OHbaby! Forums : I’ve upset DH https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 08 Apr 2026 03:58:03 +0000 Mon, 09 Jun 2008 22:00:21 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=18055 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Tiff wrote: ROFL!!!!!! I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408273&title=ive-upset-dh#408273 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 10:00pm

Originally posted by Tiff Tiff wrote:



ROFL!!!!!!

I had an ex-boyfriend who apparently at preschool would always dress up in a red silky/lacy nightie thing and his mum wasn't worried but apparently some other mums were so she finally asked him why he liked to wear it so much and it turned out her was being a fireman and it was the only red thing in the dress up collection. I thought that was too cute, and shows we can't put adult perceptions onto kids and their imaginations.



So true!!! (and cute)]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 22:00:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408273&title=ive-upset-dh#408273 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Our wee boy is such a boy boy...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408188&title=ive-upset-dh#408188 Author: blondie
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 8:44pm

Our wee boy is such a boy boy but he also plays with his sister babies and likes to wear her playshoes (I think its cause the noise they make) DH has no probs kids will be kids
]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:44:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408188&title=ive-upset-dh#408188 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : cuppatea wrote:We&#039;ve already...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408163&title=ive-upset-dh#408163 Author: Tiff
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 8:24pm

Originally posted by cuppatea cuppatea wrote:

We've already had the "what if he's gay" chat and DH would be fine with it.
I also caught them both playing with the handbag earlier, DH was putting Spencers toys in it for him, so he's obviously not that bothered, it just made me laugh.
I can't wait until the day he comes home from work and Spencer is walking around wearing my shoes and necklace and stuff like they do, in fact I might dress him up on purpose just for a laugh.


ROFL!!!!!!

I had an ex-boyfriend who apparently at preschool would always dress up in a red silky/lacy nightie thing and his mum wasn't worried but apparently some other mums were so she finally asked him why he liked to wear it so much and it turned out her was being a fireman and it was the only red thing in the dress up collection. I thought that was too cute, and shows we can't put adult perceptions onto kids and their imaginations.]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:24:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408163&title=ive-upset-dh#408163 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : My DH&#039;s best mate is gay,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408123&title=ive-upset-dh#408123 Author: kabe
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 8:05pm

My DH's best mate is gay, and he has no problem with it whatsoever. He always cringes when he hears about other men restricting their son's toys to stereotypical male ones.]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:05:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408123&title=ive-upset-dh#408123 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Call it a manbag ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408097&title=ive-upset-dh#408097 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 7:48pm

Call it a manbag]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 19:48:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=408097&title=ive-upset-dh#408097 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Mine gets upset all the time with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407781&title=ive-upset-dh#407781 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 2:23pm

Mine gets upset all the time with what the boys have been doing. Andrew plays with his friends dolls and pushes them around in the pushchair at their place. But he is still a boy who will go out and run around outside and play with the cars and stuff like that.

]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 14:23:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407781&title=ive-upset-dh#407781 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : cuppatea wrote:I can&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407777&title=ive-upset-dh#407777 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 2:16pm

Originally posted by cuppatea cuppatea wrote:


I can't wait until the day he comes home from work and Spencer is walking around wearing my shoes and necklace and stuff like they do, in fact I might dress him up on purpose just for a laugh.

STIRRER!

]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 14:16:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407777&title=ive-upset-dh#407777 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : We&#039;ve already had the &#034;what...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407719&title=ive-upset-dh#407719 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 1:41pm

We've already had the "what if he's gay" chat and DH would be fine with it.
I also caught them both playing with the handbag earlier, DH was putting Spencers toys in it for him, so he's obviously not that bothered, it just made me laugh.
I can't wait until the day he comes home from work and Spencer is walking around wearing my shoes and necklace and stuff like they do, in fact I might dress him up on purpose just for a laugh.]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 13:41:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407719&title=ive-upset-dh#407719 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : LOL....Thats funny!! My hubby...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407630&title=ive-upset-dh#407630 Author: Roksana
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:32pm

LOL....Thats funny!!

My hubby is also very macho macho....I can see him react the same way (if this one is a boy)
]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:32:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407630&title=ive-upset-dh#407630 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Wow - I really don&#039;t understand...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407625&title=ive-upset-dh#407625 Author: AliaDawn
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:28pm

Wow - I really don't understand that mindset... how outdated! I have nothing wrong with boys wearing pink or whatever they like, though I don't really like pink and the closest Seb has in clothes/nappies is purple.

I hope these men would be alot more supportive if their children actually were gay! I can see how the whole closet thing starts. ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:28:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407625&title=ive-upset-dh#407625 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Joshie loves carrying my handbag...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407623&title=ive-upset-dh#407623 Author: Jay_R
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:27pm

Joshie loves carrying my handbag round the house whilst wearing my shoes

Also, he's got longer hair, and sometimes his half-sister will put it in pigtails. While he's carrying my handbag and wearing my shoes.

Hehehe, DP gets a bit concerned, but he's also a real 'boy' who loves trucks and cars and smashing stuff. ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:27:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407623&title=ive-upset-dh#407623 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : james has a play handbag and loves...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407612&title=ive-upset-dh#407612 Author: james
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:21pm

james has a play handbag and loves playing with dolls and my father hates it ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:21:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407612&title=ive-upset-dh#407612 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : LOL, my boys has a Bob the Builder...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407609&title=ive-upset-dh#407609 Author: Shorty
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:21pm

LOL, my boys has a Bob the Builder bum bag and calls it his "handbag" DH looks at me funny everytime ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:21:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407609&title=ive-upset-dh#407609 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Yeah I know, I just laughed and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407589&title=ive-upset-dh#407589 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:09pm

Yeah I know, I just laughed and Spencer is still playing with the handbag, he loves it and is taking it everywhere.....hahaha.]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:09:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407589&title=ive-upset-dh#407589 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : Men!!!!!!!!!! there were several...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407583&title=ive-upset-dh#407583 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:04pm

Men!!!!!!!!!! there were several parents at preschool (men) funny bout letting boys dressup or play in pink ... there's heapppppppppppppppps of research that says it actually helps them and certainly doesn't 'turn them gay!!!' :) ! ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:04:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407583&title=ive-upset-dh#407583 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : ohforgoodnesssake. ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407581&title=ive-upset-dh#407581 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:03pm

ohforgoodnesssake.]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:03:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407581&title=ive-upset-dh#407581 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : PMSL! My brothers-in-law both...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407579&title=ive-upset-dh#407579 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 12:01pm

PMSL!

My brothers-in-law both refused to use the family Baptism gown on their sons as they said there's no way their boys are going to wear a dress.

]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 12:01:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407579&title=ive-upset-dh#407579 <![CDATA[I’ve upset DH : by giving Spencer my old handbag...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407574&title=ive-upset-dh#407574 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 18055
Posted: 09 June 2008 at 11:56am

by giving Spencer my old handbag to play with...lol

He asked if I was "trying to turn him gay" ]]> Mon, 09 Jun 2008 11:56:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18055&PID=407574&title=ive-upset-dh#407574