OHbaby! Forums : opinion, please. worry-wart?? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 29 Apr 2026 14:32:11 +0000 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:44:09 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=22827 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I don&#039;t think you&#039;re...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557255&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557255 Author: Jennz
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 10:44pm

I don't think you're a worry wort at all! Just sensible I wouldn't leave my 4 year old in the bath for 10 mins on her own, or in an unfenced yard let alone a less than 2 year old! ]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:44:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557255&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557255 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Nah you are not a worry wart,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557253&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557253 Author: Glow
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 10:39pm

Nah you are not a worry wart, you are just fully aware of potential dangers ]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:39:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557253&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557253 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I wouldn&#039;t leave Spencer...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557203&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557203 Author: cuppatea
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 9:35pm

I wouldn't leave Spencer in the bath for even 2 secs unattended, he is slightly insane and has no fear when in the bath though, but if you watched 60mins earlier you would have heard that they can drown in 5cm of water so leaving them in the bath unattended is just stupid in my opinion and really why would you need to, you can't forget anything that important, worse comes to worse they can get out the bath without a towel and really they are in there how long, 15-20 mins, is not a big ask to be in there with them for that tiny amount of time.

I also wouldn't let him play in the garden on his own, the front is totally not fenced and although the road is quiet I can't ever see him being allowed to play on his own out there, would only take running after a ball at the wrong moment and splat!!!!. The back is fully fenced and the gate is very large and sturdy (good enough keep our dogs in) but it will be a long long time before he is out there alone, there are just too many things he can hurt himself on and also the dogs are out there and he will never be left unsupervised with them.

I don't think you are being a worry wart, why wouldn't you keep an a close eye on your precious child. You don't need to stand over her while she plays outside but close enough to direct away from danger is sensible not worry warting.]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 21:35:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557203&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557203 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I am with everyone on this too....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557056&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557056 Author: Millie1976
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 6:56pm

I am with everyone on this too. I never leave Ollie unattended in the shower or the bath. There have been times when I have needed to run out and grab a flannel but that only takes a few seconds and always get DH to keep an eye/ear out.

We don't have a fully fenced section so I always go outside with Ollie and we also have a shared driveway with 5 other houses so I definitely don't let OIlie near the driveway.

You are definitely not being over-protective at all.]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:56:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=557056&title=opinion-please-worrywart#557056 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Bath from about 2.5 mine also...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556993&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556993 Author: nictoddie
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 5:39pm

Bath from about 2.5 mine also bath together so they chat so you can hear what is going on , fully fenced section which they are allowed to roam, big gates that kids can not open but can hear and see from all windows in the house. You are so not being a worry wart chick ]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 17:39:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556993&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556993 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Thanks, everyone... very helpful!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556812&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556812 Author: Andie
Subject: 22827
Posted: 01 December 2008 at 2:46pm

Thanks, everyone... very helpful!

Becks you're giving up smoking soon?? YAY! Congrats! Oooohhhh I wish you the best of luck for it (and may all the smokers near you not accidentally tempt you!). ]]> Mon, 01 Dec 2008 14:46:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556812&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556812 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I leave my boys in the bath together...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556020&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556020 Author: mummy_becks
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 3:01pm

I leave my boys in the bath together by themselves. But I don't leave the house and the bathroom is pretty much next to the lounge where we are, and usually we are getting PJ's and stuff ready so walking past and looking in.

OUtside - I let Andrew go out there by himself, big difference here thou we all know each others kids so if one is in danger we let them know, and it is a small community here too. Josh isn't allowed out there by himself (althou he tries) as he doesn't understand the road mean cars.

As I know where you live, you have every right to be a bit upset with that one. That road is damn busy.

]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 15:01:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556020&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556020 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I leave Kahtrell in the bath by...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556012&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556012 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 2:43pm

I leave Kahtrell in the bath by himself......well it's not actually a bath..but a makeshift one...ok its a tiny paddling pool that fits at the bottom of the shower lolz. He always makes a lot of splashing and noises. I still check on him every few minutes but I know he's safe in there. Our section in fully fenced with the majority of it being front yard... he loves being outside and I have no problems with him being outside by himself, I always check up on him...and usually find him sitting in the car or playing in the garden. (on one occasion he was underneath the house! lol) we always shut the front gate (which is a farm like one too ) and on the occasion when it has been open, Kahtrell will actually shut it himself (and then someone has to click the chain on).

We all know how safe our homes are and how comfortable we feel in letting our children do things. We live next to a main road so it this place wasn't fully fenced and kinda tall fences (trellised fence) I'd definitely be more eagle eyed when Kahtrell is outside, but I'm confident in his abilities and in my home's security.                                                        

Edited by ooEvaoo]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 14:43:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=556012&title=opinion-please-worrywart#556012 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I would NEVER do any of those...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555996&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555996 Author: katie1
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 1:42pm

I would NEVER do any of those things. I am with you! Good luck convincing DH! ]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 13:42:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555996&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555996 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : james is 3 and a half i have only...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555959&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555959 Author: james
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 12:16pm

james is 3 and a half i have only just strated leveing him in the shower by himself for a couble of min always keping a ear out for him and i would never let him play by himself outside with a fence open he got out of our old house with his cousin and we found them being dragged of the road by a very heavley prggent woman on a very busy road ]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 12:16:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555959&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555959 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Only leave the boys in the bath...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555937&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555937 Author: linda
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 11:23am

Only leave the boys in the bath by themselves if I have to get something.

