OHbaby! Forums : Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 11 Apr 2026 04:46:25 +0000 Wed, 12 Mar 2008 14:48:38 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15185 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Yup you and your partner need...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=323688&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#323688 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 15185
Posted: 12 March 2008 at 2:48pm

Yup you and your partner need to take a united front against you MIL. She is feeling threatened by you hence her attacks on your relationship.

She needs to know that this behavious is unacceptable, not only is she hurting you but her son as awell as her grandchildren, and they undoubtedly will sense the animosity she has. Don't let her continue to have this hold over you. If you're ballsy enough, confront her, let her know you're not going to take it anymore, that she needs to accept that you are not going anywhere. Tell her how you feel this is affecting the kids and that if she continues to have this attitude toward your relationship with her son that you won't allow her to be around your kids.

I hope this issue resolves itself. No way should anyone stand in the way of your union. I know we all have issues with our inlaws, my MIL is by noo means perfect, yikes you'd be suprised!!

]]> Wed, 12 Mar 2008 14:48:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=323688&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#323688 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Don&#039;t you just wish you could...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322854&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322854 Author: sunnyhoney
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 4:57pm

Don't you just wish you could open the can!!! I have MIL issues too, but my goodness, nothing that bad.

Big hugs, Neeks ]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 16:57:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322854&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322854 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Thanks for all your support ladies.....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322425&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322425 Author: Neeks
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 11:04am

Thanks for all your support ladies..
She is using 3 innocent kids to play mind games with and to me that sucks, she keeps going on and on at them to tell her if something is wrong, and has taken bits here and there to turn it into a crock of sh*te.. if she had something to say why not say it to my face?? Is she scared I'd open a can of whoop arse on her? LOL

Last week I realised I have PND so she's certainly timed it right to kick me in the (if i had them) balls. I'm taking some St Johns Wort for my depression and talking to my DF & kids HEAPS so hopefully with some time I can work through it without having to go to a therapist of any kind

You're all great, no wonder I'm addicted to this place LOL]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 11:04:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322425&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322425 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Rach you and i both know men wont...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322358&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322358 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:51am

Rach you and i both know men wont talk to their mothers....ugh in laws!!!!!!!

Big hug from someone who has lived it...hmmm is still living it! ]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 09:51:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322358&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322358 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : I hope your DF has a talk with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322346&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322346 Author: Rackhell
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 9:39am

I hope your DF has a talk with his mum soon ... In the meantime what do you care what that stupid woman says?]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 09:39:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322346&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322346 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : yep sounds like you and dp will...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322254&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322254 Author: james
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 8:01am

yep sounds like you and dp will have to stand up to this woman sounds like she may be a little jalous of you and may feel she is lossing her place in his life big hug hunn]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 08:01:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322254&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322254 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Big hugs what a horrible woman...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322239&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322239 Author: susieq
Subject: 15185
Posted: 11 March 2008 at 7:14am

Big hugs what a horrible woman]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2008 07:14:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322239&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322239 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : That really really sucks Neeks,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322210&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322210 Author: caraMel
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 10:02pm

That really really sucks Neeks, don't let her get her way!! You have my total sympathy. Mine is a sneaky, manipulative PITA too.]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 22:02:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322210&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322210 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322202&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322202 Author: meow
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 9:48pm

]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 21:48:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322202&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322202 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Big hugs chick.... she sounds...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322179&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322179 Author: Kels
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 9:23pm

 Big hugs chick.... she sounds like the devil!!

]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 21:23:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322179&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322179 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : What horrible thing for a mother...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322128&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322128 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 8:33pm

What horrible thing for a mother to do to her son and family.]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 20:33:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322128&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322128 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : OMG she is awful. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322084&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322084 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 7:43pm

OMG she is awful.

]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 19:43:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322084&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322084 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : OMG Neeks. I thought my outlaw...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322079&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322079 Author: .Mel
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 7:32pm

OMG Neeks. I thought my outlaw was a biarch, but yours sounds like the Queen of all Biarch's.

I think the time has come to stand your ground. You and DP HAVE to stick up for each other.

You might have to confront her. ]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 19:32:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322079&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322079 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : What a horrible woman!!! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322047&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322047 Author: Brenna
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 6:45pm

What a horrible woman!!!]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 18:45:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322047&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322047 <![CDATA[Outlaws - Who needs them? *rant time* : Man I hate my Mother Inlaw .....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322012&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322012 Author: Neeks
Subject: 15185
Posted: 10 March 2008 at 5:44pm

Man I hate my Mother Inlaw .. she's trying to break up mine and my partners relationship because she's to frugal to let him live his own life and can't get a life of her own... She's making up lies that I don't like the kids and that I don't like his grandma, and lots of other stuff...
I've just spent the last past of today bawling my eyes out, as has my fiancee because he's scared she's going to win again and I'll leave.. I can't do that to him, he's been through so much.. raising his 3 kids on his own after their mother passed away when the youngest (now 8) was 3 months old.
Why are there so many people out there that use a facade and then stab people in the back like this?? I'm so sick of being trampled on and treated like crap just because she's a heartless cow who wants to live her life through our family... I'm OVER IT!!!!!!!!

Edited by Neeks]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2008 17:44:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15185&PID=322012&title=outlaws-who-needs-them-rant-time#322012