Chickoin wrote: ummmmm, once since the birth

me too.  To be honest, I had totally forgotten all about it.  you all just reminded me I have a script for condoms.  I need to get going with that.  Poor DH.  he is very good and isnt pressuring me. Its just the last thing on my mind and I need to be romanced I think.  I'm almost a bit scared of it (well look...it knocks me up too easily).  I did say that once James was in his own room it would be easier and that was a week ago.  Oh well...maybe over Easter....so a few times a week you reckon....sheessssh!  Maybe we'll start with once or twice

DH is lucky if we do it once a week. Occasionally there are times we do it more often but usually he's out all week so when we do see each other I am just exhausted.

Hmmm - for us, normally (ie: when not knocked up) it was once a week. At least. Maybe sometimes twice a week.

Now it's not nearly so often. Maybe once a month when I feel really guilty about it... I'm just SO not into it at the moment.  Poor DH...

kaiz231 wrote: Sorry if this is a bit TMI. I really find it amusing that DH thinks everyone does it twice a day

LMAO!  My Dh thinks exactly the same - he thinks quantity is better than quality.  When we first got married it was like that, but over the years it's dwindled a bit, but I still think Dh is a very lucky man.  On average it's probably 4 times a week, some weeks may only be a couple of times, and others its more.  The longest it's been without it is after I'd had a baby and that was 6 weeks after Rico as he was a forceps delivery, and I probably would've waited longer but Dh was pretty persistant.  And when I'm very sick with MS he doesn't get it much, maybe once a week.

DH likes to argue that he doesn't get it enough, but I show him the drawer fill with empty condom packets and he shuts up! And I do empty it frequently!

lol um not very often at all. The day after AF has finished we could every day for a few days  then once the next week then thats it. Very vary's as sometimes hes too tired or im tired or im in a bad mood etc

We only do If I start it cause he never bothers otherwise.

At the moment we only manage to fit it in a couple of times per week. 

We'd both love to more often but it's difficult when we hardly ever see each other (we spend about 15 mins per day together Mon-Fri unless I meet him at lunchtime and TBH the middle of Wellington CBD during business hours really is not an appropriate setting lol). 

Before I got pregnant (and the tiredness that comes with it) I used to wait up for him to get home a few times per week with the sole purpose of getting some weekday action.