As for leaving them outside, sure if its enclosed but otherwise no. I read in the newspaper that a three year old got over to her neighbours place, somehow managed to open the gate and drown. Its just not worth it.

Harry is now five so I give him a little flexibility outside but still keep an eye on him where I can]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 11:23:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555937&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555937 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : i&#039;m not sure if i would leave...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555901&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555901 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 9:58am

i'm not sure if i would leave charli in the bath by herself or not......she's always with jack so it's a little different.
i probably would leave her while i went to get a towel or if i was in her bedroom because it's right beside the bathroom

but i would never leave her in the yard if i knew there was a way out onto the driveway!!!

your not being a worry wart andie, you are being a safe, loving mum ]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:58:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555901&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555901 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I would leave DS in the bath at...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555889&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555889 Author: McPloppy
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 9:39am

I would leave DS in the bath at two to play by himself but always keep an ear out for him and we were always in there if it was quiet.
As for leaving him outside with the gate open by himself? NEVER and i am a pretty cruisy mum who gives my children quite a bit of freedom.]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:39:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555889&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555889 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Leah gets left in the bath with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555873&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555873 Author: LeahandJoel
Subject: 22827
Posted: 30 November 2008 at 9:10am

Leah gets left in the bath with the shower running so I can grab bits and pieces I might have forgotten, or to get the phone to take in, things like that. But thats all, to the point the other night I BF Joel sitting in the hallway watching her through the open door as there is no room to BF in the bathroom!

We have a large farm type gate on our drive which is closed at all times when we are home. I can stay inside and know she can't get out. We are down a shared driveway but ours is the last house and we back on to a reserve/park but our fence is 1.8m high so noone can see in and she just runs around and around the house.

]]> Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:10:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555873&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555873 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Caitlyn I leave in the bath now...but...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555821&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555821 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 11:34pm

Caitlyn I leave in the bath now...but this is my child who can dive and swim in 8ft pools....however I dont leave for very long because...damn they make a lot of mess ! "oh mum ...I thought the floor was dirty "
But when she was younger, no way .

As for being outside, in your situation , nah uh, too many things that could go wrong , a car could come down the drive, Ella could get up to the busy road , she could put something in her mouth , etc etc.

I think your just being sensible , better safe than sorry ]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 23:34:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555821&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555821 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : We&#039;ll leave Maddie in the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555806&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555806 Author: Paws
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 11:03pm

We'll leave Maddie in the bath to run and grab a towel or flannel or something but I'm not comfortable leaving for extended periods of time.

We also have a fenced backyard and I let Maddie play out there without us watching her but I wouldn't let her out unsupervised if she could get to the road.]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 23:03:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555806&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555806 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I must admit lately I did start...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555732&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555732 Author: SMoody
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 9:36pm

I must admit lately I did start leaving McKayla in the bath by herself for a minute or so and keep on talking to her ect. And as soon as she doesnt answer I go back. Must be about 2 min at most at a time. Usually when I run to the bedroom to get dressed and then come back.

As for the playing in the yard not seeing part. No way as our gate is close to the street and there is just no way.

]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 21:36:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555732&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555732 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I will leave any of our girls...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555697&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555697 Author: busymum
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 9:07pm

I will leave any of our girls in the bath basically after 12 months or so, so long as the water isn't too deep (deep enough to wobble them) and they are confident sitters. Usually the first time is when I suddenly remember power or jammies or a nappy that I need - so I run! LOL. At my girls' ages I am confident about them in the bath but I always remain well within ear shot and I will pop my head in from time to time - especially because they usually bath in pairs. (Actually pairs are easier because they laugh and chat and therefore you know that they are above water!!) I always seem to turn the stereo down whenever someone is in the bath.

We have a fully fenced backyard (thanks to our neighbour who made a gate for us!) so unless one of the gates are opened, the only way for the girls to get outside is the front door. As a general rule if we are leaving the front door open and not there (ie for air), we close the child gate across it.]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 21:07:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555697&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555697 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I don&#039;t think you sound overproctective.....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555692&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555692 Author: Richtea
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 9:03pm

I don't think you sound overproctective.. just sensible!! - you have to do what feels right for you.]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 21:03:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555692&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555692 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Idon&#039;e think your overprotestive...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555662&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555662 Author: Bubbaloo
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:42pm

Idon'e think your overprotestive at all we Never leave James outside by himself as we can't see anywere from inside and they only time I have left him in the bath was when I forgot a flannel most of the times 1 of us are in there with him anywhere.]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:42:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555662&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555662 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : We dont even leave Isla in the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555652&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555652 Author: Kellz
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:34pm

We dont even leave Isla in the bathroom alone while the bath is running, let alone leave her by herself when shes in it,..infact she always baths with DH. I have left her with the shower running while Ive gone to get her towel/clothes etc for a few mins max.

