OHbaby! Forums : Disappointed! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 16:29:05 +0000 Fri, 11 Jul 2008 21:25:23 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=19038 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Thanks again girls, you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437515&title=disappointed#437515 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 9:25pm

Thanks again girls, you're all so fantastic!  What would I do without you all?!?

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 21:25:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437515&title=disappointed#437515 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Good to hear Jett is pulling through...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437426&title=disappointed#437426 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 8:10pm

Good to hear Jett is pulling through ok - hope he stays well now

Not that I can compare to your problem Anoushka but I've found my pre-baby friends have all but vanished off the face of the earth (one even has 3 kids!)

I've been really lucky and have made some of the best friends I have ever had on here ]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 20:10:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437426&title=disappointed#437426 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Sorry to hear that your IRL friends...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437362&title=disappointed#437362 Author: MummyFreckle
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 6:51pm

Sorry to hear that your IRL friends have let you down....but am so glad to hear that little Jett is doing well after his surgery. It must be so hard to see them in situations like that and prob harder for mummy than for bubs.

Big hugs - glad your OB friends were able to offer support!

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 18:51:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437362&title=disappointed#437362 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Yeah one of them doesn&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437261&title=disappointed#437261 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 4:28pm

Yeah one of them doesn't have kids (the one I'm closest to, and really adores my kids and used to like having Gia stay over the night, and always made a beeline for Jett), the other one has a 2 yrs old, and 38 weeks pg with #2. 

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:28:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437261&title=disappointed#437261 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : One of them, the one I thought...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437254&title=disappointed#437254 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 4:25pm

One of them, the one I thought I would've more likely heard from, has been a bit slack for a few weeks, and when I have seen her and asked why I never hear from her, she says she's just busy (pathetic really, as normally I'm always the one who she's "busy" with).  But I still thought I would've had some communication from her this week.  The other one I just spoke to on tuesday (well emailed) and told her about the surgery, and she still hasn't replied, with any support, so that's annoyed me as well. 

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:25:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437254&title=disappointed#437254 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Glad to hear Jett is recovering...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437251&title=disappointed#437251 Author: pepsi
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 4:25pm

Glad to hear Jett is recovering ok.

Just out of curiosity, do your friends have kids themselves? I only ask because a girl at my work (who has no kids) was complaining to me about a friend of hers who is pregnant. The way she was talking made me realise how women without kids look at situations quite differently. In fact, even I remember not realising how precious children are until I had one of my own.. ]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:25:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437251&title=disappointed#437251 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : That&#039;s pretty bad. Have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437221&title=disappointed#437221 Author: caraMel
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 3:52pm

That's pretty bad.
Have you been in touch with them at all? Maybe they've got something going on, family dramas or something?
Not trying to make light of them being slack or anything, just thinking maybe there is a good reason you haven't heard from them. I hope you can sort things out with them, either way!
Glad Jett is doing well, and fingers crossed he won't need any more surgeries! Must be so hard for you to see him going through that.
]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 15:52:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437221&title=disappointed#437221 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Aww hun Just goes to show you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437211&title=disappointed#437211 Author: Neeks
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 3:43pm

Aww hun
Just goes to show you don't need to KNOW the person for them to care, because obviously alot of people on OhBaby really care about you and your family Italiah and very few of us have actually met IRL

Glad to hear all went well with the surgery, and I pray it's the last one for a while... poor little guy!!!

Edited by Neeks]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 15:43:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437211&title=disappointed#437211 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : aww hun that really sux about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437165&title=disappointed#437165 Author: Candkids
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:59pm

aww hun that really sux about your friends , hope jetts recovering ok :) big hugs ]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:59:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437165&title=disappointed#437165 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : aww hun that really sux about...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437163&title=disappointed#437163 Author: Candkids
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:59pm

aww hun that really sux about your friends , hope jetts recovering ok :) big hugs ]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:59:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437163&title=disappointed#437163 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : oh that sux of your friends!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437151&title=disappointed#437151 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:43pm

oh that sux of your friends!! but its great to hear that Jett handled it well poor wee mite!

my "best friend" doesnt even remember Astins name most of the time! (We dont see much of each other anymore though due to living in different places now)]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:43:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437151&title=disappointed#437151 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : See you guys have given me more...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437138&title=disappointed#437138 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:27pm

See you guys have given me more support than these 2 friends (who are sisters by the way), and I've never met you IRL!!

 

Thanks guys!!!



Edited by Italiah]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:27:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437138&title=disappointed#437138 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Go Jett!!! I missed the whole...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437137&title=disappointed#437137 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:27pm

Go Jett!!! I missed the whole thing but glad it went well!]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:27:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437137&title=disappointed#437137 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Aww hun that sux, I think times...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437136&title=disappointed#437136 Author: AnnC
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:26pm

Aww hun that sux, I think times like these you do learn who are your true friends and those who are 'good weather' friends. Doesn't make you feel any better about it though!

I hope Jett is well on the road to recovery ]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:26:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437136&title=disappointed#437136 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Thanks CT. Yeah Jett&#039;s been...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437133&title=disappointed#437133 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:25pm

Thanks CT.  Yeah Jett's been great through it all.  That makes it easier on me, seeing him going through it all.  I've only been under G.A. once and never want to go through that again, but poor Jett's been under 3 times!  So it's been a bit rough on him.  Hopefully the abscess is all sorted now though.

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:25:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437133&title=disappointed#437133 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : Glad to hear it all went ok!!Id...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437131&title=disappointed#437131 Author: My3Sons
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:24pm

Glad to hear it all went ok!! Id send the text, hopefully make them feel guilty!  Glad you had lots of other support around you!

]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:24:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437131&title=disappointed#437131 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : That sucks, glad that Jett is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437126&title=disappointed#437126 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:18pm

That sucks, glad that Jett is recovering well. I probably would have sent the sarky text, might give them a kick up the bum and get them thinking about things.]]> Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:18:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437126&title=disappointed#437126 <![CDATA[Disappointed! : I&#039;m feeling really disappointed...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=19038&PID=437123&title=disappointed#437123 Author: my4beauties
Subject: 19038
Posted: 11 July 2008 at 2:16pm

I'm feeling really disappointed in a couple of friends today.

 

Jett had to go back to waikato hospital yesterday for surgery on his peri-anal abscess.  It was going to be an overnight stay, but we were allowed to go home late evening.  I had texts beginning Wednesday of support, from immediate family, a few friends and even a chick from my ante-natal group from when I was pg with Rico!!   And of course from the lovely ladies in the July/August 07 thread. They were coming in all yesterday & this morning as well.

 

But I've had no word from who I thought were my closest 2 friends.  No text, phonecall, email, or comment on my bebo page.  Nothing, zilch.  I'm really angry at them, and feel like texting them & saying "Yeah Jett's fine after his surgery, thanks for asking".  Sarcastic & petty maybe, but that's how it's made me feel.

 

They both knew Jett was going in, so no excuse there, that they didn't know about it.

 

If that was one of my friends/relatives, I would've been in contact all along, & given them plenty of support.  So I'm feeling really let down by them.

 

Grrrrrrr!!!!!!

 

 

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