers#320801 Author: katie1
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 4:53pm

]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 16:53:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320801&title=i-got-some-answers#320801 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Big hugs Stacey. Make sure you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320764&title=i-got-some-answers#320764 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 3:31pm

Big hugs Stacey. Make sure you spoil yourself rotten once you feel up to it ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 15:31:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320764&title=i-got-some-answers#320764 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Big hugs hun ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320746&title=i-got-some-answers#320746 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 2:42pm

Big hugs hun ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 14:42:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320746&title=i-got-some-answers#320746 <![CDATA[I got some answers : I&#039;m so sorry. I hope the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320715&title=i-got-some-answers#320715 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 1:18pm

I'm so sorry. I hope the meds don't make you ill for too long and that you start feeling a better soon. ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 13:18:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320715&title=i-got-some-answers#320715 <![CDATA[I got some answers : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320714&title=i-got-some-answers#320714 Author: james
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 1:06pm

]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 13:06:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320714&title=i-got-some-answers#320714 <![CDATA[I got some answers : My mum is going to come over each...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320698&title=i-got-some-answers#320698 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 12:39pm

My mum is going to come over each weekday while DH is at work and the days that she can't DH is going to work from home.

Cuppatea they know it's ectopic because of the scan. It showed nothing in my uterus but did show it right beside my left ovary. It's so obvious that even I can see it very clearly. And all my pain has been on my left side, none on the right.

Stupid meds have made me feel blah, the anti nausea stuff is partly working at least.]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 12:39:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320698&title=i-got-some-answers#320698 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Stacey, I am so very sorry to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320682&title=i-got-some-answers#320682 Author: miss
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 11:56am

Stacey, I am so very sorry to hear that the loss has been compounded by having to go through this treatment as well. Big hugs and hoping that things don't get worse.]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 11:56:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320682&title=i-got-some-answers#320682 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Stacey, thinking of you ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320680&title=i-got-some-answers#320680 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 11:54am

Stacey, thinking of you ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 11:54:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320680&title=i-got-some-answers#320680 <![CDATA[I got some answers : kebakat I am so so sorry. I hope...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320669&title=i-got-some-answers#320669 Author: AandRs_mum
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 11:04am

kebakat
I am so so sorry. I hope you are felling better soon. It is not a nice thing to go thro. I have lost a few babies but never this way. I am thinking of you. Be kind to yourself hun. When you feel ready go and spoil yourself ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 11:04:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320669&title=i-got-some-answers#320669 <![CDATA[I got some answers : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320623&title=i-got-some-answers#320623 Author: Glow
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 9:02am

]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 09:02:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320623&title=i-got-some-answers#320623 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Edited by daikini ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320592&title=i-got-some-answers#320592 Author: daikini
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 8:07am



Edited by daikini]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 08:07:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320592&title=i-got-some-answers#320592 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Stacey, I&#039;m so sorry that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320580&title=i-got-some-answers#320580 Author: EmDee
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 6:59am

Stacey, I'm so sorry that you are going through this ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 06:59:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320580&title=i-got-some-answers#320580 <![CDATA[I got some answers : So very sorry to hear your bad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320574&title=i-got-some-answers#320574 Author: caraMel
Subject: 15122
Posted: 08 March 2008 at 12:24am

So very sorry to hear your bad news Stacey. Hugs and thoughts to you and Richard. ]]> Sat, 08 Mar 2008 00:24:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320574&title=i-got-some-answers#320574 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Oh Stacey... I feel for you and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320561&title=i-got-some-answers#320561 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 10:34pm

Oh Stacey... I feel for you and Richard.

xoxoxoxoxoxox

I hope you manage to get some rest and hugs etc over the next while.]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 22:34:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320561&title=i-got-some-answers#320561 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Big hugs Stacey ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320520&title=i-got-some-answers#320520 Author: susieq
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 9:41pm

Big hugs Stacey]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 21:41:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320520&title=i-got-some-answers#320520 <![CDATA[I got some answers : sorry to hear that. did they do...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320476&title=i-got-some-answers#320476 Author: my2angels
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 9:23pm

sorry to hear that. did they do another scan?
]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 21:23:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320476&title=i-got-some-answers#320476 <![CDATA[I got some answers : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320456&title=i-got-some-answers#320456 Author: Kels
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 9:13pm

]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 21:13:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320456&title=i-got-some-answers#320456 <![CDATA[I got some answers : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320416&title=i-got-some-answers#320416 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 8:41pm

]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 20:41:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320416&title=i-got-some-answers#320416 <![CDATA[I got some answers : oh no! I hope the drugs do their...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320406&title=i-got-some-answers#320406 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 8:31pm

oh no! I hope the drugs do their thing and everything goes as smoothly as it can. How stressful and horrible it must be for all of you.]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 20:31:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320406&title=i-got-some-answers#320406 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Wow! I&#039;m sorry to hear that....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320391&title=i-got-some-answers#320391 Author: busymum
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 8:09pm

Wow! I'm sorry to hear that. How can you be 'supervised' 24/7? Has your DH got time off?]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 20:09:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320391&title=i-got-some-answers#320391 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Hey you! So sorry to hear the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320384&title=i-got-some-answers#320384 Author: .Mel
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 8:02pm

Hey you!
So sorry to hear the news. Take care of yourself.
Hugs!]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 20:02:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320384&title=i-got-some-answers#320384 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Anytime you need me, txt me OK....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320381&title=i-got-some-answers#320381 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:59pm

Anytime you need me, txt me OK.

