https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 06 May 2026 17:16:41 +0000 Tue, 30 May 2006 16:13:52 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=2624 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49561&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49561 Author: Deez
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Posted: 30 May 2006 at 4:13pm

So sorry for your loss Mel. Best of luck for next time. ]]> Tue, 30 May 2006 16:13:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49561&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49561 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49524&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49524 Author: Maya
Subject: 2624
Posted: 30 May 2006 at 2:31pm

Sorry for your loss Mel. I too had a similar thing happen at the beginning of this year, and if you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me. The irony is that it took us close to a year to concieve our angel baby, and then we conceived twins in the first cycle after we lost our baby.
I promise too, that the breakdowns get fewer and further between. I still have the odd 'moment' when I hear a certain song or smell a cerain smell that reminds me of it, but for the most part we're okay. At the beginning I thought I would never get over it, that it would never get easier, but it did, and it does. ]]> Tue, 30 May 2006 14:31:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49524&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49524 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49208&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49208 Author: kellverona
Subject: 2624
Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:32am

Im so sorry to hear of your loss. Take care and good luck for next time.]]> Mon, 29 May 2006 10:32:17 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49208&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49208 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49206&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49206 Author: Roksana
Subject: 2624
Posted: 29 May 2006 at 10:26am

Oh Mel...I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of each other and do keep in touch.

]]> Mon, 29 May 2006 10:26:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49206&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49206 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49186&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49186 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 2624
Posted: 29 May 2006 at 9:45am

So sorry to hear about this - good luck for trying again, I am sure you will get there !]]> Mon, 29 May 2006 09:45:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49186&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49186 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49068&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49068 Author: shelleybean
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 3:24pm

I am sorry to hear this Mel, keep your chin up, and take care of yourself. ]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 15:24:01 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49068&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49068 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49057&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49057 Author: mellybelly
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 1:50pm

Thank you all for your support and kind words. we are hanging in there with the obvious breakdowns every now and then.

will stay in touch when i can.

Mel]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 13:50:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49057&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49057 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49049&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49049 Author: toniellis
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:29am

Oh I'm so sorry to hear you sad news Mel!
Take care!
]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 11:29:07 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49049&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49049 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49048&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49048 Author: caraMel
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 11:17am

so sorry to hear your sad news. huge to you and hubby. thinking of you.]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 11:17:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49048&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49048 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49030&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49030 Author: newmum
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 9:24am

So sorry Mel. ]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 09:24:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49030&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49030 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49018&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49018 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 2624
Posted: 28 May 2006 at 8:31am

oh i'm so sorry hun! take care of yourself and i hope the next few months bring you some good news ]]> Sun, 28 May 2006 08:31:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=49018&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#49018 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48997&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48997 Author: Southlandmummy
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 9:18pm

Mel, Im so sorry for your loss..

Take Care..]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 21:18:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48997&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48997 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48983&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48983 Author: mum2three
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 8:21pm

oh sweetie im so sorry for you and ur hubbys lose bug hugs ]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 20:21:49 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48983&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48983 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48962&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48962 Author: Paws
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 7:21pm

I'm sorry to hear about your loss Mel. Take care of yourself and we'll all be thinking of you. ]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 19:21:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48962&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48962 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48952&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48952 Author: daikini
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 5:08pm

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Mel. Please feel free to pop back in here whenever you want, and we do understand that you may not want to for a while.

Take care of yourself, and make sure your hubby gives you lots of loving attention! Good luck for the next few months.]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 17:08:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48952&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48952 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48943&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48943 Author: Guests
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:58pm

Im so sorry to hear about your loss mel If you do get put on clomid and want to talk to someone about it feel free to chat away to me i conceived on it with this bubba.

Please take care of yourself chicka ]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 15:58:25 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48943&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48943 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48941&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48941 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 3:56pm

Im so sorry to hear of your loss Mel ]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 15:56:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48941&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48941 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48935&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48935 Author: Sarah Beth
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:22pm

I am so sorry to hear that. Take care of your self and all the best for future months]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 14:22:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48935&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48935 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48934&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48934 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 2:16pm

I am really sorry to hear that... Look after each other and good luck for the next few months]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 14:16:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48934&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48934 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48919&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48919 Author: my2angels
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:37am

oh Im sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to us and I opted to have the d&c rather than wait. I think that helped bring a bit of closure rather than sitting waiting for it to happen naturally plus my cycle went back to normal almost straight away which meant we could try again quickly. good luck and I hope things go better next time (and Im sure there will be a next time)
]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 11:37:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48919&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48919 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48917&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48917 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:35am

Aw Mel! I'm so sorry!
It's great that your specialist is so helpful
Make sure hubby gives you lots of hugs and good luck for the next few months.]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 11:35:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48917&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48917 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48915&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48915 Author: mellybelly
Subject: 2624
Posted: 27 May 2006 at 11:30am

Hi,

I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but felt i should tell what has happened.

I went to the specialist yesterday for a follow up & scan, as two weeks ago (i would have been 7 weeks then) we didn't see a lot on the ultra sound. since then i've had blood tests for HCG levels and the results are not good and an Ultrasound confirmed it. The pregnancy has not taken, we have a pregnancy sac but nothing is growing in there, we were at 9 weeks.
I am going in on Wednesday for surgery to have it removed, rather than wait for it to miscarry in its own time.

My Husband and I are dealing with this, by staying positive as we now know we can get pregnant as it took nearly 2 years to get to here. The specialist has been great, saying she'll give us 3 months on our own, before looking into other options, which at this stage would be Clomid or similar.

I want to thank you all for your support and advice to date, and i won't become a stranger to the site, i'll still pop in and check on how everyone is doing.

Mel

Edited by mellybelly]]> Sat, 27 May 2006 11:30:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=2624&PID=48915&title=not-good-news-im-afraid#48915