https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 29 Apr 2026 22:09:35 +0000 Mon, 15 May 2006 15:19:23 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=2440 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46455&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46455 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2440
Posted: 15 May 2006 at 3:19pm

Well Emma...you do have TWO to think of this time around!!!! However 25 weeks of no action might get a bit too much huh?]]> Mon, 15 May 2006 15:19:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46455&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46455 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46361&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46361 Author: Maya
Subject: 2440
Posted: 15 May 2006 at 10:25am

Poor old Willie hasn't had any loving since we found out we were preg. I thought I'd get over the whole fear of m/c thing after first tri, but now he is too scared of hurting the babies, and plus I think my belly would get in the way already.
Funny thing is with Maya we just kept on as usual. I think I worry much more these days...]]> Mon, 15 May 2006 10:25:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46361&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46361 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46346&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46346 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2440
Posted: 15 May 2006 at 9:54am

He he ha ha ....you guys are soooo funny!!! ]]> Mon, 15 May 2006 09:54:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46346&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46346 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46063&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46063 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 9:40pm

Lol well I think no more "friendly cuddles" in this household. They seem to trigger all the aches & niggles and then nothing happens!! I'm going insane! I keep thing "oh yes maybe this is it!" because all the pains come & even start getting a pattern to them and then they just stop ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 21:40:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46063&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46063 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46045&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46045 Author: james
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 8:17pm

i,m with nickki i whished like mad that there was a man around it drove me nuts at times ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 20:17:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46045&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46045 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46026&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46026 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:17pm

GO GIRL!!!

Get that boy moving!

Its so bloody cold..need something to warm up.

I am at work so have taken the FOOD option...AGAIN!]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 19:17:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46026&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46026 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46022&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46022 Author: jax
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 7:15pm

Been feeling horny as, planning to jump poor Rols tonight *evil chuckle* !!!!! ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 19:15:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=46022&title=oka-little-embarrassing#46022 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45987&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45987 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 5:05pm

i've completely lost my mojo!
its not that i'm worried about how i look, i've always got a flabby tum, but it's just not comfortable for me mostly
i think my last 8-10wks with jack were the 'busiest' times
poor dean, he's so hard done by ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 17:05:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45987&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45987 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45974&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45974 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 4:35pm

My sex drive has come back....Mind you I never initiate it!!! Enjoy it tho and dont get any cramps or pain....

Just the old tightening in the yum from "O"s!!!

All good.


Endorphins are great!]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 16:35:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45974&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45974 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45954&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45954 Author: Two Blondinis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:21pm

I think I used up all of my "sex kitten minx" thing in the first and second trimesters lol

But hubby feels a bit "weirded out" when we're only having a cuddle and bubs kicks him, I wonder what would happen if the "relations" started up again? lol ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 14:21:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45954&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45954 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45952&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45952 Author: Paws
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:15pm

Oh and it's not that it hurts it's just that I have NO motivation! *sigh*

Edited by Paws]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 14:15:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45952&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45952 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45951&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45951 Author: Paws
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 2:13pm

I had a brief sex kitten minx thing a few weeks ago but that seems to have dried up.

Lucky for me hubby is very understanding! ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 14:13:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45951&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45951 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45950&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45950 Author: caraMel
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 1:47pm

i'm feeling much the same mrs frantic. its hard to get into it when you feel so self concious about the way you're looking.]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 13:47:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45950&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45950 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45909&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45909 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:27am

humph! I wish I was as keen! I feel like someone took my sex drive out the back and beat it to death! I think its got to do with my body image - i dont feel sexy at all! I dunno, but I am missing wanting it - and I am sure dh is feeling it too although he hasnt been too pushy so far... ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 10:27:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45909&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45909 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45904&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45904 Author: daikini
Subject: 2440
Posted: 12 May 2006 at 10:22am

I know what you mean, Nikki! I get so increadably (sp?) horny from about this point in each pregnancy...

Kiya's father did a runner 6 weeks later... AAAGGGHHH!!!
I was still bleeding on and off with Josiah, and we didn't know why so we were being careful about EVERYTHING... AAGGHHH!!!
But I haven't bled this time since week 4 - and I've jumped Nat twice in the last two days! It's all good! ]]> Fri, 12 May 2006 10:22:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45904&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45904 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45852&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45852 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:36pm

See I wish I'd had a husband or a boyfriend or some time of male figure who could have helped me through pregnancy. It drove me nuts!!!!]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 22:36:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45852&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45852 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45807&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45807 Author: my2angels
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 6:08pm

I just feel to weird now there are definately 3 in the equation. once baby started kicking that was it for us in the bedroom department. Hubby doesnt mind at all, he feels the same way as me in fact its probably more him than me that doesnt want to do the deed.]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 18:08:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45807&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45807 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45702&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45702 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 1:22pm

Well the thing is that I had a really bad bleed at 18 weeks and had a big pouch of blood sitting above my placenta. Doc said no action till that goes away....it took several weeks.....finally when we could roll in hay my hubby was too scared that I would bleed again. The problem was that I wanted to roll around all the time.....oh well....

Good on all of you who still get somthng somthng at later stages!!! ]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 13:22:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45702&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45702 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45691&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45691 Author: MILF
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 12:06pm

??? how long are you planning on going without sex for? either your guy is really sensitve to how you feel or my guy is a neanderthol....

]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 12:06:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45691&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45691 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45684&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45684 Author: kellverona
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:34am

Last time my partner and I got together I got cramping pains too. Neverhad sex again since. It was very uncomfortable.  They went away after about an hour or so. ]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 11:34:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45684&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45684 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45681&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45681 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:22am

Oh thats a bit of a bummer for you Roksana.

