https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 11:33:19 +0000 Thu, 27 Nov 2008 22:21:04 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=22781 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554555&title=not-ttc#554555 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 10:21pm

Well fingers crossed for both of us!!]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 22:21:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554555&title=not-ttc#554555 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554522&title=not-ttc#554522 Author: AzzaNZ
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 9:41pm

ooEvaoo wrote: I can't wait to have #2...but not the right timing for us as well. DP works, I'm studying...and will be for the next 3 years....he said we can start when I'm in my last year of study....so 2 years....my biological clock isn't ticking......well i've just turned 24 so if anyone says that it is I'll punch them!! lolz. But really miss the experience of pregnancy and all. You're just like me...want to have 4 kids (maybe more hehe) where as DP would settle for 1 or 2....not an option I'm sorry!!. Anywhos I'm convincing myself that I can study with a new born.......and am planning in my mind to TTC end of next year.........wanna lose weight first...and then have bubs near the end of year 2......or in Year 3 sometime....Now just have to convince DP!

Good luck - with losing weight and with convincing DH!

I am so hoping he will change his mind and that we'll be in a better financial position mid to end next year and would then be able to start trying for a second]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 21:41:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554522&title=not-ttc#554522 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554386&title=not-ttc#554386 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 6:33pm

I can't wait to have #2...but not the right timing for us as well. DP works, I'm studying...and will be for the next 3 years....he said we can start when I'm in my last year of study....so 2 years....my biological clock isn't ticking......well i've just turned 24 so if anyone says that it is I'll punch them!! lolz. But really miss the experience of pregnancy and all. You're just like me...want to have 4 kids (maybe more hehe) where as DP would settle for 1 or 2....not an option I'm sorry!!. Anywhos I'm convincing myself that I can study with a new born.......and am planning in my mind to TTC end of next year.........wanna lose weight first...and then have bubs near the end of year 2......or in Year 3 sometime....Now just have to convince DP!

Edited by ooEvaoo]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 18:33:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554386&title=not-ttc#554386 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554315&title=not-ttc#554315 Author: Kellz
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 4:56pm

just come and join the waiting to ttc. There are tonnes of us and pages and pages of chatter!
We are only waiting to ttc cos we are too scared to have #2 yet, after having bad birth, ptsd and pnd. We prob wont be ttc to mid-late next year now.]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 16:56:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554315&title=not-ttc#554315 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554244&title=not-ttc#554244 Author: AzzaNZ
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:30pm

mrsg1 wrote: You could come over to the waiting to TTC thread! There are a few of us feeling like you do, wanting a child but not quite ready for one reason or another!

Thanks! Should I move or cut and paste this into that thread?]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 15:30:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554244&title=not-ttc#554244 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554243&title=not-ttc#554243 Author: AzzaNZ
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:30pm

lilfatty wrote: Maybe once he gets to grip with the whole SAHD thing he will be all guns blazing for more

We're hoping he wont be a SAHD for too long - he has applied to join the police but its a long process.

I've stopped talking about it because he makes jokes and its stopped being funny already

It took us 2 years to get pregnant with Isabella so even if I did convince him there's a strong possibility it'd be a long wait.]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 15:30:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554243&title=not-ttc#554243 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554238&title=not-ttc#554238 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 3:22pm

Maybe once he gets to grip with the whole SAHD thing he will be all guns blazing for more ]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 15:22:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554238&title=not-ttc#554238 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554221&title=not-ttc#554221 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 2:57pm

You could come over to the waiting to TTC thread!
There are a few of us feeling like you do, wanting a child but not quite ready for one reason or another! ]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:57:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554221&title=not-ttc#554221 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554210&title=not-ttc#554210 Author: AzzaNZ
Subject: 22781
Posted: 27 November 2008 at 2:45pm

I just need a place to vent, let off a little steam... we arent TTC but I am dying to have a second child.

Its not the right time (we've just moved country, started a new job and only have one income)... but my biological clock doesnt listen so well.

Worse is that DH is pretty happy just having 1 child. I wanted 4... how is 1 a compromise?

Gah!!!

How to get the cluckiness to go away!]]> Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:45:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22781&PID=554210&title=not-ttc#554210