https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 30 Apr 2026 23:43:09 +0000 Fri, 18 Apr 2008 16:31:46 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=16448 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359557&title=so-very-very-tired#359557 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 4:31pm

But do you know what I think is the saddest part, these kids are going to grow up and do the same thing so its a neverending cycle. Unfortunately foster homes aren't much better, these people need to be stopped before having access to kids, every parent should have to do a parenting course. ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 16:31:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359557&title=so-very-very-tired#359557 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359390&title=so-very-very-tired#359390 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 2:13pm

ginger wrote: I say sterilise them, every one of them responsible for hurting their babies intentionally, no exceptions, and throw them in jail to rot. Or, even better, send them to prison in Singapore.

Or take their babies off them at birth - no second chances - and give them to parents who can't concieve yet would love and cherish a child as they deserve to be.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 14:13:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359390&title=so-very-very-tired#359390 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359346&title=so-very-very-tired#359346 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:33pm

ginger wrote: All that anti-smacking law does is prevent good parents from disciplining their children. Hehe. A friend of mine had a good idea - he was with his grandchildren and one of them was playing up merry hell. The little boy stood his ground and told his grandfather that he couldn't do anything to him because he wasn't allowed to smack. Sooo, his grandfather told him that was quite right, but he could always fail to stop the little boy's older brother from thumping him Apparently the rest of the afternoon out was much more pleasant

I like it!!!!! As for the rest of your post. I wholeheartedly agree....if only we could sterilise them BEFORE they had their first!!!!]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:33:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359346&title=so-very-very-tired#359346 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359344&title=so-very-very-tired#359344 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:32pm

ginger wrote: All that anti-smacking law does is prevent good parents from disciplining their children.

And make good parents criminals.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:32:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359344&title=so-very-very-tired#359344 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359329&title=so-very-very-tired#359329 Author: Paws
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:25pm

Oh bollocks your post made me cry....I hate what is happening to our children!!! ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:25:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359329&title=so-very-very-tired#359329 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359323&title=so-very-very-tired#359323 Author: Guests
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:23pm

Agreed, especially for those that are struggling to start a family.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:23:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359323&title=so-very-very-tired#359323 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359318&title=so-very-very-tired#359318 Author: caraMel
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:22pm

ginger wrote: I say sterilise them, every one of them responsible for hurting their babies intentionally, no exceptions, and throw them in jail to rot. Or, even better, send them to prison in Singapore. IMHO

Hear, hear! It just makes me so sick thinking about the precious kids who don't even get a chance at life because they were unfortunate enough to be born to BAD parents.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:22:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359318&title=so-very-very-tired#359318 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359312&title=so-very-very-tired#359312 Author: ginger
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:16pm

The Herald online. I suppose I shouldn't really call it 'the paper' ... should call it 'the computer screen' ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:16:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359312&title=so-very-very-tired#359312 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359310&title=so-very-very-tired#359310 Author: youngmumnz
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:16pm

What paper was that in?? thats sick how people do that! haha i agree with the send them to singapore jails! would be funny to have a camera in there and watch them get beatin see how they feel maybe they will see how there children feel thats if they even care though.
so sad :( poor kids]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:16:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359310&title=so-very-very-tired#359310 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359304&title=so-very-very-tired#359304 Author: Parki
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 1:09pm

ginger wrote: I say sterilise them, every one of them responsible for hurting their babies intentionally, no exceptions, and throw them in jail to rot. Or, even better, send them to prison in Singapore. IMHO

Agreed!]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 13:09:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359304&title=so-very-very-tired#359304 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359277&title=so-very-very-tired#359277 Author: ginger
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:57pm

All that anti-smacking law does is prevent good parents from disciplining their children.

Hehe. A friend of mine had a good idea - he was with his grandchildren and one of them was playing up merry hell. The little boy stood his ground and told his grandfather that he couldn't do anything to him because he wasn't allowed to smack. Sooo, his grandfather told him that was quite right, but he could always fail to stop the little boy's older brother from thumping him Apparently the rest of the afternoon out was much more pleasant ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:57:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359277&title=so-very-very-tired#359277 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359273&title=so-very-very-tired#359273 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:55pm

not cool, kids are so defenseless and to do what they do to them they so do not deserve them!!! big hugs ginger I hope that you dreams are fullfilled and the it happens for you soon ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:55:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359273&title=so-very-very-tired#359273 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359241&title=so-very-very-tired#359241 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:33pm

Grrrrrr!!! Makes me sooo soo angry as well!!! I know toddlers/3 yrs olds can be hard to deal with, but SERIOUSLY!!! They're helpless!!!

What also gets me is this probably wasn't the first time he was abused, it could have been going on for months.

SEE SUE BRADFORD! Your anti-smacking LAW DOES NOT prevent CHILD ABUSE!!]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:33:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359241&title=so-very-very-tired#359241 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359218&title=so-very-very-tired#359218 Author: .Mel
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:10pm

Wasn't the child who died today in foster care too? Just watching the news at the moment. Either way I don't understand it either. So wrong.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:10:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359218&title=so-very-very-tired#359218 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359215&title=so-very-very-tired#359215 Author: james
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:07pm

i,m with you guys it just dont,st seem very fair ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:07:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359215&title=so-very-very-tired#359215 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359212&title=so-very-very-tired#359212 Author: Jay_R
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 12:03pm

Me either

I remember hearing on the news a while back that those animals who killed Nia Glassie would do all those horrific things to her because, and I QUOTE " she had an ugly face"

I just can't bear what is happening. Every time I watch the news and hear more tales of murdered babies I just sob my heart out, and hold my little one closer. I can truly understand how this must make you feel Ginger....]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:03:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359212&title=so-very-very-tired#359212 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359205&title=so-very-very-tired#359205 Author: popcorn
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 11:59am

sickos]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:59:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359205&title=so-very-very-tired#359205 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359202&title=so-very-very-tired#359202 Author: ginger
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 11:57am

I just don't understand how they can do it.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:57:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359202&title=so-very-very-tired#359202 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359200&title=so-very-very-tired#359200 Author: Jay_R
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 11:56am

I totally know what you mean Ginger - I feel so very very sad and angry everytime a baby/child is murdered. It feels like it is occuring almost on a weekly basis at the moment.

I wish people like us who love our babies and would never hurt them, were all able to reproduce rampantly, and those horrific monsters who keep killing "our" babies all had their private parts turn gangrenous and fall off.]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:56:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359200&title=so-very-very-tired#359200 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359197&title=so-very-very-tired#359197 Author: CuriousG
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 11:51am

I agree. I feel for you Ginger and it sucks that good people are fighting to have children and those who have them easily, aren't looking after them. ]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:51:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359197&title=so-very-very-tired#359197 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359194&title=so-very-very-tired#359194 Author: ginger
Subject: 16448
Posted: 18 April 2008 at 11:48am

I know that most of you, being parents, will find it hard to reconcile as well, but I've just seen in the paper this morning that yet another child has died of unexplained injuries.

Here I am, fighting tooth and nail to have a child to cherish, and parents every week are abusing and killing theirs.

I say sterilise them, every one of them responsible for hurting their babies intentionally, no exceptions, and throw them in jail to rot. Or, even better, send them to prison in Singapore.

IMHO

Edited by ginger]]> Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:48:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=16448&PID=359194&title=so-very-very-tired#359194