OHbaby! Forums : Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 07 May 2026 05:33:31 +0000 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:03:20 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15604 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : yup mine is the same act like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334500&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334500 Author: nictoddie
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Posted: 25 March 2008 at 3:03pm

yup mine is the same act like they have no feelings about it and then walla the reality sets in and we cop it all blows up and he wonders why I get cross with just damn well say what is on ya mind would ya ]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:03:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334500&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334500 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : Thanks Yeah Nic, males arent...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334396&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334396 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 15604
Posted: 25 March 2008 at 1:36pm

Thanks Yeah Nic, males arent so great at that are they?! Mine keeps feeling like he needs to be strong for everyone else and sort out all their issues etc, and he says he's just being a realist and getting on withthings but surely it must get to him...]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:36:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334396&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334396 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : not fair at all. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334073&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334073 Author: Andie
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Posted: 25 March 2008 at 9:03am

not fair at all. 

]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:03:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334073&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334073 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334026&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334026 Author: meow
Subject: 15604
Posted: 25 March 2008 at 8:16am

]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 08:16:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334026&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334026 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : awwww big hugs aimee, know how...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334010&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334010 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 15604
Posted: 25 March 2008 at 7:55am

awwww big hugs aimee, know how you feel, we have lost a few lately too on my dh side, two this past week and I know how you feel being the in law it really is not the same grief with like you say life long relationships, aye,my dh family is so big I hardly know most of them and the only time I usually get to meet most of them is at tangis, one was expected and was not and the expected one we were unable to go up north for as funds did not allow it but it's quite hard for guys too as they don't wear there emotions on the outside like us girls and my dh is not a big talker so hard to know what he is thinking sometimes

Edited by nictoddie]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2008 07:55:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=334010&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#334010 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : Hugs, what a tough time! I lost...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333917&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333917 Author: busymum
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 10:03pm

Hugs, what a tough time! I lost 2 gt-grandparents and 2 grandparents in about 4yrs (up to a year ago). Would suck to be the IL to that though]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 22:03:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333917&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333917 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : Aimee, that&#039;s truely sad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333903&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333903 Author: Snickerdoodle
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Posted: 24 March 2008 at 9:52pm

Aimee, that's truely sad
Big hugs to you and DH (and the girls!)
]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:52:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333903&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333903 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : Man, life can be rough! Hugs to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333894&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333894 Author: BabyKiwi
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 9:40pm

Man, life can be rough! Hugs to you all!]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:40:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333894&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333894 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333853&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333853 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 9:24pm

]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:24:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333853&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333853 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : WOw that is a lot of grief for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333838&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333838 Author: Kels
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Posted: 24 March 2008 at 9:20pm

 WOw that is a lot of grief for one family. Big hugs.

]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:20:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333838&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333838 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : big hugs from us too ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333794&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333794 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:53pm

big hugs from us too ]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:53:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333794&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333794 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : Aimee! Gosh that is too much sadness...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333778&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333778 Author: caraMel
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:44pm

Aimee! Gosh that is too much sadness for one family to go through in such a short amount of time!
Lots of thoughts and prayers to you guys and your ILs xxx]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:44:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333778&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333778 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : More big hugs, sucks to be you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333777&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333777 Author: Maya
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:43pm

More big hugs, sucks to be you all round at the moment by the sound of things ]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:43:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333777&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333777 <![CDATA[Life’s unfair sometimes... Take 2 : So I posted four weeks ago about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333766&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333766 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 15604
Posted: 24 March 2008 at 8:33pm

So I posted four weeks ago about DH's 19 year old cousin who died in that boating accident. Well today their nanny got told she only has a few weeks left...

Last june her mother passed away (DH's great nana who was 95), the next month her husband passed of cancer (DH's Pop). During this time nanny was having radiotherapy as well. Then last month G died, and she has pretty much given up. You could actually see the deterioration in her (physically and mentally) pretty much overnight. So looks like we'll the fourth funeral in less than a year, all within the immediate family...
Oh and 2.5 years ago, 4 days before i had Hannah, DH's mum had a massive brain haemorrhage and almost died, and she is fine now, but not quite the same. And she is not coping with this well at the moment - add to all this DH's 16 year old sister who left school and moved to Aussie 2 weeks ago has ran out of money and has to be bailed out to get home.... Argh, I could go on.

So yeah, life is not treating my DHs family well at the moment. But it is really hard when you are an in-law, and I have really had problems with this. Cos although it is very very sad, they arent my family and I dont have the same life long relationship with them. Plus I am the only IL in this generation as DH is the oldest grandchild so feel very awkward at times, even tho I see them a lot and they are lovely (on the whole).

Anyway, just another long post from me tonight to get things off my chest. ]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:33:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15604&PID=333766&title=lifes-unfair-sometimes-take-2#333766