OHbaby! Forums : Im so useless ! https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Sun, 05 Apr 2026 23:22:25 +0000 Fri, 20 Mar 2009 13:03:51 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=25288 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Oh dear as someone else has said...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640808&title=im-so-useless#640808 Author: sweetpea
Subject: 25288
Posted: 20 March 2009 at 1:03pm

Oh dear as someone else has said it sounds like most wedding blues. You see we spend soo much time planning and organising that very big day that after its all over we feel while for lack of a better word flat. It will pass in time try to focus on the good things about the day or what you like about yourself remember evryone has bits of them we don't like.

the way i see it is its good for Dh or DF to be doing something at home afterall we are usually the ones that do it all so sit back relax and let him do things for a change enjoy it.]]> Fri, 20 Mar 2009 13:03:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640808&title=im-so-useless#640808 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : ahh crap LOL I keep doing that,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640706&title=im-so-useless#640706 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 25288
Posted: 20 March 2009 at 11:39am

ahh crap LOL I keep doing that, yep he is DH now lol.

hehe kelly, I guess everyone see's themselves differently, i think im a plain jane ]]> Fri, 20 Mar 2009 11:39:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640706&title=im-so-useless#640706 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Isn&#039;t he now DH not DF Sheena? And...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640473&title=im-so-useless#640473 Author: Hayzie
Subject: 25288
Posted: 20 March 2009 at 12:17am

Isn't he now DH not DF Sheena?

And you all looked gorgeous.]]> Fri, 20 Mar 2009 00:17:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640473&title=im-so-useless#640473 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Awww thanks guys ,you make me...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640437&title=im-so-useless#640437 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 25288
Posted: 19 March 2009 at 10:21pm

Awww thanks guys ,you make me feel so much better, Im glad im not the only one who may not be in the running for wife of the year ....
And thanks for the compliments on how nice I looked, guess we all have days like that .

pah , sheena , as for you , if you think someone as pretty as yourself is ugly , what hope is there for the rest of us ? your gorgeous babe , you know that ]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2009 22:21:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640437&title=im-so-useless#640437 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Awww kelly!!!!! **hugs** dont...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640166&title=im-so-useless#640166 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 25288
Posted: 19 March 2009 at 5:47pm

Awww kelly!!!!! **hugs** dont worry I feel EXACTLY the same way!

I havent cooked dinner in ages, DF is always complaining that we havent had a "decent" dinner in ages, so I feel like a bad wife, the house is a frekaing mess, the bedroom is a tip! I havent done any washing since b4 the wedding, I feel useless and Im dead tired

I also look at my wedding pics and think I look washed out and tired in some of them and I HATE my teeth, I hate hate hate them So MIL has done a lot of tweaking in the photo's to make me look radiant and my teeth white.

Kelly, I think you looked stunning in your wedding pictures, you can hardly tell your pregnant, only reason I can tell is cos I know you are lol. You have a beautiful smile and you look radiant and SO happy **hugs**


Edited by Sheza]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2009 17:47:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=640166&title=im-so-useless#640166 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : I think we all have those days! Ditto...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639997&title=im-so-useless#639997 Author: Daizy
Subject: 25288
Posted: 19 March 2009 at 2:58pm

 I think we all have those days!

 

Ditto what everyone else has said!

You are pregnant so have the perfect excuse, as well as post wedding blues. You are beautiful and I have always thought of you as a great mother!

]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2009 14:58:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639997&title=im-so-useless#639997 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : post wedding blues and being pregnant..dont...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639841&title=im-so-useless#639841 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 25288
Posted: 19 March 2009 at 12:22pm

post wedding blues and being pregnant..dont always make for feeling on top of the world.. i'm sure your husband doesnt mind too much, after all he married you knowing who you were!]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2009 12:22:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639841&title=im-so-useless#639841 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Meh, what are you talking about,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639669&title=im-so-useless#639669 Author: Snappy
Subject: 25288
Posted: 19 March 2009 at 9:39am

Meh, what are you talking about, you are gorgeous!

I know what you mean, I have those days. I hated my wedding photos. I still look at them now and cringe. I have a double chin in most of them And I had really bad acne and you can see it in all of them.

