OHbaby! Forums : Why do people have to.. https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 20 Apr 2026 13:22:30 +0000 Mon, 02 Mar 2009 09:40:58 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=24749 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Kandice sorry that your df is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=626133&title=why-do-people-have-to#626133 Author: kezplanet
Subject: 24749
Posted: 02 March 2009 at 9:40am

Kandice sorry that your df is going thru this and also you as you are his support, maybe you could suggest that he write his dad a letter and tell him everything that he never had a chance to and how he felt and is feeling now and he could put that in with his dad for only him to read and have, he will know that he was loved.

As for family they can say and do cruel things at these times and dont always mean them (although some are just horrid at the best of times)

Take care and support df the best you can

]]> Mon, 02 Mar 2009 09:40:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=626133&title=why-do-people-have-to#626133 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : big Hugs to you and your Dh Cancer...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=626115&title=why-do-people-have-to#626115 Author: ClareB
Subject: 24749
Posted: 02 March 2009 at 9:00am

big Hugs to you and your Dh
Cancer is awful. Sweetpea makes a good point about visiting the funeral home it can be a way of saying goodby
take care]]> Mon, 02 Mar 2009 09:00:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=626115&title=why-do-people-have-to#626115 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : awww big hugs to you & your dh, yep...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621797&title=why-do-people-have-to#621797 Author: Candkids
Subject: 24749
Posted: 24 February 2009 at 3:50pm

awww big hugs to you & your dh,
yep cancer is a nasty thing.

]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2009 15:50:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621797&title=why-do-people-have-to#621797 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Big hugs to you and your family...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621684&title=why-do-people-have-to#621684 Author: sweetpea
Subject: 24749
Posted: 24 February 2009 at 2:15pm

Big hugs to you and your family death at any time is never a nice experience. Hopef ully your Dh gets to go and say his goodbyes at the funeral home its suprising how comforting that can be. They honestly do just look like they are sleeping.]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2009 14:15:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621684&title=why-do-people-have-to#621684 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : awww hun i&#039;m so sorry! ...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621403&title=why-do-people-have-to#621403 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 24749
Posted: 24 February 2009 at 9:38am

awww hun i'm so sorry!


what a shock for you and DF....one simple phonecall could've saved so much heartache and regret......she was obviously not thinking straight!!

i hope DF gets to say his goodbyes to his dad.....thoughts are with you both

]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2009 09:38:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621403&title=why-do-people-have-to#621403 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621338&title=why-do-people-have-to#621338 Author: BugTeeny
Subject: 24749
Posted: 24 February 2009 at 8:52am

]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2009 08:52:39 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621338&title=why-do-people-have-to#621338 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : aww sorry to hear of your loss...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621241&title=why-do-people-have-to#621241 Author: Phat_Cat
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 10:42pm

aww sorry to hear of your loss I agree with the furneral home idea take care]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 22:42:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621241&title=why-do-people-have-to#621241 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Aww thats really sad ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621198&title=why-do-people-have-to#621198 Author: Rachael21
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 9:42pm

Aww thats really sad ]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 21:42:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621198&title=why-do-people-have-to#621198 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : ]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621194&title=why-do-people-have-to#621194 Author: Daizy
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 9:41pm

]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 21:41:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=621194&title=why-do-people-have-to#621194 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : awww hugs Kandice, that is hard!!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620969&title=why-do-people-have-to#620969 Author: My3Sons
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 5:12pm

awww hugs Kandice, that is hard!!  Sorry to hear of your families loss

]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 17:12:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620969&title=why-do-people-have-to#620969 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Sorry to hear that, its always...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620872&title=why-do-people-have-to#620872 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 3:43pm

Sorry to hear that, its always hard as well when there are regrets and things left unspoken .

Would it be possible for DF to maybe go to the funeral home and visit the body ? That can sometimes help ]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 15:43:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620872&title=why-do-people-have-to#620872 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : World is cruel Sorry to hear...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620805&title=why-do-people-have-to#620805 Author: Glow
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 2:41pm

World is cruel

Sorry to hear that. You & DF take care]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 14:41:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620805&title=why-do-people-have-to#620805 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Aww that is really sad hugs for...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620786&title=why-do-people-have-to#620786 Author: NeoshasMummy
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 2:25pm

Aww that is really sad hugs for you and your DF.]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 14:25:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620786&title=why-do-people-have-to#620786 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : awww i am so sorry to hear of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620777&title=why-do-people-have-to#620777 Author: james
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 2:23pm

awww i am so sorry to hear of your familys loss big hugs]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 14:23:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620777&title=why-do-people-have-to#620777 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Aw Kandice, huge huge to you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620702&title=why-do-people-have-to#620702 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 1:31pm

Aw Kandice, huge huge to you and DF. Cancer really does suck.

And I can appreciate that your FILs partner is probably pretty cut up too, but doesn't sound like DF had the news broken to him very gently

You guys will be in my thoughts today.

again.

Edited by kiwisj]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 13:31:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620702&title=why-do-people-have-to#620702 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Oh your poor DF. His dad&#039;s...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620700&title=why-do-people-have-to#620700 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 1:29pm

Oh your poor DF. His dad's wife sounds like a piece of work though.]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 13:29:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620700&title=why-do-people-have-to#620700 <![CDATA[Why do people have to.. : Die. DFs dad died this morning,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620683&title=why-do-people-have-to#620683 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 24749
Posted: 23 February 2009 at 1:08pm

Die.

DFs dad died this morning, he had been suffering from Cancer for a long time.
DF is beside himself that he never got to say goodbye, noone rang us to tell us this is it. He got a call this morning saying his dad had died, DF in a state of shock said seriously and his wife replied 'No im kidding' sarcastically, DF didnt mean to sound rude it just shocked him.
He then asked her if she wanted some campany and she replied 'Im surrounded by company' and hung up.

Hes absolutly heartbroken. They never had a perfect relationship but now hes racked with guilt that he didnt tell his dad he loved him.
It hurts to watch this.
Why couldnt they have called last night. We would have gone over!

I hate cancer. I really do!]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2009 13:08:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=24749&PID=620683&title=why-do-people-have-to#620683