OHbaby! Forums : Wheres the drive?! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 11 Apr 2026 21:07:53 +0000 Tue, 14 Feb 2006 15:19:30 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=1521 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : We&#039;re kind of at-it on schedule...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28111&title=wheres-the-drive#28111 Author: Maya
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 3:19pm

We're kind of at-it on schedule atm with TTC. Really spoils the moment. ]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 15:19:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28111&title=wheres-the-drive#28111 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Very good liz lmao!!! I had a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28067&title=wheres-the-drive#28067 Author: k&jsmum
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 1:10pm

Very good liz lmao!!!
I had a really high sex drive when preg and after had the boys. As for now - well since my ex and I broke up its nothing!! People ask if I miss sex but I'm way too busy running around after two 2year olds and to be quite honest have gotten used to not having to share my bed (unless one of my little dudes sneaks in in the middle of the night lol)]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 13:10:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28067&title=wheres-the-drive#28067 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : ROFL! Liz, that&#039;s priceless!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28049&title=wheres-the-drive#28049 Author: daikini
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 10:56am

ROFL! Liz, that's priceless! I'm SO gonna remember that! Just wait, Nathaniel... you're not gonna know what's hit you! Hehehe... ]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 10:56:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28049&title=wheres-the-drive#28049 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : hehe. go ana!!! As for me,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28038&title=wheres-the-drive#28038 Author: lizzle
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 10:34am

hehe. go ana!!!
As for me, drive is pertty much gone, although with Lewis back in Japan, it's probably a relief to him, rather than a misery. However, I must say that using it for guilt-tripping works a treat.

"i'm just so tired after looking after the kids AND doing all th housework.." (me)
"Here baby, let me wash the dishes and vacuum for you tonight" (lew)
"oh, that wuold help a little....probably be feeling relaxed enough if you gave me a massage too...." (me)


]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 10:34:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28038&title=wheres-the-drive#28038 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : well it is valentines day today...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28031&title=wheres-the-drive#28031 Author: newmum
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 10:17am

well it is valentines day today and as I forgot to get Peter anything.... looks like I will have to get over it today hehehehe ]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 10:17:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28031&title=wheres-the-drive#28031 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Hey Jess I havethis problem too...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28019&title=wheres-the-drive#28019 Author: My3Sons
Subject: 1521
Posted: 14 February 2006 at 7:50am

Hey Jess

I have this problem too with this pregnancy, wasnt a problem the first time around but this time I have absolutely NO interest at all, I'd rather go to sleep lol.  By 6 weeks after DS all was ok again, they just have to learn to be patient lol

]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2006 07:50:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=28019&title=wheres-the-drive#28019 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : I was the same and we attempted...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27975&title=wheres-the-drive#27975 Author: 98765
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 6:40pm

I was the same and we attempted it when i had about a week to go to get things going it was the worst i didn't want it and ben thought he was hiting baby on the head]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 18:40:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27975&title=wheres-the-drive#27975 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Yeh hes being really good about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27968&title=wheres-the-drive#27968 Author: Guests
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 6:03pm

Yeh hes being really good about it and i said i wasnt gonna do it for the sake of doing it coz then id get sick of it, i dont think he can fully grasp that idea lol but hes getting there Kinda hard to want it when you have round ligament pain etc lol ]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 18:03:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27968&title=wheres-the-drive#27968 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Drive?Are we supposed to have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27956&title=wheres-the-drive#27956 Author: tania4
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 3:57pm

Drive?Are we supposed to have drive?? haha,when i was preggers with both the girls i couldnt get enough but with this one(boy)i cant even find the energy Hubby is really understanding(thank god)I am just hoping it returns afterwards But then I will probably have less energy ]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 15:57:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27956&title=wheres-the-drive#27956 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : My hubby is very understanding...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27954&title=wheres-the-drive#27954 Author: Paws
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 3:54pm

My hubby is very understanding and to be honest we both feel it would be a little wierd...silly I know!

