https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sat, 09 May 2026 21:22:41 +0000 Fri, 04 Apr 2008 08:19:12 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15764 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=344176&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#344176 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 15764
Posted: 04 April 2008 at 8:19am

Bah romance....we ttc for 6 months then altho tempting etc we just relaxed into it and Ella is the result of a quickie the morning of DH catching a plane to oz for rest of my O week!!!

Romance....none!!! Success.....perfect!]]> Fri, 04 Apr 2008 08:19:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=344176&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#344176 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=339896&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#339896 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 15764
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 9:04am

I was the opposite, knowing that we were finally TTC made me horny all the time.

Maybe you could try to stop thinking about the TTC and just enjoy the intimacy (I know - easier said than done). Red wine always helps me too ]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 09:04:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=339896&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#339896 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338113&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338113 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 15764
Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:54am

After ttc for a few months I got sick of having sex lol, it started to feel more like a chore rather than for fun etc.
Im not really sure what to tell you but...if ya want a baby ya gotta do the deed lol, can you do something to get you in the mood? There is an old thread somewhere on spicing up the BD, I'll try and find it for you.
And like Bizzy said, just concentrate on the romance and not WHY you are having sex. This is what we did after our miscarriage and we conceived on the second try without really trying.

Edited by Sheza]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 08:54:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338113&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338113 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338111&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338111 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 15764
Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:53am

maybe you should just forget the sex for a while and concentrate on the romance, the sex will come later. I found it hard - and hubby too - to want it when we were only having it to make babies.]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 08:53:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338111&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338111 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338105&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338105 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 15764
Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:41am

you dont HAVE to have sex to have a baby The IVF girls would argue with you on that one.

Sorry no help....but you realy only need to do it once]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 08:41:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338105&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338105 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338095&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338095 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 15764
Posted: 29 March 2008 at 8:10am

Well I read somewhere that the more you do it the more you want to do it. So perhaps if you are charting write down the nights that you are going to do it and then just stick to it and then hopefully the more you do it the more you will enjoy it. ]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 08:10:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338095&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338095 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338088&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338088 Author: turk13
Subject: 15764
Posted: 29 March 2008 at 7:39am

when your TTC, but i just dont ever feel like it !! Hubby is so patient and understanding, a little confused aswell. ( i am too)our relationship is fantastic, we are only 25, and shoud be going for it.. (you'd think) its embarrassing, but hey, we are all mums here (or trying) so is there many others out there who get like this? I realise I'll not get pregnant the way i'm going, but i cant even force myself to do it ! ]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 07:39:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15764&PID=338088&title=obviously-you-need-to-have-sex#338088