OHbaby! Forums : Is it wrong to be angry??? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Tue, 07 Apr 2026 05:12:31 +0000 Mon, 25 Aug 2008 20:32:14 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=20346 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : Yeah I know it is going to suck,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474984&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474984 Author: mummy_becks
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Posted: 25 August 2008 at 8:32pm

Yeah I know it is going to suck, he wasn't here for Josh's actual birthday but we had a party for him 2 days later which was all good. Or Andrew's but he did come down the day before his party to see him.

I am just not going to make anymore plans around him and just do what I want to do.

 

]]> Mon, 25 Aug 2008 20:32:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474984&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474984 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : I get annoyed and DH is only in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474945&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474945 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 20346
Posted: 25 August 2008 at 8:15pm

I get annoyed and DH is only in the airforce which is the most family friendly of the services.
It can be very disruptive to our lives, but I can assure you it is worth it. DH has been in 12 years now and I've been with him for 8 of those, he loves what he does and gets to do some interesting and exciting things.
He being in the services has put a pretty nice roof over our heads, and gives us a lot of extras. Like the gym, pool etc.

So yeah its sucks some times, but its also how it is. I've learn't not to too many plans too far in advance as they'll no doubt change and I'll get pi$$ed off.]]> Mon, 25 Aug 2008 20:15:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474945&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474945 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : That sucks but I think it&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474869&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474869 Author: kebakat
Subject: 20346
Posted: 25 August 2008 at 7:02pm

That sucks but I think it's like emz said, it's something you'll have to get use to with the army. But even if you guys can't do anything on the day you can always do something either before or after instead. It's the thought that counts and at least you will be doing something ]]> Mon, 25 Aug 2008 19:02:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474869&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474869 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : I guess a lot of it comes with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474838&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474838 Author: busymum
Subject: 20346
Posted: 25 August 2008 at 6:26pm

I guess a lot of it comes with the territory but maybe it's time to sit down together and say, hey we've done really well this year with all the extra pressures etc and it's probably about time we at least went out for dinner, just the two of us.]]> Mon, 25 Aug 2008 18:26:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474838&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474838 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : emz wrote:I get angry too,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474242&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474242 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 9:57pm

Originally posted by emz emz wrote:

I get angry too, but unfortunately its very very usual. I suggest you get used to having birthdays etc missed from now on Not cool but hey they choose it and the army is the least family friendly out of all forces.

DH has missed all anniversaries except for this one, most of my bdays, most of his bdays since we've been together, only one Christmas though which is good (although will miss next one and was supposed to miss last one), almost missed Jack's birth, might miss #2's birth or first Xmas, and wait for it... almost missed our wedding!


]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 21:57:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474242&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474242 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : I get angry too, but unfortunately...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474221&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474221 Author: emz
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 9:31pm

I get angry too, but unfortunately its very very usual. I suggest you get used to having birthdays etc missed from now on Not cool but hey they choose it and the army is the least family friendly out of all forces.

DH has missed all anniversaries except for this one, most of my bdays, most of his bdays since we've been together, only one Christmas though which is good (although will miss next one and was supposed to miss last one), almost missed Jack's birth, might miss #2's birth or first Xmas, and wait for it... almost missed our wedding! ]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 21:31:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474221&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474221 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : thinking on the bright side ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474157&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474157 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 8:18pm

thinking on the bright side ]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 20:18:06 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474157&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474157 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : We would be best to wait till...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474146&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474146 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 8:12pm

We would be best to wait till he gets back as he is away for pretty much all of October.

Not a silly idea, we could actually go down to Palmy and the in laws could have the boys for the night while we went somewhere else.Would be a weekday as well so cheaper.

And I know it isn't his fault, just his stupid employer

]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 20:12:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474146&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474146 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : I would be angry too becks! definately...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474135&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474135 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 8:06pm

I would be angry too becks! definately let him know how you feel and i like the idea of celebrating earlier ]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 20:06:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474135&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474135 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : Why don&#039;t you suggest to...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474132&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474132 Author: .Mel
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 8:04pm

Why don't you suggest to him that you and him celebrate your birthday a little earlier (before he leaves), maybe go and stay in Taupo for the night and get the IL's to babysit?

]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 20:04:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474132&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474132 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : tell him...i know it is out of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474099&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474099 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 7:29pm

tell him...i know it is out of his control but at least he will know how you feel...

and hope he doesnt do sucky burpday pressies like a certain someone i know this year!!! ]]> Sun, 24 Aug 2008 19:29:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474099&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474099 <![CDATA[Is it wrong to be angry??? : This year I knew we weren&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20346&PID=474093&title=is-it-wrong-to-be-angry#474093 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 20346
Posted: 24 August 2008 at 7:25pm

This year I knew we weren't going to see Nigel that much and I understood this and knew it.

But he was away for Mother's Day and I got nothing that day apart from grumpy children.

I was just reading his term plan (to find out when he is back this week) and I see that he has leave for Father's day (which is cool), but is going to be on an Exercise for my birthday.

I am really gutted that the 2 things that are special for me I don't get him to be here with me, the boys don't fully understand what this means to me.

I am probably just all emotional as AF is here, but this has just realy got to me.

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