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   <title><![CDATA[Why isn&#146;t it working!? = ( : I would certainly get a referral...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=20691">Daizy01</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 September 2008 at 9:23am<br /><br />I would certainly get a referral from your doctor for fertility associates.  The sooner you get on to it, the better.  Don't muck about, get on to it, girl.<br /><br />Good luck, hun.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why isn&#146;t it working!? = ( : Parki.  I understand where you&amp;#039;re...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17982">lovingmummyhood</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 13 September 2008 at 7:36am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> Parki.<br /><br />I understand where you're coming from.  I hope you are feeling ok today.  Like others have said, have you seen a specialist?<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 07:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why isn&#146;t it working!? = ( : Aww Hun        Perhaps you should...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18834">WestiesGirl</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 8:19pm<br /><br />Aww Hun <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <br /><br />Perhaps you should see your Dr for a referral to a FA if you havent done that already. I hope you  get a BFP soon <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> ]]>
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   <pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 20:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18965">almostthere</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 6:08pm<br /><br />Aww, Parki... <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <br />IM sorry you guys are still trying!! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18901">JadeC</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 5:57pm<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> I know how you feel, it's just so out of control.  Hopefully it won't be too much longer for you guys.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=18906">tiptoes</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 5:54pm<br /><br />Hey Parki, I totally know how you feel and AF arrived for me today too <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0">  it's so hard isn't it??  I had two friends last weekend say they might be pregnant and didn't know if they'll keep it and definitely don't want them and I'm dying for a little baby and nothing happens. <br /><br />How long have you guys been trying?  ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19347">mummymegs</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 3:11pm<br /><br />How long have you been trying for? Have you seen a doctor? They can do some test and can maybe refer you to FA if there are any problems.]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19686">nellybelly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 10:47am<br /><br />oh hun big hugs <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"><br /><br />I know how you feel...boy do I know! lol I have had a few conversations with friends about how come so many lovely people have trouble getting preggo, arrgh!<br /><br />AF sure sucks sometimes.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why isn&#146;t it working!? = ( : Lots of    for you Parki.  You...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17957">sally belly</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 10:27am<br /><br />Lots of <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> for you Parki.  You will become wonderful parents one day.<br /><br />I know what you mean about horrible people hurting their babies or having them when they don't really want or love them.  It really just doesn't seem fair at all.  <br /><br />In the meantime would chocolate help?]]>
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   <pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 10:27:42 +0000</pubDate>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19061">kobec</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 10:19am<br /><br />I totally understand where you are coming from parki.  I work at a radiology practice where we do the baby scans (probably not the best place to work when you are going thru infertility....) and have lots of women who come in for their scans and then go outside and have a fag while they are waiting to go thru....makes me so mad...obviously have no concerns for their baby's health.  <br />Don't give up I am sure you will be parents one day...All the best.]]>
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   <title><![CDATA[Why isn&#146;t it working!? = ( :   Parki wrote:We will be fabulous...]]></title>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=19602">Mum_mum</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 10:09am<br /><br /><table width="99%"><tr><td class="BBquote"><img src="forum_images/quote_box.png" title="Originally posted by Parki" alt="Originally posted by Parki" style="vertical-align: text-bottom;" /> <strong>Parki wrote:</strong><br /><br />We will be fabulous parents and its not fair that horrible people have babies they don't want or they hurt yet people like us have to wait & wait & wait.....<br /></td></tr></table><br /><br />Oh Parki I know how you feel, not so much the waiting but wondering why horrible people who do not love their kids or bash them get to even have their kids yet nice people have to take IVF, wait years for their wanted bubs or m/c them.<br /><br />Life sux sometimes and seems totally unfair.... what the hell does who ever control the universe think they are up to aye! (shakes fist at universe!!<img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley7.gif" border="0"> )]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=10411">caraMel</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 9:52am<br /><br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0"> <img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley31.gif" border="0">  Parki! ]]>
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    <![CDATA[<strong>Author:</strong> <a href="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/member_profile.asp?PF=17613">Parki</a><br /><strong>Subject:</strong> 20849<br /><strong>Posted:</strong> 12 September 2008 at 9:46am<br /><br />I'm fed up.<br />Im almost at the point where I want to give up.<br /><br />WHY aren't we pregnant yet!?<br /><br />I'm just getting down about it.<br /><br />We want a baby, we want to be parents.  We will be fabulous parents and its not fair that horrible people have babies they don't want or they hurt yet people like us have to wait & wait & wait.....<br /><br />I'm not fussy, a boy, a girl, a boy & girl.... Either will be amazing!<br /><br />Please hurry up = (<br /><br />I know we are not alone in feeling this way, just needed to vent because not many of my 'real' life friends know we are feeling this way....<br /><br />Af arrived today..... Im hurting and over-emotional.<br /><img border="0" src="https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/smileys/smiley19.gif" border="0"> <span style="font-size:10px"><br /><br />Edited by Parki</span>]]>
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