]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2009 09:39:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639669&title=im-so-useless#639669 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Don&#039;t sweat the small stuff...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639071&title=im-so-useless#639071 Author: Glow
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 4:06pm

Don't sweat the small stuff hun. & you do not look hideous!
Pregnancy takes alot out of you. Rest lots & take advantage of being preggy
Im sure you have many other uses ]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:06:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=639071&title=im-so-useless#639071 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : ur weding pics are beautiful!...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638938&title=im-so-useless#638938 Author: jjands
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 2:01pm

 ur weding pics are beautiful! You are gogeuous so don't even think like that. And yeh your preggers and it's tiring and thats just life they tell me it gets better  DD is reading a book coz I'm not motivated either I've got 3 loads of ashing to fold and u just reminded me bout dinner. But I aint getting off the couch juuuuust yet  :) chin u chic your awesome]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 14:01:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638938&title=im-so-useless#638938 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Kelly - I can&#039;t help on the...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638889&title=im-so-useless#638889 Author: surfergirl
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 1:26pm

Kelly - I can't help on the house work thing because I guarantee I'm worse!

BUT on the wedding pics...I HATED mine when I saw them - saw all my faults and made up some I didn't even have. I have seen the pics you posted in the photos section and I think you look lovely - very pretty and very happy. I've now been married 4 years and I love my wedding photos, it was just (as someone said) post wedding blues. (if you want to have a look at my pics they're on FB - and you are one of my friends - as you can see there's nothing wrong with them, but sh*t I cired for DAYS about how awful they were....)

And if all else fails blame being pregnant! 

]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 13:26:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638889&title=im-so-useless#638889 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Kelly, you are PREGNANT!!! I felt...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638857&title=im-so-useless#638857 Author: peanut butter
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 1:06pm

Kelly, you are PREGNANT!!! I felt like that too.  Serious case of Cant be arsed doing anything!!!  Still have it to a certain degree.  I think tiredness has a lot to do with it.  Never underestimate just how much a pregnancy takes out of you....and you have just had a wedding. 

 

DH makes most of our dinners and when he comes in he will bring in the washing etc if its needed.  He understands ( I hope) that some days I dont even get the washing out of the machine. 

 

The way I look at it is....if he comes home and both kids are still alive, preferably fed at some stage during the day and have been clothed (again at sometime as they often arent all day...nudey bums) then my job is done.  Anything else is a bonus.

]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 13:06:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638857&title=im-so-useless#638857 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : forgot to add caitlynsmygirl don&#039;t...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638788&title=im-so-useless#638788 Author: jazzy
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:30pm

forgot to add caitlynsmygirl don't bet yourself up we all have days, weeks like that & you can be a bit "lazy" more like tired & stressed, when PG & not feel guilty about it, so enjoy ]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 12:30:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638788&title=im-so-useless#638788 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : hee hee, well DH had a fit this...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638779&title=im-so-useless#638779 Author: jazzy
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:25pm

hee hee, well DH had a fit this morning that I had not sewed on a button on 1 of his 100s of shirts so I gently reminded him who does what, so he has rung several times today to say SORRY & that he can sew it on himself.

I will do it along with the other 1001things I have to do, so I don't consider myself useless but tired, under paid blah, blah oh & he new I was no Suzie home-maker before the ring went on my finger, hee hee ]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 12:25:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638779&title=im-so-useless#638779 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Oh, and from what I can tell you...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638775&title=im-so-useless#638775 Author: flakesitchyfeet
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:19pm

Oh, and from what  I can tell you are an awesome Mum and I've seen the photos,  you are a gorgeous bride!!!!]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 12:19:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638775&title=im-so-useless#638775 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : hubby got home from work last...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638766&title=im-so-useless#638766 Author: flakesitchyfeet
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:11pm

hubby got home from work last night at 930, I made him get up to Hollie at 5 am. I want to change the colour of my bridesmaids dresses, I got married 2 years ago!  Mum has asked me to do the dishwasher and hang out a load, I'm to lazy to do that. I can't iron hubbys shirts and he has a desk job. I'm a useless wife.

You have to very valid excuses, unlike me :)

1 ~ You're pregnant
2 ~post Bridal blues. Its a genuine thing, after all the hype from planning a wedding, you have nothing to work on and get excited about. Tme to plan a holiday?

]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 12:11:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638766&title=im-so-useless#638766 <![CDATA[Im so useless ! : Seriously, despite my house being...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638753&title=im-so-useless#638753 Author: caitlynsmygirl
Subject: 25288
Posted: 18 March 2009 at 12:07pm

Seriously, despite my house being spotless 2 weeks ago its now messy again , so much for my keeping it tidy !

and Im too lazy atm to enthusiastically play with Caitlyn

and im a terrible wife, poor DH has made dinner 3 nights in a row because im too tired to make it, even tho i've been at home all week while hes been out working

ANNND , I look at my wedding pics now, and all I see is a girl with big sticky out teeth and think I look hideous .

Good grief, whats up with me ?? ]]> Wed, 18 Mar 2009 12:07:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=25288&PID=638753&title=im-so-useless#638753