We let Isla play in the gated backyard alone, but she usually wants me with her, so is not normally alone for long anyway. If she is outside alone I dont leave the kitchen area- so that I can still see some of the backyard- when her swings etc are from the window, and I can hear her if she calls me,..and if she in the sandpit and I cant see her from the window, I go out every 5 mins or so.

We would NEVER let her go on the driveway by herself. I am always closer than 1 m from her when we are out the front. ]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:34:16 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555652&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555652 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I must be a worry wart too because...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555649&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555649 Author: Kels
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:30pm

I must be a worry wart too because I dont let Alize do any of the above either. I think leaving them unsupervised in those situations is very unsafe, and the toddlers are at risk of death in both situations IMHO to put it bluntly.

]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:30:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555649&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555649 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I wouldn&#039;t leave kids in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555635&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555635 Author: .Mel
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:14pm

I wouldn't leave kids in the bath alone, not at that age, regardless of how deep it is.

If the gates were closed and I knew that the child was very safe within the home boundaries, I'd be quite happy for them to play outside (only around the back though, not the front of the house near the road).

If they were open - I don't think so.]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:14:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555635&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555635 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I don&#039;t think of myself as...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555634&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555634 Author: lizzle
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:09pm

I don't think of myself as very overprotective but i DO know my children. If either child is outside and gate is open, they will go out said-gate- regardless of whether someone is with them or not. in fact Jake escaped from a locked gate while I was mowing the lawns. In your situation, i would trust Jake....kinda and no way would Taine be trusted.

As for the baths, I do leave the kids, BUT that was from about 2.5. and only for a few mintues, bnever if they were bathing together, and depending on the depth. They are both singers so when they stopped singing, I would go to check.


so, no in those situations, I DON"T think you are being overprotective at all

]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:09:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555634&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555634 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Andie, I&#039;m with you and the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555627&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555627 Author: caraMel
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 8:04pm

Andie, I'm with you and the others on this too.
I don't leave either of the kids alone in the bath for more than a couple of minutes at the most, even though I can generally hear them chattering and giggling away.
I can see them from the living room and even then I don't like being too far as Benjy is a climber and our bathroom floor is tiled, potentially very nasty!
As for playing outside unsupervised, in your situation, no way! There is just way too much that could go wrong and 2 year olds just don't have any sense of danger. So not worth the risk for whatever it is he wants to do inside!]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:04:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555627&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555627 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : ooh I don&#039;t think I&#039;d...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555618&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555618 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 7:51pm

ooh I don't think I'd be comfortable with either of those situations. ]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:51:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555618&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555618 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : I am the same never ever let...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555614&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555614 Author: LJsmum
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 7:46pm

I am the same never ever let Luke go anywhere where I can't see him you just never know.

Your not over protective or a worry wart!

You are a mum who wants the best for her daughter. I would never forgive myself if something happened to Luke......

Did you see the post on the in the news thread a while ago where the children nearly got taken.
mum had gone around the back to hang out the washing or something and the kids where playing in the front yard they had gone out the gate to park across the road and a man approached them they were older 4ys and 8 yrs i think. But still Mum had no idea they where there.
Scary ah....

you are right

Edited by Milo1]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:46:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555614&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555614 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : i say better safe than sorry for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555607&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555607 Author: popcorn
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 7:24pm

i say better safe than sorry for both of those things!]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:24:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555607&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555607 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : Andie, I never leave Brenna in...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555606&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555606 Author: Brenna
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 7:23pm

Andie, I never leave Brenna in the bath on her own or out the front on her own if the gate is open (actually I don't even like her being outside on her own at all really as there are too many things she could hurt herself on).

I don't think you are being a worry-wart at all!!!!!!! It's better to be safe than sorry]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:23:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555606&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555606 <![CDATA[opinion, please. worry-wart?? : OK so not for the purposes of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555603&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555603 Author: Andie
Subject: 22827
Posted: 29 November 2008 at 7:17pm

OK so not for the purposes of swaying my opinion ('cause I'm comfy with it), but more so hubby and I know how this compares to other mums, would you say I'm a worry-wart (too safety conscious) or need to loosen up? honest opinions, please!!

The sticking points are: leaving a 25-month-old in the bath by herself while parent in another room for anywhere from a couple of minutes to 10 or so. Letting the toddler play outside (while parent in the house, unable to see outside), on either the front deck or in the back yard while the gates are open (we share a driveway with 2 other houses, on a reasonably busy road, and Ella doesn't obey "stop" or "come here"). I'm being told I'm a worry-wart whenever these situations strike and I get up to fix them...

It's obvious what I think, but maybe the opinions of a fair few other parents might either stop me having to hear that I'm "overprotective" yet again, or if it all swings the other way, I'm screwed! Ha ha.

Weigh in. ]]> Sat, 29 Nov 2008 19:17:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=22827&PID=555603&title=opinion-please-worrywart#555603