https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 17:56:12 +0000 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 19:49:23 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=18656 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=427140&title=im-so-immature#427140 Author: Rachel75
Subject: 18656
Posted: 29 June 2008 at 7:49pm

I sulk, throw tantys & spend like crazy
Hubby then spends the following week reminding me about what I brought & threatening to take away my cashflow card lol]]> Sun, 29 Jun 2008 19:49:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=427140&title=im-so-immature#427140 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426706&title=im-so-immature#426706 Author: Candkids
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 9:50pm

lol im a tanty thrower!! only ever since my 2nd pregnancy tho LOL

or ill sulk big time., and wont let him do anything at all, and try and be super mum, then i just get tired and even grumpier hahaha]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 21:50:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426706&title=im-so-immature#426706 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426674&title=im-so-immature#426674 Author: Jennz
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 9:01pm

Haha I pretty much do all of the above as well! Our house is currently spotless- as are my well dressed/fed children who he has barely been able to interact with since I've done everything to do with them last night and today. Plus I haven't spoken to him since (apart from my giant tanty at the time!).

I would also run away to Mums if I could but since shes on the other side of the world its kind of hard. Although.... ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 21:01:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426674&title=im-so-immature#426674 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426453&title=im-so-immature#426453 Author: lucky3rdtime
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 2:53pm

Men should know they will never win, women are much more evil and cunning.

I usually sigh alot and I give him the silent treatment, not that he probably cares, then eventually I will end up shouting, swearing and bawling and lying on the bed, hoping he will come in and comfort me, which he usually does. Pathetic really.

Sometimes if I am sh*tty at him cos I feel like I am doing everything, he will offer help and I will have a mental at him and refuse his help, when I really could do with a break, I'm another self defeatest!!!]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 14:53:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426453&title=im-so-immature#426453 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426425&title=im-so-immature#426425 Author: AnnC
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 2:29pm

I so hear ya Jennz - i am about to go and spend that $200 on PP that Dh said lets think about since he upset me today.... HE HAS TO PAY!!!! ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 14:29:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426425&title=im-so-immature#426425 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426379&title=im-so-immature#426379 Author: Maya
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 1:10pm

I'm a tanty thrower too, if I am mad then the whole world knows about it. The most frustrating thing is that he usually gets in his car and takes off and by the time he comes back an hour or so later I'm over it, so I don't get the satisfaction of an audience when I'm throwing a tanty

I'm also a compulsive shopper but we have separate bank accts, money etc. so if I spend it's my own money and it doesn't have quite the same satisfaction...]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 13:10:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426379&title=im-so-immature#426379 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426346&title=im-so-immature#426346 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 12:10pm

My DH always offers me a back rub when hes feeling bad from doing something worng and when im angry i usually say "NO!! save your stupid back rubs!" then i lay there thinking "oh man it would be soooo nice to have a back rub right now!!" so i actually shoot myself in the foot doing that but if i say yes then he thinks he is breaking the barier of anger!

Also i do the budget in our house and when he peeves me off about money (maoning when i buy something for $10 on TM) i dont allow any money for his smokes! *insert evil face and laugh* which are $20 a week i might add (why should he be able to buy smokes every week and i get nothing! ) ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 12:10:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426346&title=im-so-immature#426346 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426308&title=im-so-immature#426308 Author: gemsmum
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 11:22am

I'm another sulker - I like your method better though Jennz!! Shame I know how much isn't in our bank accounts *sigh*.]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 11:22:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426308&title=im-so-immature#426308 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426301&title=im-so-immature#426301 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 11:14am

I sulk or throw a tanty! I never did that as a child, I think its some kind of regressive thing.

I dont shop, cos we dont have any money but I do make food he doesnt particuarily like for dinner.]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 11:14:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426301&title=im-so-immature#426301 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426280&title=im-so-immature#426280 Author: AngieBabe
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 10:56am

Peanut wrote: I tend to do everything and not let him do anything....its suppose to make him feel bad and guilty but I think its probably more of a reward

Me too... which is silly 'cause a lot of our arguments are over him not doing enough around the place! Talk about self-defeating!

One other time though I was serving up dinner, a favourite of DH and he did something to annoy me so I threw his dinner on the ground ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:56:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426280&title=im-so-immature#426280 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426279&title=im-so-immature#426279 Author: Peanut
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 10:52am

I tend to do everything and not let him do anything....its suppose to make him feel bad and guilty but I think its probably more of a reward

I am a big money spender but more when I am bored and have nothing else to do. I had a quiet day at work yesterday so brought more nappies and pumpkin patch stuff online ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:52:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426279&title=im-so-immature#426279 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426253&title=im-so-immature#426253 Author: MyBelly
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 10:27am

i sulk! the most immature thing possible!

and yea i do everything around the house in bad grace too!]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:27:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426253&title=im-so-immature#426253 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426250&title=im-so-immature#426250 Author: Glow
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 10:23am

I ran away ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:23:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426250&title=im-so-immature#426250 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426230&title=im-so-immature#426230 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 10:02am

Me too I clean everything and vaccume in front of the TV hehe ]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 10:02:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426230&title=im-so-immature#426230 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426225&title=im-so-immature#426225 Author: Snickerdoodle
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 9:55am

I do everything around the house when I'm angry - not letting him do anything.
Looking after Hannah, cleaning, cooking, etc.

But I do it with a bad grace, so he'll feel bad.


***edited cos I can't spell my childs name.

Edited by MamaPickle]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 09:55:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426225&title=im-so-immature#426225 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426162&title=im-so-immature#426162 Author: Genie
Subject: 18656
Posted: 28 June 2008 at 1:01am

lol I clean when I get angry too, not really a bad thing as when I calm down I think oh yay now I've got a clean house. I don't spend money though since I am the only budget police round here..hubby is terrible with money.]]> Sat, 28 Jun 2008 01:01:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426162&title=im-so-immature#426162 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426114&title=im-so-immature#426114 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 18656
Posted: 27 June 2008 at 10:49pm

Cleaned the whole house so it was sparkling.
I am also a compulsive shopper when I get angry.]]> Fri, 27 Jun 2008 22:49:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426114&title=im-so-immature#426114 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426111&title=im-so-immature#426111 Author: Jennz
Subject: 18656
Posted: 27 June 2008 at 10:45pm

DH and I had a bit of a argument and today I went on a big spending spree- I went online and bought a whole lot more from pumpkin patch that I didn't get last time ($270 worth ), I got £40 worth of books I've been wanting to get off amazon, I went into town and spent £65 on clothes for the girls and £45 on clothes for me! I feel so stupid and immature- I spend money because I know its the thing that will upset him the most. He'll be mad but its my savings I spent too- I feel like a real d*ck at the moment.

Please people tell me stupid things you've done when you've been mad at your other halves so I don't feel like I'm the only twit out there! ]]> Fri, 27 Jun 2008 22:45:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=18656&PID=426111&title=im-so-immature#426111