https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 28 Jun 2026 20:46:05 +0000 Fri, 24 Mar 2006 16:35:32 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=1904 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=35037&title=high-bloodpressure#35037 Author: jax
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 4:35pm

Ouch, am starting to realise that I must have it really good or something ! Rols was pretty OK the whole time, he would get a little frustrated, but seemed to be pretty understanding of what was going on (esp. where cooking was concerned while i still had morning sickness). We had cereal for dinner a lot of nights ! ]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 16:35:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=35037&title=high-bloodpressure#35037 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=35001&title=high-bloodpressure#35001 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 12:13pm

awww i sooo know what you mean, if i have a bad day its not until im actually crying that he feels bad!!!! #)(*%)#(*%)#*%)#swearcurseswear!!!#)%(_#%(_

next time just tell him you will make dinner if he doesnt mind enjoying a side of puke and make sure you stand there with a serious look on ur face he wont know what to do lol]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 12:13:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=35001&title=high-bloodpressure#35001 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34996&title=high-bloodpressure#34996 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 11:40am

aaargh I am with you on the SH issues Jes (although yours seemed to have redeemed himself with gifts for now LOL!)
I am so grumpy that he doenst even know how I feel, the other day i was feeling so nauseous, and husband came home and asked what is for dinner (i had just got home from a long day at work myself) and i said "ï dont know i feel sick" and he said...wait for it this is just so annoying..."awwwww...feeling a little fragile today are we?"
NOPE DUMB*SS, I FEEL LIKE BASHING YOUR HEAD IN! Does that qualify as fragile!!!!
OH it's so patronising, they just dont understand!!!! They just dont! ]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 11:40:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34996&title=high-bloodpressure#34996 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34933&title=high-bloodpressure#34933 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 8:31am

cory came home with new pjs for me last night and a pressie for ella (some socks like mummies lol that have anti slip stuff on the bottom of them) so that was pretty cute ]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 08:31:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34933&title=high-bloodpressure#34933 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34926&title=high-bloodpressure#34926 Author: Karysta
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 8:14am

hehe Jess I had High bood pressure, just had to be careful not to let it rise insanely and it was all good!.

Ooo lucky..you newmum.. Mark cant even boil water by himself.]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 08:14:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34926&title=high-bloodpressure#34926 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34922&title=high-bloodpressure#34922 Author: newmum
Subject: 1904
Posted: 24 March 2006 at 8:05am

Yesterday I had a "day off" and decided I didn't feel like doing anything but playing with Joey and watching TV (which I NEVER do during the day) so I didn't LOL, Peter is so good though, when he got home I just told him I couldn't be bothered with anything and he even cooked tea!!! YAY!!! ]]> Fri, 24 Mar 2006 08:05:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34922&title=high-bloodpressure#34922 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34894&title=high-bloodpressure#34894 Author: jax
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 9:38pm

Mmm... well, not to be a party pooper but I can't complain, Roland has only really been grumpy because the poor bloke has had a continuous guts ache for almost three days - we went to a White Cross clinic tonight, and he still hasn't quite come right even after being given things to fix it. ]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 21:38:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34894&title=high-bloodpressure#34894 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34892&title=high-bloodpressure#34892 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 9:33pm

Mmmm I'm not even pregnant and have the same problem Robyn.
I'm severely anti-stupid boyfriend at the moment.

Maybe we are all off our partners?? Must be a cycle of the moon... much like the baby rebellions]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 21:33:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34892&title=high-bloodpressure#34892 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34873&title=high-bloodpressure#34873 Author: robyn
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 6:53pm

mine DH thinks that if I know IM going to be all hormonal and grumpy I should know in advance to make an effort to be nice, as if it works like that!]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 18:53:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34873&title=high-bloodpressure#34873 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34865&title=high-bloodpressure#34865 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 4:13pm

oh rach i am so there with you on the resting and them thinking its what we do all day!!! grrrr]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 16:13:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34865&title=high-bloodpressure#34865 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34861&title=high-bloodpressure#34861 Author: 98765
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 3:49pm

Yeah mine can't understand how nothing is done when he gets home he doesn't understand why i need a rest when jack is asleep he thinks i just sit on the couch all day. ]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 15:49:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34861&title=high-bloodpressure#34861 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34858&title=high-bloodpressure#34858 Author: preggy_sunflower
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 3:42pm

Nope, they're just thoughtless sometimes. They see us getting bigger and bigger, and lumbering about like an elephant and while I'm sure it registers that it must be harder for us I don't think they can really fathom JUST HOW BLOODY HARD IT IS TO BE PREGNANT. They expect us to carry on with our usual day to day routines, not even thinking that maybe it would be nice if they took charge of the dinner sometimes, or ran us a bath or just gave us a cuddle....]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 15:42:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34858&title=high-bloodpressure#34858 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34852&title=high-bloodpressure#34852 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 3:15pm

