OHbaby! Forums : TM Feedback, WWYD? https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 05:45:34 +0000 Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:35:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=23038 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I thought you contact TM admin...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563878&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563878 Author: busymum
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 9:35pm

I thought you contact TM admin to say that the sale did not go through, then they refund the commission they have deducted from your a/c and put a note up saying that it was not completed? Failing that, I would put up neg feedback but word it relatively nicely (apologised, but was not able to complete purchase) - to hopefully draw other attention. What is her feedback list like already?]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:35:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563878&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563878 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Black list her too.... Sounds...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563834&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563834 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 9:01pm

Black list her too....

Sounds exactly like a trader I dealt with. I went out of my way & the 28 day period for refunds ( which I didn't realise existed) I would email and say when I'd be home during the week & I did this for ages & then I got sick of having to be home when I said. Mine was a big items so I was being helpful but still....

But she logged on each day & then in the end didn't bother to contact me at all so I tried to get a refund & couldn't so I wrote to TM & they saw that I'd posted bad feed back & refunded me I would have liked something to happen to her as she'd done the same thing with quite a few people.]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:01:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563834&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563834 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Grrrrr you don&#039;t know HOW...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563695&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563695 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 6:22pm

Grrrrr you don't know HOW many times I get the excuse "internet was down or computer was broken so I couldn't contact you" HELLLOOOO I can see when you log in brainiacs!!!!!!!!!! (sp?)

Anyway I find Red facing never works cos they give them back, but that would peave me off so much that I would do it anyway and not care lol ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 18:22:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563695&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563695 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Hehehe, soooo tempting! If only...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563603&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563603 Author: caraMel
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 5:04pm

Hehehe, soooo tempting!
If only my sleuthing skills and motivation were that good!]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 17:04:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563603&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563603 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : personally i think you should...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563589&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563589 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 4:56pm

personally i think you should do my first idea, but each to their own .... ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 16:56:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563589&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563589 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Thanks for all the replies and...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563581&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563581 Author: caraMel
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 4:48pm

Thanks for all the replies and advice.
I think I'll go with a neutral like you said Ginger, hopefully it will make her think twice before mucking anyone else around.]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 16:48:04 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563581&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563581 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : But have have a second chance...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563507&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563507 Author: ooEvaoo
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 3:40pm

But have have a second chance to change your feedback.. (hence why her feedback was changed from happy to angry)...after that it can't be changed. Sux though I hate having the thought of getting bad feedback!, I would probably not leave any feedback....after a trade if someone hasn't left me feedback and it's been a while then I delete what I wrote for them lolz.]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 15:40:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563507&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563507 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : kaiz231 wrote:I always worry...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563452&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563452 Author: CuriousG
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 2:50pm

Originally posted by kaiz231 kaiz231 wrote:

I always worry about giving bad feedback... once I gave bad feedback to a girl who claimed a storm took her computer, even though she was still logging on every day. I gave her bad feedback and then SHE changed her feedback and gave ME a red face!!!!! Grrrr.....


You aren't allowed to do this - its against TM's rules.

I would give neutral feedback....]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 14:50:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563452&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563452 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I would find out where she lives...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563441&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563441 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 2:43pm

I would find out where she lives and break in and put prawns in her curtains ......

and then id go back and give her bad feedback ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 14:43:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563441&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563441 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : lilfatty wrote:Daizy on a side...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563435&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563435 Author: Daizy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 2:41pm

Originally posted by lilfatty lilfatty wrote:

Daizy on a side note (sorry for the threadjack) .. your girls have the cutest bunks ever! Are those going on TM .. id snap them up

Tehe, I dont think they are going to be going anywhere anytime soon They are quite well built into the closet space. I still havent finished them (just wait till you see the mural I do plan on getting around to painting one day)

They really weren't too difficuilt to build...

]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 14:41:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563435&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563435 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I would still give bad feedback....]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563391&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563391 Author: KiwiL
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 1:41pm

I would still give bad feedback. You can be very descriptive and then respond to whatever she leaves if she changes it.