My first pregnancy I was always keen for a good shag (lol there's another one to put on the list!) but this time around I'm like "yeeaaahhhh I suppose...." I just can't be bothered too much & my belly gets in the way. ]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 11:22:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45681&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45681 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45671&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45671 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 11:06am

Yah well...I tried that...he told me that it was at the back of his mind so he cant get in to the mood to have "relations".....%$#@ &^%$#%$

Hey I love this...so far we have "Relations"
                                           "Roll in the hay"
                                           "Wild thing"
He he ha ha ha                                   

Edited by Roksana]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 11:06:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45671&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45671 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45650&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45650 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 10:06am

LOL Roksana! First time pregnant I actually asked my midwife to tell Spencer it was "OK" to do the wild thing!!
She even told him it is actually good for the muscles down there so he had no excuses to not put out

Anyway, I had a lovely warm bath and the crampy feeling went away so I'm guessing it was just another one of those lovely pregnancy aches & pains.]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 10:06:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45650&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45650 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45636&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45636 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 9:20am

How the H$#@ did you guys get your man to "Roll in the hay" with you at the later stage?....mine wa tooo scared that he would hurt the baby!!!! Arrggggg.

Sorry cant help...never had this situation! ]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 09:20:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45636&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45636 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45618&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45618 Author: newmum
Subject: 2440
Posted: 11 May 2006 at 8:38am

I had WICKED pains after sex too but that didn't stop me, LOL, I used to be sore for a whole day after! So I would say it is normal ]]> Thu, 11 May 2006 08:38:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45618&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45618 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45594&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45594 Author: k&jsmum
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 10:28pm

i had the period type cramps and and my midwife said i was just sore as i was getting big with the boys....ends up i was in labour so heres hoping for you too.

PS quite a few of my friends have talked about the period type pain before labour too of course i didnt find this all out until after i had the boys!!!! ]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 22:28:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45594&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45594 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45588&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45588 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:45pm

Yep I had that too Toni. Dont know how long it lasted for afterwards tho...]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 21:45:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45588&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45588 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45581&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45581 Author: caraMel
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 9:26pm

i remember having pain after sex in the late stages with my daughter too. i did mention it to my midwife and she said that it was probably due to using muscles that were already stretched to the max. it was a very period cramp type feeling for me too.]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 21:26:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45581&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45581 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45561&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45561 Author: lizzle
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 6:45pm

OMG I didn't realise how close you aer Toni!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 18:45:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45561&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45561 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45560&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45560 Author: Dashone
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 6:43pm

I get that. It's really annoying and can last for a while. I walk around cause if i sit still it's really sore.]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 18:43:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45560&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45560 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45552&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45552 Author: james
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:54pm

ohh labour vibes ,labour vibes ]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:54:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45552&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45552 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45551&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45551 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:52pm

Probably from ORGASMS!!!Everything settling back down again in there!

Good on you girl!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:52:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45551&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45551 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45546&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45546 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:26pm

Lol I know I'm being a big wuss but I really hate all this uncomfiness in pregnancy.
I wish it was labour...oh god do I wish it was labour!!! I've so had it with being pregnant, I want him out & in his own cot instead of sharing my body & booting the bugger out of me!
It does feel weird doing the wild thing at this stage, I haven't had cramp like this before but I'm sure it will be fine, I just need to whinge I guess
]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:26:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45546&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45546 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45543&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45543 Author: AnnaD
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:19pm

I get orgasm spasms too... both last time and this time round!! Maybe it is just a uterus-clenching type thing? I am sure you and bub will be fine!!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:19:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45543&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45543 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45542&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45542 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:18pm

hmmm i have never heard of such a thing - but I am a novice at thios so I assume any pain or twinge at you stage is labour LOL! Can you imagine how rediculous I will be when I get to 37 weeks - I will be calling teh midwife every 5 minutes LOL!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:18:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45542&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45542 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45540&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45540 Author: my2angels
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:18pm

I wouldnt worry unless it starts coming and going like contractions. I often have a dull ache at the bottom of my stomach but cant blame it on having a good time like you.
This baby is way to active it would feel way to weird to have sex with the baby kicking around!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:18:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45540&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45540 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45539&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45539 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:14pm

Ok I don't think its labour coz its just a dull steady ache, not coming & going or anything...and besides I'm pretty positive this baby is going to be late like his brother was.

LMAO I'm always keen for a roll in the hay...usually don't since the tummy gets in the way though.

The cramp is low down just like period pain. Its not too bad but painful enough to notice it ]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:14:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45539&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45539 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45536&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45536 Author: my2angels
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:08pm

first of all good on you but how? well I know how of course but man thats the last thing I feel like these days, couldnt think of anything worse to be honest!!! but anyway is it at the top or bottom or your stomach? could it be left over ummm orgasim type spasms if that makes sense and isnt TMI. Someone else had these sort of problems a wee while ago I think and went to the hospital but apparentl baby had just packed a sad at the bouncing around and rolled into a wee ball or something, the thread is around somewhere]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:08:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45536&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45536 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45535&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45535 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:07pm

labour maybe??? sorry i have no idea really ...but maybe (they say that sex brings on labour too!) ??? how exciting!!]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:07:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45535&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45535 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45530&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45530 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2440
Posted: 10 May 2006 at 5:04pm

Just had a bit of an afternoon "roll in the hay" with my man and now I've got cramps
They don't feel anything like the braxton hicks I've been getting or anything, just a dull constant cramp.
Is that normal?? I don't want to ring my midwife coz I already have today and its the one I really HATE (I usually see any 1 of 3 midwives).
I've taken a couple of panadol but so far it hasn't done anything & its supposed to be the "rapid" stuff so not really sure what to do now.]]> Wed, 10 May 2006 17:04:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2440&PID=45530&title=oka-little-embarrassing#45530