OHbaby! Forums : TMI - Sex Question https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 08 May 2026 03:30:37 +0000 Fri, 29 Aug 2008 22:35:08 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=20460 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : hehe what a funny post. I wish...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=479002&title=tmi-sex-question#479002 Author: JD
Subject: 20460
Posted: 29 August 2008 at 10:35pm

hehe what a funny post.

I wish DH would go there again, but he is a bit weirded out by it still and would rather wait till Im not breast feeding. Hands go there (sort of), but face doesn't (at the moment).

You might just have to see how your DH feels about it.

It might take a wee bit for them to settle down a bit too. At first they might be quite sore and leaky. After a while they settle down and you don't have to worry about leakage so much.
That was about 4 months afterwards for me. I still wore a bra and breast pads a night to stop the leakage.
Oh and I have read that when you get excited, they can leak also. Doesn't happen for me, but you might have to be prepared for that.

Enjoy it all now, and deal with that when you have to ]]> Fri, 29 Aug 2008 22:35:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=479002&title=tmi-sex-question#479002 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : I&#039;m glad you know that leakage...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478857&title=tmi-sex-question#478857 Author: DJ
Subject: 20460
Posted: 29 August 2008 at 7:25pm

I'm glad you know that leakage can happen and are prepared for it! Came and somewhat of a surprise to me and was very off-putting!

So now I'm all in favour of bra and breast pads...]]> Fri, 29 Aug 2008 19:25:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478857&title=tmi-sex-question#478857 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Hmm yes bit of a head thing for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478836&title=tmi-sex-question#478836 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 20460
Posted: 29 August 2008 at 6:59pm

Hmm yes bit of a head thing for me too..just kinda feels weird....]]> Fri, 29 Aug 2008 18:59:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478836&title=tmi-sex-question#478836 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Mmmm yeahhhhh leaking. ha. I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478141&title=tmi-sex-question#478141 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 9:45pm

Mmmm yeahhhhh leaking. ha.

I recall getting ermmmm into stuff with a guy when Han was about a year old and thinking "What the hell is that??" then realising I was leaking. So terribly awkward when the guy isn't even the dad. I just laughed. A lot. hehe

It certainly makes things interesting for a while. You'll figure out what suits best.]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 21:45:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=478141&title=tmi-sex-question#478141 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : This is something I had never...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477923&title=tmi-sex-question#477923 Author: Zina
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 7:21pm

This is something I had never contemplated. Thanks for posting surfergirl
]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:21:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477923&title=tmi-sex-question#477923 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : I find it best with a folded towel...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477915&title=tmi-sex-question#477915 Author: busymum
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 7:16pm

I find it best with a folded towel over the width of the bed so that I don't fret too much about leakage. Any touch or excitement gets the squirting going for the first couple of months And yes, DH likes to help with any spilling over

Breasts and bf and sex is kinda different all together but it does return to normal! And you just learn different ways to get around things.]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:16:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477915&title=tmi-sex-question#477915 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : surfergirl wrote:for me is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477840&title=tmi-sex-question#477840 Author: gypsynita
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 5:34pm

Originally posted by surfergirl surfergirl wrote:

for me is an 'all body' experience...this includes my boobs...so, how is this possible (post baby) without squirting DH in the eye (or somewhere else?) Does this mean that boobs are no longer involved in the action...???


LOL surfergirl - I was just wondering about that this morning!! I'm quite big on boob-action during sex so a little concerned how that's going to work.