Probably a good thing seeing as I have as much interest in sex as I do in have a root canal with no pain relief! ]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 15:54:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27954&title=wheres-the-drive#27954 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : There really is nothing you can...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27949&title=wheres-the-drive#27949 Author: mamawendz
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 3:10pm

There really is nothing you can do. I don't seem to have that problem yet, but my bump is starting to make things difficult! haha
I did read though that mid-pregnancy is when some woman enjoy making love more than ever before... so fingers crossed perhaps?
I'm sure your hubby loves you to bits and can live without it for the sake of his child... I find my darling hubby is sometimes too concerned about the baby to want to go there anyway.
Its hard, but its just one of those things you have to sacrifice I guess?]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 15:10:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27949&title=wheres-the-drive#27949 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : I had a huge sex drive with my...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27910&title=wheres-the-drive#27910 Author: nuttymama
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 11:21am

I had a huge sex drive with my first, then nothing with my second and third, I'm probably lucky hubby didn't go walk about. Talk about being patient. I was 4 months pregnant with our second on our wedding night and he didn't even get it then.]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 11:21:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27910&title=wheres-the-drive#27910 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : .Edited by caraMel ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27887&title=wheres-the-drive#27887 Author: caraMel
Subject: 1521
Posted: 13 February 2006 at 10:32am

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Edited by caraMel]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2006 10:32:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27887&title=wheres-the-drive#27887 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : I had a really high sex drive...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27862&title=wheres-the-drive#27862 Author: newmum
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 11:03pm

I had a really high sex drive while preggers but now it is at ZILCh and hubby is not impressed so sorry can't help either.... ]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 23:03:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27862&title=wheres-the-drive#27862 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : hey Jess i had no sex drive at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27846&title=wheres-the-drive#27846 Author: kasbee
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 8:52pm

hey Jess i had no sex drive at all with both my pregnancies My hubby got it twice with my first and once with my second, i'm suprised he didn't pack his bags and leave. With Blair it took a while to come back but with the twins it was back within 3 months. I remember talking to my midwife about this and she said it is very normal some women want it and others don't.]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 20:52:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27846&title=wheres-the-drive#27846 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : I had quite a high drive during...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27838&title=wheres-the-drive#27838 Author: daikini
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 7:49pm

I had quite a high drive during both my pregnancies, but I bled so much with Josiah it kinda put a dampner on things. I didn't fully get my sex drive back until Josiah was a couple of months old and all the random bleeding had stopped.

That aside, us women are funny creatures. The more sex we have, the more we want! AND, if we tell ourselves we are maybe a little interested in some fun with our partners, then we will enjoy that fun more! What I did to help get my drive back was tell Nathaniel in the morning that I was going to jump him that evening, then the for rest of the day the anticipation would help get me in the mood to follow through on my promise.]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 19:49:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27838&title=wheres-the-drive#27838 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Me too Jess, and it hasn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27834&title=wheres-the-drive#27834 Author: fattartsrock
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 7:45pm

Me too Jess, and it hasn't returned..... Sorry! Luckily my dh is understanding... sort of... !! ]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 19:45:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27834&title=wheres-the-drive#27834 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Yeah I was like you Jess. It did...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27833&title=wheres-the-drive#27833 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 7:41pm

Yeah I was like you Jess. It did return when I was about 5 months, but by then Daniel was NOT keen!! ]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 19:41:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27833&title=wheres-the-drive#27833 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : I don&#039;t know if it was lack...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27814&title=wheres-the-drive#27814 Author: Maya
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 6:20pm

I don't know if it was lack of drive, morning sickness, or fear of hurting the baby, but we only had 'relations' about 5 times during my entire pregnancy. Some people say theirs comes on with a vengeance but definitely not for me.

I'm not one to ask for advice about it tho - Willie went 'shopping around' to solve the problem (We were only very barely together at that stage)]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 18:20:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27814&title=wheres-the-drive#27814 <![CDATA[Wheres the drive?! : Hey girls I dont know what to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27810&title=wheres-the-drive#27810 Author: Guests
Subject: 1521
Posted: 12 February 2006 at 5:15pm

Hey girls

I dont know what to do, i have absolutely no sex drive what so ever not even an inkling, im a newly wed and love my husband to bits but i feel really mean coz i have no desire to please him or put out so to speak did anyone else have this problem and when did it return?]]> Sun, 12 Feb 2006 17:15:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1521&PID=27810&title=wheres-the-drive#27810