https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 07 May 2026 15:41:28 +0000 Sun, 09 Apr 2006 15:37:39 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=2085 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38575&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38575 Author: hollyb
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Posted: 09 April 2006 at 3:37pm

Ahhh  Good to know that I am NOT crazy. I TOTALLY agree with Becca and have been doing the same things as you. I was just feeling that doing the whole "no" and "out of bounds" was too old for him. But I am starting to realize the little monster understands a lot more than i realize...  Thanks guys. Take care and this "phase" should pass. BIG  to all of you!!!]]> Sun, 09 Apr 2006 15:37:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38575&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38575 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38483&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38483 Author: daikini
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Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:54pm

10 months old is not too young to tantrum! The problem is, they understand "no" to mean "try again" rather than "stop"... its not until they get to about 11 to 12 months old than "no" becomes a prohibition.

Consistency, and making sure they are somewhere safe when they go nuts, and not giving the tantrum unnecessary attention are the keys.
Josiah is now 11 months old, and has been tantruming properly for the last 6 weeks or so. We move him out of the doorway (or whatever) he's lying in screaming, and carry on with what we were doing. He doesn't like "no", but is starting to understand that "no" means "stop", and will now pull his hand back from whatever he was going for... he then trys again to see if we still mean it!]]> Sat, 08 Apr 2006 19:54:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38483&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38483 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38480&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38480 Author: fattartsrock
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Posted: 08 April 2006 at 7:49pm

Yep we have another tanty chucker here as well. Evne get the full on back arch, or bend over and ound fist on floor types!!]]> Sat, 08 Apr 2006 19:49:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38480&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38480 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38471&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38471 Author: james
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Posted: 08 April 2006 at 6:29pm

i no how u feel james has been doing that since he was 6 months old i usessl give in cos he don,st understand but now i just let him go he,ll get the message sooner or later ]]> Sat, 08 Apr 2006 18:29:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38471&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38471 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38467&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38467 Author: hollyb
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Posted: 08 April 2006 at 5:49pm

It is normal for a 10 month old to have full on tantrums?? If I take something away from him, he freaks ! ! Full tanties !!! What can I do about it? Nothing probably, I just feel like such a bad mummy sometimes.  But I also don't want to "give in" but is he too young to understand consequences??? Like a toddler would?]]> Sat, 08 Apr 2006 17:49:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2085&PID=38467&title=10-month-old-tantrums#38467