I have a feeling DH will be the same as others said- that it's DS's territory!]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 17:34:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477840&title=tmi-sex-question#477840 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Our body has so many G spots that...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477550&title=tmi-sex-question#477550 Author: Shorty
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 1:28pm

Our body has so many G spots that are no found until you explore ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 13:28:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477550&title=tmi-sex-question#477550 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : My breasts were out of the actionwhen...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477544&title=tmi-sex-question#477544 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 1:23pm

My breasts were out of the action when I was BFing, I generally kept a bra on as well to contain any leakage, but there are plenty more body parts and it's a lot of fun finding different areas that make you tingle.]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 13:23:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477544&title=tmi-sex-question#477544 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Pearls wrote:I know this might...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477501&title=tmi-sex-question#477501 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:34pm

Originally posted by Pearls Pearls wrote:

I know this might freak some people out even more, but I know there are probably more than a few women out there (in the world) whose husbands would probably be quite happy to 'help themselves' to any runoff... solves the leakage problem!


I've heard thats quite good for hangovers too... ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:34:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477501&title=tmi-sex-question#477501 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : LOL My DH stays well away from...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477490&title=tmi-sex-question#477490 Author: Roksana
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:28pm

LOL

My DH stays well away from my boobs now! I dont leak but like Stacey's DH...he feels that "Those" belong to DD so yah! I would also feel a bit weird to be honest if he did go there.....

Ah joy of mother hood!! ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:28:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477490&title=tmi-sex-question#477490 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : And just because you enjoy sex...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477486&title=tmi-sex-question#477486 Author: HippyMama
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:27pm

And just because you enjoy sex doesn't make you a 'nympho' or give you anything to be embarassed about ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:27:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477486&title=tmi-sex-question#477486 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : I know this might freak some people...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477483&title=tmi-sex-question#477483 Author: HippyMama
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:26pm

I know this might freak some people out even more, but I know there are probably more than a few women out there (in the world) whose husbands would probably be quite happy to 'help themselves' to any runoff... solves the leakage problem!]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:26:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477483&title=tmi-sex-question#477483 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Yeah, I suppose it&#039;s more...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477471&title=tmi-sex-question#477471 Author: surfergirl
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:17pm

Yeah, I suppose it's more about how DH feels about it... ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:17:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477471&title=tmi-sex-question#477471 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : I guess it&#039;s up to you and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477465&title=tmi-sex-question#477465 Author: kebakat
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:14pm

I guess it's up to you and your DH if you are comfy with a bit of leakage. Even now a year after stopping breast feeding when DH and I are having sex and my boobs get squished from him being on top of me or anything I leak a little.

eta: Just remembered that DH didn't like groping my boobs when I was BF, he saw them as Daniels so didn't want to 'go there'

Edited by kebakat]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:14:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477465&title=tmi-sex-question#477465 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : It is for me as well, but while...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477464&title=tmi-sex-question#477464 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:14pm

It is for me as well, but while I was BF I just didn't have them touched. Once I stopped BF and my milk went it was fine to go back to the normal ways

]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:14:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477464&title=tmi-sex-question#477464 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Umm sorry to say milk does come...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477452&title=tmi-sex-question#477452 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 12:02pm

Umm sorry to say milk does come out for some so you can either take boobs out of the equation or just do it anyway and have a towel lying handy.

I personally don't let my boobs in on the action when I'm breastfeeding because it just messes with my head and makes me feel weird about breastfeeding. I have never had leakage during sex tho its more in my head.

If you and your DH are fine with it then go for it ]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 12:02:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477452&title=tmi-sex-question#477452 <![CDATA[TMI - Sex Question : Can&#039;t believe I am going...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477446&title=tmi-sex-question#477446 Author: surfergirl
Subject: 20460
Posted: 28 August 2008 at 11:57am


Can't believe I am going to ask this and risk sounding like a nympho...but it's been keeping me up all night and I just have to ask...

Sex for me is an 'all body' experience...this includes my boobs...so, how is this possible (post baby) without squirting DH in the eye (or somewhere else?) Does this mean that boobs are no longer involved in the action...???

OMG, the shame...I'm blushing while I'm writing this, but please someone please tell me that it's not all over while you're breastfeeding!
]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2008 11:57:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20460&PID=477446&title=tmi-sex-question#477446