Thanks girls ur all lovely Im sure half the time they stress us out to watch us almost burst for fun!!!]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 15:15:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34852&title=high-bloodpressure#34852 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34828&title=high-bloodpressure#34828 Author: Kazzle
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 2:29pm

im right there with you, over the past couple of weeks my bp has gone up and down all over the place.

im now being monitored weekly, which means spending 4hrs a week in the maternity ward having bloods etc done to make sure im not getting toxemia.

as long as your midwife keeps an eye on you, you will be fine, just remember to get plenty of rest :)]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 14:29:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34828&title=high-bloodpressure#34828 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34826&title=high-bloodpressure#34826 Author: mum2paris
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 2:26pm

systolic and diastolic.

I second everything everyone's said - take it easy, tell him that if you don't take it easy things can start to go wrong (cos they can) and that he will have to start healping you cos this is what its gonna be like when new baby comes and you can't be his mummy too! lol]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 14:26:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34826&title=high-bloodpressure#34826 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34821&title=high-bloodpressure#34821 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 2:10pm

sorry Jess no advice, exept for maybe tell your Dh that you will hire a cleaner if he doesnt start to help you. Hope the bp settles down.]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 14:10:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34821&title=high-bloodpressure#34821 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34816&title=high-bloodpressure#34816 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 2:01pm

my hubby is great and supportive and all, but its not the same, he doesnt KNOW what we go through.... the emotions... the pain etc.... and i do often go on strike myself! and then feel bad about it.

as for stress, yeah that can be a big factor in the higher number (whats its officially called??) mine could go up to 160 with me! haha, im highly stressable! but the low one i dont think is changed by stress as much.

do try to take it easy though (haha easier said than done aye?!) ]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 14:01:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34816&title=high-bloodpressure#34816 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34812&title=high-bloodpressure#34812 Author: AnnaD
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 1:55pm

hehe!! SH!! I SOOOOO have one of those at the moment!! (although we are not married so technically it is easier for me to GET RID OF MINE! Grrrrrr)

Re the high blood pressure, mine was high throughout my pregnancy but steadily got worse towards the end. Never was it bad enough to do something about but I always got the 'look' from the midwife and she kept a close eye on it. I would say that if it were something to really worry about, your midwife would be worrying. Otherwise take it easy.

And re SH, I am not sure how make them realise that being preggy in not a walk in the park but I love the backpack idea!]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 13:55:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34812&title=high-bloodpressure#34812 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34805&title=high-bloodpressure#34805 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 1:38pm

Thanks chicka! Im thinking i will lol and make him do it all, mum reckons i should get a back pack and put a few bricks in it and make him carry it around for awhile lol and see how he likes it haha]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 13:38:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34805&title=high-bloodpressure#34805 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34800&title=high-bloodpressure#34800 Author: newmum
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 1:25pm

Hugs to you Jess. GO ON STRIKE!!! LOL, SH (I love it!!) should wake up and help pretty quick then ]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 13:25:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34800&title=high-bloodpressure#34800 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34795&title=high-bloodpressure#34795 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 1:14pm

Im wondering if mine is stress related? Altho i was pretty stressed when i was working and it was never high, my SH is stressing me out hes just not pulling his weight, i have a muscle problem or something in my hip that my midwife has told me to rest and take care of myself, but how can i do that when my SH (Stupid Husband) cant even do anything for himself?

Sorry for the rant im just so annoyed right about now!]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 13:14:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34795&title=high-bloodpressure#34795 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34792&title=high-bloodpressure#34792 Author: robyn
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 1:01pm

Yep I have had high blood pressure from day one and did with Kobe too. Midwife said to just watch for any swelling and headaches and will just keep monitoring it.]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 13:01:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34792&title=high-bloodpressure#34792 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34790&title=high-bloodpressure#34790 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 12:56pm

yeah, i had high bloood pressure throughout my first pregnancy, it got worse in the last 8 weeks. was in the 90's for the low number but rose to over 100 in the later stages.
your midwife will keep a good eye on yours, hopefully it will improve for you. keep rested.
]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 12:56:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34790&title=high-bloodpressure#34790 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34770&title=high-bloodpressure#34770 Author: preggy_sunflower
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 11:54am

Nope, mine has been really good - oh, apart from the few times it dropped really low and I fainted.... ]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 11:54:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34770&title=high-bloodpressure#34770 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34769&title=high-bloodpressure#34769 Author: Guests
Subject: 1904
Posted: 23 March 2006 at 11:52am

I just had my visit with my midwife and she said my bloodpressure was high and looked a little concerned but she didnt say anything else. Anyone else have high blood pressure at this stage of their pregnancy?]]> Thu, 23 Mar 2006 11:52:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=1904&PID=34769&title=high-bloodpressure#34769