OHbaby! Forums : How do I stop this? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 21:54:09 +0000 Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:17:04 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=15805 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Oh NO! Blake bites..and my immediate...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=341121&title=how-do-i-stop-this#341121 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 15805
Posted: 01 April 2008 at 11:17am

Oh NO!
Blake bites..and my immediate reaction is to YELL! :(
WE do have the naughty hallway and I will put him in there with all the doors shut and light on and leave him there IF I REMEMBER FAST ENUF!!!.
Like you Blake doesnt seem to notice much of what he has done unless I remove him straight away and Say a firm NO.
Highly frustrating :o(

I have tried biting him back and he just laughs and then when I did do it harder he really cried so i felt worse than when I "lock him away" !]]> Tue, 01 Apr 2008 11:17:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=341121&title=how-do-i-stop-this#341121 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : My gosh thats huge! Gotta hurt....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340731&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340731 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 15805
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 9:07pm

My gosh thats huge! Gotta hurt. Sorry Im not at this stage but will be looking forward to seeing other answers on how to combat this. Mine is the hitting stage at the mo]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 21:07:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340731&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340731 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : I like it Toni! One day when I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340586&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340586 Author: Maya
Subject: 15805
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 7:18pm

I like it Toni! One day when I *have* survived them I might just do that!

Today was OK, no biting (that I know of) and the only near-incident was when I was changing Mercedes on the floor at Mels and Sienna got jealous coz she wanted to lie on the mat and grabbed a clawful of Mercedes' eyes. But I intervened and no harm done, phew!]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:18:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340586&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340586 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : You should write a book Emma! &#034;How...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340583&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340583 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 15805
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 7:15pm

You should write a book Emma!

"How I survived The Gremlins - and lived to have an Iggle Piggle" ]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:15:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340583&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340583 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : hrmmm... I like Toni&#039;s suggestion. Let...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340501&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340501 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15805
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 6:04pm

hrmmm... I like Toni's suggestion.

Let us know how you get on Emma - I know a lot of mamas could benefit from your tales... I know I would have!!]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 18:04:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340501&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340501 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : LOL Toni and you were worried...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340304&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340304 Author: Maya
Subject: 15805
Posted: 31 March 2008 at 3:14pm

LOL Toni and you were worried about Miss C being a bully to them - I told you they are far worse to each other!]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 15:14:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=340304&title=how-do-i-stop-this#340304 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : This isn&#039;t specific to biting...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339827&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339827 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 11:52pm

This isn't specific to biting but I've heard that if you make the child who caused the pain "look after" the other one they learn the consequences to their actions. So get Sienna to give her sister a kiss and hug and make her hold a cold face cloth to the bite.
Make her take ownership for what she did - maybe then she'll realise what she did is not nice.

I don't think your girls are too young for this method, they're pretty smart (good genes lol )

Also - lots of arnica!!! Poor 'cedes! ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 23:52:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339827&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339827 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Oh poor Mercedes that looks nasty! Sorry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339719&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339719 Author: floss
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 9:35pm

Oh poor Mercedes that looks nasty!

Sorry no advice but I hope its not a twin thing!!! My two have already started being mean to one another Noah likes to pull Lola's sticky out ears if she is close enough ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 21:35:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339719&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339719 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Aww poor Mercedes. All the kids...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339601&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339601 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 8:33pm

Aww poor Mercedes. All the kids at playgroup had marks like that just after Caprece was born.

In the end the thing that stopped it pretty quickly was removing him any time he even looked like he was going in for the bite, no talking just straight to a naughty place. We used a wee side room at playgroup but anywhere undesirable works. In the mornings we would remind Jack no biting and he can always call for me and I will help but if he bites it straight to time out. After we let him out of time out I would sit down and play with him and make a big deal out of his good playing. When we did this it only took one day of constant time out and no attention. Jack was 17 months at the time.]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 20:33:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339601&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339601 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : At work I find making the biter...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339511&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339511 Author: thunderwolves
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 7:34pm

At work I find making the biter sit there and watch the other child crying can have a big effect on them. We have a little menace of a bit about the same age and after we have finished growling we make her sit there and watch the other child upset and getting lots of attention, only thing with this is you need two adults, one to help the hurt child and one to growl at the other one..

