https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Fri, 08 May 2026 06:34:51 +0000 Wed, 27 May 2009 21:36:45 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=26654 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=696286&title=sitting-on-the-fence#696286 Author: Tara29
Subject: 26654
Posted: 27 May 2009 at 9:36pm

I am soo glad lots of people feel exactly the same way I do!
Here I was expecting that everyone on here would have no doubts and be 'full steam ahead' so to speak...
Ill have a day where Im all clucky etc then the next Im thinking ooh an overseas trip would be nice in 6 months.... Im all over the place. ]]> Wed, 27 May 2009 21:36:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=696286&title=sitting-on-the-fence#696286 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=693956&title=sitting-on-the-fence#693956 Author: Nutella
Subject: 26654
Posted: 25 May 2009 at 12:33am

Can't say I felt that way but then we tried for 18 months before even gettting pregnant so were more than ready.]]> Mon, 25 May 2009 00:33:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=693956&title=sitting-on-the-fence#693956 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=692373&title=sitting-on-the-fence#692373 Author: Turtle
Subject: 26654
Posted: 22 May 2009 at 1:02pm

I am sure everyone has little doubts while they are starting to plan or think about a family.
I have been looking forward to TTC for ages, and now that is just about here I keep on thinking of things that DH and I normally do that we won't be doing once we have a family. But, the joy and the excitement of our own little person will far out weigh anything we might be missing from our previous lives.]]> Fri, 22 May 2009 13:02:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=692373&title=sitting-on-the-fence#692373 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691747&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691747 Author: sweetpea
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 3:50pm

littlesal, i still feel the same way. A few things have happened since then namely i hurt my knee which isn't 100% yet and may never be and i have a predesopsition to hurting my joints i have ligamne laxity. I wonder if this is making me feel the way i do.]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 15:50:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691747&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691747 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691743&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691743 Author: didi99
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 3:40pm

I am definately with you on this sweetpea, I keep thinking am I doing the right thing, are we really ready for this. It's such a life changing decison though I think it's normal to second guess yourself.
]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 15:40:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691743&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691743 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691708&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691708 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 3:08pm

Actually I've just realised that you responded to that thread Maybe reading back over what you wrote will help!]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 15:08:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691708&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691708 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691707&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691707 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 3:05pm

For the second time today I am with you 100% sweetpea
It's a HUGE decision and one I'm not taking lightly. I started this thread awhile ago that might give you some insight into how others feel about it.....

Thread]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 15:05:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691707&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691707 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691649&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691649 Author: TingTing
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 2:12pm

I'm with you sweatpea - I have feeling like that all the time it has really only been this year that I have had more times of wanting a baby than not so I guess that's a good sign.]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 14:12:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691649&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691649 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691637&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691637 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 1:58pm

All I can say is yes its normal, I've been going through this for a the past year since Dh and I got married. Its only since last Christmas that I've had no doubts at all and finally accepted that yes I want a baby and now is the time to go for it.

It probably doesn't help that I'm a planner and babies are very difficult to plan for as you don't necessarily conceive when you want to, and once you are preggers they'll arrive when it suits them to. I think its a way of planning for mother hood with all its uncertainties and challenges]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 13:58:11 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691637&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691637 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691628&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691628 Author: sweetpea
Subject: 26654
Posted: 21 May 2009 at 1:47pm

At times i feel like i'm doing this one month i want a bub the next i don't does anyone else feel like this? is it normal?

Why isn't it as clear cut as other things.]]> Thu, 21 May 2009 13:47:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=26654&PID=691628&title=sitting-on-the-fence#691628