Unless bad feedback is given, she will continue to do the same thing to others. ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 13:41:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563391&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563391 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I do not know haw she could give...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563368&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563368 Author: McPloppy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 1:14pm

I do not know haw she could give you bad feedback if she did not complete the sale    You should also go through tm to get your fee back. they will contact her and ask her to pay the fee.]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 13:14:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563368&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563368 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I&#039;d give her bad feedback...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563358&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563358 Author: MrsMojo
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 1:06pm

I'd give her bad feedback with an explanation as to what happened for other traders.]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 13:06:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563358&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563358 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Daizy on a side note (sorry for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563350&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563350 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:58pm

Daizy on a side note (sorry for the threadjack) .. your girls have the cutest bunks ever! Are those going on TM .. id snap them up ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:58:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563350&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563350 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Even if you decode not to give...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563336&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563336 Author: Daizy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:44pm

Even if you decode not to give them negative feedback I thoink you should at least write something so people can see how the trade atcually went!

Have you tried contacting her telling her what you have noticed?

 

The only time I ever gave negative feedback (I only used the blue one too) when a pair of shoes fell apart as I unwrapped them, I got a negative feedback back. Makes me look like a bad trader - Grrr!

]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:44:38 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563336&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563336 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I work on the theory that other...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563329&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563329 Author: ginger
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:37pm

I work on the theory that other traders use feedback as a way to measure whether they want to or should trade with someone, and if you put that you have reason to believe that trader is a dud (maybe neutral instead of negative) it may save someone else the hassle. It costs you money to list stuff and she's wasted both your time, and money and that's not fair on you. Trademe likes to know about those sorts of people as well as they give the site a negative ... whatever.

Mind you, having said that I've placed honest feeback a few times and been given retaliatory negative feedback in response for my trouble which is a pain in the bum ]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:37:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563329&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563329 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : I always worry about giving bad...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563325&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563325 Author: Snappy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:33pm

I always worry about giving bad feedback... once I gave bad feedback to a girl who claimed a storm took her computer, even though she was still logging on every day. I gave her bad feedback and then SHE changed her feedback and gave ME a red face!!!!! Grrrr.....
]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:33:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563325&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563325 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Give her bad feedback and be done...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563321&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563321 Author: McPloppy
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:27pm

Give her bad feedback and be done with it...warn other traders about her...I would like to know if someone i was trading with did this and explaine in your feedback your detective work so she cannot reply with the family emergency thing]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:27:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563321&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563321 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Id be pissed! But I would probably...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563319&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563319 Author: lilfatty
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:24pm

Id be pissed! But I would probably just give no feedback at all .. cause I just couldnt be bothered lol]]> Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:24:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563319&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563319 <![CDATA[TM Feedback, WWYD? : Last week I sold an item to a...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=23038&PID=563316&title=tm-feedback-wwyd#563316 Author: caraMel
Subject: 23038
Posted: 10 December 2008 at 12:21pm

Last week I sold an item to a trader, she rang the twice the next day and emailed, very keen to arrange pick up.
We agreed on a time the next day for her to come and collect it, but she never showed.
I waited around all day with no contact from her until I finally sent her a friendly email asking what had happened and if she wanted to arrange another time.
She replied late that night saying they had had a family emergency and that she would be out of town for the next few weeks and would be unable to complete the trade.
She apologised and gave good feedback and I relisted the item.
I wasn't too bothered, a little annoyed that I had to wait around and a little annoyed that the item is still hanging around because I want it out of the way BUT, the thing that really bugs me is that I was a little suspicious of her story (because I am a bit of a cynical meanie sometimes) so I checked her profile and she has logged in every day since the trade, completed several other trades, buying and selling, and on the day she was supposed to be collecting my item she won an auction for a different one of the item I was selling!
So it was obviously a load of rubbish that she fed me about having to rush out of town for family emergencies, she just preferred the other item and had no qualms about not contacting me to cancel the trade.
I'm torn about what kind of feedback to give. Part of me says "Sh!t happens, let it go" and part of me wants to red face her because if she'd got in touch, told me the truth and been genuinely apologetic I probably wouldn't have been bothered at all!
Gah! PMS!
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