]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 19:34:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339511&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339511 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Eek, just re-read and poor Mercedes...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339421&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339421 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 6:12pm

Eek, just re-read and poor Mercedes too!!!

Just wanted to also say, they learn pretty quick that biting is the quick way to get what they want - so you really have to counter that before they realise ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 18:12:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339421&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339421 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Oh poor little babe!!! I read...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339419&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339419 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 6:11pm

Oh poor little babe!!!

I read a few articles on biting (though by no means am an expert as I couldn't really do much!) but anyway, for what it's worth this is what I would do - unfortunately it may take a bit of effort.

Shadowing Sienna and watching for triggers, ready to divert when things get close to biting times and/or offering alternative means of settling disputes.

For us it was the communication thing - really working on getting Hannah to use her language instead of biting.

It sort of worked but has only really righted itself now she can talk a lot more.

Good luck!! And be thankful you don't have the guilt of another mother's disgust bearing down upon you!! But poor little Mercedes ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 18:11:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339419&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339419 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : OUCH!!! yeah diversion when they...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339412&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339412 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 5:59pm

OUCH!!!

yeah diversion when they are getting into it might help...ive seen them in action and there is usually a lead up to the attack with them....

and if it worstens remove the attacked after telling her off if it continues and ignore her and concentrate on the other one...excluding the naughty one....then slowly let her back in....and she should start behaving and seeing how the "good" one gets treated with you focusing attention on her....

if all that fails - SELL her on Trademe!   **joking** (well half joking! LOL) ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 17:59:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339412&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339412 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Oh my, poor Mercedes! ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339342&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339342 Author: Kels
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 3:51pm

Oh my,  poor Mercedes!

]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 15:51:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339342&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339342 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Do you tell Sienna off before...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339332&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339332 Author: Kellz
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 3:24pm

Do you tell Sienna off before u move her away? I do the supernanny thing, of getting down to Isla's level, so we are face to face, tell her in a stern voice that 'Mummy doesnt like it when u do.......' and tell her 'you have to sit here now til Mummy comes back becuase u were naughty',....then ignore her for 1 min,...we just keep putting her back there without talking to her or eye contact, if she gets up. Its worked for us so far!

Maybe it is a twin thing, really hope its not and its just a phase that u are able to nip in the bud quick smart.
Poor poor Mercedes, man that looks sooo sore. Anica may help

Edited by Kellz]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 15:24:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339332&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339332 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : Wow! Sorry no advice but that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339331&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339331 Author: arohanui
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 3:21pm

Wow! Sorry no advice but that is a very impressive bite mark.. my goodness...]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 15:21:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339331&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339331 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : if you know her triggers then...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339330&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339330 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 3:10pm

if you know her triggers then i am afraid it may be up to you to divert her before she bites...]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 15:10:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339330&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339330 <![CDATA[How do I stop this? : I know there have been threads...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339308&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339308 Author: Maya
Subject: 15805
Posted: 30 March 2008 at 2:41pm



I know there have been threads about biting before, but this is getting out of control! Sienna did this to Mercedes face this morning while I was less than 2 feet away! Poor Mercedes also has a bite on her spine and one on her leg.

I respond to it immediately by picking Sienna up and moving her away and then making a big fuss over Mercedes, but Sienna seems to have no idea, or she just doesn't care, that what she is doing is wrong. She just gets up and continues on with whatever she was doing.

She definitely bites in anger or frustration coz it's always as a response to them fighting over a toy etc. rather than just randomly biting, but I'm at a loss how to stop it. I also don't want Mercedes to develop a "victim" complex where she doesn't stand up for herself.

I'm open to any suggestions! All the research I've read is related to older kids (2+) so I'm wondering if this early biting is a twin thing, and a result of them spending 24-7 together.

PS. I'm not keen on my nana's tried and true suggestion of biting her back ]]> Sun, 30 Mar 2008 14:41:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=15805&PID=339308&title=how-do-i-stop-this#339308