OHbaby! Forums : 7 years later.... https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 17:22:53 +0000 Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:14:02 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=16278 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[7 years later.... : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=355464&title=7-years-later#355464 Author: LittleBug
Subject: 16278
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 10:14pm

]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2008 22:14:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=355464&title=7-years-later#355464 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Ditto to all of the above ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=354175&title=7-years-later#354175 Author: Danash
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 8:59pm

Ditto to all of the above

]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 20:59:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=354175&title=7-years-later#354175 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Charly I can&#039;t think of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353957&title=7-years-later#353957 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 6:48pm

Charly
I can't think of anything I could add that would be helpful or meaningful but I'm glad you shared.]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 18:48:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353957&title=7-years-later#353957 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Hey Charly I don&#039;t know much...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353921&title=7-years-later#353921 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 5:32pm

Hey Charly I don't know much about mc either but to me it sounds like one

Janine ]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 17:32:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353921&title=7-years-later#353921 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Janine - I hope he hasn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353718&title=7-years-later#353718 Author: kebakat
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 9:55am

Janine - I hope he hasn't forgotten but has instead chosen not to say anything about it. That's what my DH would do.]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 09:55:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353718&title=7-years-later#353718 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Janine ***hugs*** I agree with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353716&title=7-years-later#353716 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 9:51am

Janine ***hugs***
I agree with what Freesia said. But it's still a touch hurtful that they don't remember when we seem to remember these things as if it were yesterday.
I hope you have a nice day, regardless. Make sure you give your lovely girls lots of cuddles

Freesia, thanks
I definitely feel better getting it out.


Edited by Charly]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 09:51:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353716&title=7-years-later#353716 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : Charly, I don&#039;t know what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353691&title=7-years-later#353691 Author: Freesia
Subject: 16278
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 8:45am

Charly, I don't know what it's like to miscarry or if there are other things that can go on down there that could cause a clot but I imagine the 'what if's' must fly around in your head. I hope sharing it has helped a bit and hopefully someone might be able to enlighten you as to whether it could've been a mc or not.

Mum2paris, I hope your DH did remember. Most men I know (including my DP) are absolutely terrible with dates but it doesn't mean they care any less. Hugs for you at this sad time ]]> Sun, 13 Apr 2008 08:45:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353691&title=7-years-later#353691 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : That&#039;s ok, we always live...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353635&title=7-years-later#353635 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 16278
Posted: 12 April 2008 at 11:26pm

That's ok, we always live an wonder. and it's good to get things out.

I have spent the day waiting for mike to remember that 1 year ago today we had our routine scan and found out our baby had died a few days before.

I have left a small reminder that he'll see when he goes to close down the computer later cos i can't bring myself to tell him that he forgot..

Edited by mum2paris]]> Sat, 12 Apr 2008 23:26:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353635&title=7-years-later#353635 <![CDATA[7 years later.... : ....and I&#039;m still curious...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16278&PID=353558&title=7-years-later#353558 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 16278
Posted: 12 April 2008 at 10:07pm

....and I'm still curious about something.

I wonder about this from time to time but never really asked a doctor or my mw or anyone about it.
I don't think I ever told DH, either.
But today is the "anniversary" of the occurance (I have a weird thing about remembering random dates).

(This could be a little TMI, but what is OB without it, huh?!! )
7 years ago, DH and I had been living together for about 6 months in a new city, about 8 months into our relationship.
I was prone to fairly heavy irregular periods so this one wasn't out of the ordinary, but I was in the shower one morning and I heard a slopping sound, looked down and there was a fairly large (like the size of the palm of my hand) clot type thing on the shower floor. I just kinda flicked it with my toes to help disperse it so it could be washed down the drain. But it was a solid blood covered mass. I actually had to flush it down the toilet (which I did, totally without thinking - being a naive 19 year old). I didn't tell DH or a doctor as I wasn't in any more pain than normal and I had my usual heavy period....
But the more I thought about it (and even to this day) I wonder if it was a miscarriage.

I don't know why I'm writing this...but I guess it's a bit of catharsis as it's the annivarsary and all.

Funnily enough, if the miscarriage I had back in '04 had been a successful pregnancy, that baby would've been 3 this coming Tuesday.

I guess having Hannah makes me think about these things more.

Anyway. Thanks for reading...I guess I just needed to get it out




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