]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:59:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320381&title=i-got-some-answers#320381 <![CDATA[I got some answers : I&#039;m so sorry Stacey. What...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320378&title=i-got-some-answers#320378 Author: katie1
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:57pm

I'm so sorry Stacey. What a horrible full on day. So much to process and deal with. Thinking of you. ]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:57:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320378&title=i-got-some-answers#320378 <![CDATA[I got some answers : so sorry to hear that Stacey ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320369&title=i-got-some-answers#320369 Author: Mum2ET
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:49pm

so sorry to hear that Stacey   

]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:49:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320369&title=i-got-some-answers#320369 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Stacey ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320354&title=i-got-some-answers#320354 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:37pm

Stacey ]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:37:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320354&title=i-got-some-answers#320354 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Oh my gosh, Stacey, that&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320349&title=i-got-some-answers#320349 Author: Andie
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:35pm

Oh my gosh, Stacey, that's so much to go through.  You hang in there, girl... my thoughts are with you. 

]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:35:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320349&title=i-got-some-answers#320349 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Hugs. Hope things settle down...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320346&title=i-got-some-answers#320346 Author: FionaS
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:33pm

Hugs. Hope things settle down for you really quickly]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:33:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320346&title=i-got-some-answers#320346 <![CDATA[I got some answers : How do they know that it was ectopic?...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320343&title=i-got-some-answers#320343 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:31pm

How do they know that it was ectopic?]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:31:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320343&title=i-got-some-answers#320343 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Oh gosh. Really sorry u had to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320342&title=i-got-some-answers#320342 Author: Kellz
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:31pm

Oh gosh. Really sorry u had to go through all that Stacey. Hope u are able to rest up over the weekend, and the drugs dont knock u too much.]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:31:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320342&title=i-got-some-answers#320342 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Hugs hunny, it all sounds terrible!!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320341&title=i-got-some-answers#320341 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:30pm

Hugs hunny, it all sounds terrible!!! You poor thing going through all this... there is some definite lows to trying to have children isn't there, hugely stressful time. I hope the drugs do their job & there are no more complications with it. ]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:30:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320341&title=i-got-some-answers#320341 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Oh no, I&#039;m sorry it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320337&title=i-got-some-answers#320337 Author: JadeC
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:24pm

Oh no, I'm sorry it's come to this. Take care of yourself ]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:24:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320337&title=i-got-some-answers#320337 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Oh Stacey... wow. I guess it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320325&title=i-got-some-answers#320325 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:04pm

Oh Stacey... wow. I guess it's a good thing you didn't get your hopes up about this pregnancy. It sucks that this has to happen to anyone. Huge hugs to you guys, I hope you get some rest and feel better tomorrow.]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:04:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320325&title=i-got-some-answers#320325 <![CDATA[I got some answers : awwww hunny i am so so so sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320324&title=i-got-some-answers#320324 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:04pm

awwww hunny i am so so so sorry to hear this news , i had all my fingers crossed that it wasnt an ectopic, I hope that things arent too nasty for you.

I am thinking of you and your family ]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:04:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320324&title=i-got-some-answers#320324 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Aww Stacey! You&#039;ve had...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320322&title=i-got-some-answers#320322 Author: meow
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 7:01pm

Aww Stacey!
You've had to go through so much in the past few days!
I hope you have someone nearby to help out - your mum or someone?
]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 19:01:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320322&title=i-got-some-answers#320322 <![CDATA[I got some answers : Today has been one very long day.. Firstly...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320321&title=i-got-some-answers#320321 Author: kebakat
Subject: 15122
Posted: 07 March 2008 at 6:58pm

Today has been one very long day..

Firstly Daniel had insane wind in the early hours of the morning and decided to scream the house down for about 3 hrs straight. Not a great start to the day!

Arrive at the hospital at 8am sharp to get bloods done. They said they would take about an hour to have the results so DH and I walk to a nearby park to kill some time. Finally at 10:30 we get the results! Grrrr, that's one long hour!

My hcg had dropped. It was over 1100 and was now about 900. I've been "diagnosed" with an ectopic miscarriage.

Good and bad.

The house surgeon didn't seem to know what she was talking about so I was very glad to see the gynae.

I was given 3 options:
1. conservative: go away have continuous bloods and another scan in a few days - basically monitor my situation
2. get given some heavy duty drugs - they are actually a form of chemotherapy which should speed things up and expell the "problem". works 95% of the time.
3. surgery, involving removal of my left tube.

We ended up going for number 2. So I've ended up with a very sore butt from being injected with drugs. Both arms are sore from all the bloods with one arm with nasty bruises and also needed anti-d.

The downside to this approach is that I'm not allowed to be alone for the next 2 weeks in case I hemmorrage (as it's ectopic it's still a big risk) and I am not allowed to get preggers for the next 6 months as the drugs will still be in my system and damage any eggs my body releases. But it's worth a shot than damaging my fertility by removing one of my tubes. And to top that all off my chances of having another ectopic pregnancy increases dramatically.

I'm so shattered. I'm buggered from lack of sleep but also because we didn't get out of the hospital until 2pm, and I had been fasting since midnight so no food or drink in that time. Not to mention the stress of it all.]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 18:58:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15122&PID=320321&title=i-got-some-answers#320321