https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 12:44:37 +0000 Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:29:51 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=27263 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=716425&title=dh-bedtime#716425 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 27263
Posted: 05 July 2009 at 8:29pm

Cor'......We must be made of Super Beans us woman...What is this thing with men?



And YES it so drives me crazy crazy (well more than normal) when he starts snoring so loud and I wake him and he says Im awake..ahh no you were snoring so loud we couldnt hear the tv..then off again! MAN!]]> Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:29:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=716425&title=dh-bedtime#716425 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715996&title=dh-bedtime#715996 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 10:39pm

Yep I get annoyed when Dh comes home and falls asleep, and I still have to give caden his dinner, then bath him and get him ready for bed, then get our dinner ready etc.
Im totally shattered by the time I finally sit down!

He doesnt do it every night, but I do get angry when he falls asleep at 6pm! ]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 22:39:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715996&title=dh-bedtime#715996 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715980&title=dh-bedtime#715980 Author: Chickaboo
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 9:37pm

does anyone get a bit angry about them fallling asleep so early though??

I hate it when Dh comes home and i have been so tired (since being pregnant) and lays on the beanbag or couch and falls asleep while I still have dinner etc.. to make... I guess I resent that I can't just have a snooze (and I do work 3 days a week as well)

But normally i am in bed way before DH since being pregnant - we were both night owls so understand if he comes to bed later on.

LOL Bizzy - i use to do that little bit more work before going to bed when my ex did for the same reason.]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 21:37:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715980&title=dh-bedtime#715980 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715927&title=dh-bedtime#715927 Author: yummymummy
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 8:14pm

I can't stand anyone sleeping on the couch or anywhere and will wake them up over and over and nag nag nag until they go to bed!
Thank goodness my DH doesn't do it but my dad does and it use to drive me up the wall - back when I lived with mum & dad that is ]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 20:14:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715927&title=dh-bedtime#715927 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715918&title=dh-bedtime#715918 Author: Candkids
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 8:07pm

LOL i also thought this was going to be about dh not helping put the kids to bed LOL

dh sleeps on the couch all the time
couch, lounge floor, lazyboy . . . i just turn everything off and go to bed & he'll come in sometime during the night ]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 20:07:13 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715918&title=dh-bedtime#715918 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715900&title=dh-bedtime#715900 Author: MrsH23
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 7:43pm

I'm pretty lucky, my DH is normally in bed before me, during the week it's about 9.30pm at the latest (usually 8.30pm tho ) and the weekends we normally go to bed at the same time. It's only if he's started work around 4am that he falls asleep on the couch lol. I must be a lucky one in that my DH doesn't snore either.]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:43:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715900&title=dh-bedtime#715900 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715885&title=dh-bedtime#715885 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 27263
Posted: 04 July 2009 at 7:14pm

Aliasmum wrote: here I thought your post was going to be a gripe about DH putting the kids to bed or what ever like that & I was going to make some smart remark about DH falling asleep. I think the best one is when they start snoring & you wake them & say they were asleep & they say No I wasn't & you say ummm you were snoring go to bed & they say I'm not tired & promptly fall asleep again..hmmmm So In answer to your question...yes very common! My DH is a builder who starts early so he's had a long day by the time he falls asleep around 8.30pm. I think if I got up at the same time as him I'd be falling asleep too?

This is exactly the conversation I have with my DH when I say "You fell asleep"!! it dirves me mental!

He is asleep on the couch right now grrrrr! Saturday night errmm 7.15pm..Caden is in bed and he falls asleep!!! So now i have no one to talk to, and if I try to wake him he will just fall asleep again, but, he will wake up after half an hour or so, and then he wont come to bad until some crazy hour! I bet ya!

Edited by Sheza]]> Sat, 04 Jul 2009 19:14:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=715885&title=dh-bedtime#715885 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=714014&title=dh-bedtime#714014 Author: Babe
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 8:44pm

My DP dozes off all the time n the couch during the week and is in bed by 9.30 but on the weekends no way no how will he come to bed until some ridiculous hour! It really pisses me off at times lol especialy as he says he needs to read til he falls asleep which means atm since my sleep is disturbed he wakes me up!! Grrrr...]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:44:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=714014&title=dh-bedtime#714014 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713816&title=dh-bedtime#713816 Author: _Deb_
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 4:57pm

Haha yes my partner is the same. It's so annoying. I'm always telling him he better not wake me up! It's like hello just go to bed before you fall asleep. Not exactly difficult.]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:57:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713816&title=dh-bedtime#713816 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713810&title=dh-bedtime#713810 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 4:47pm

here I thought your post was going to be a gripe about DH putting the kids to bed or what ever like that & I was going to make some smart remark about DH falling asleep.

I think the best one is when they start snoring & you wake them & say they were asleep & they say No I wasn't & you say ummm you were snoring go to bed & they say I'm not tired & promptly fall asleep again..hmmmm

So In answer to your question...yes very common!

My DH is a builder who starts early so he's had a long day by the time he falls asleep around 8.30pm. I think if I got up at the same time as him I'd be falling asleep too?]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:47:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713810&title=dh-bedtime#713810 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713728&title=dh-bedtime#713728 Author: fattykat
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 3:01pm

Yip mine falls asleep on the couch every night. It only bugs me because he knows hes going to fall asleep so why not just and hop in bed!!! He works 12 hour days at the mo so can understand why hes so sleepy]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 15:01:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713728&title=dh-bedtime#713728 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713592&title=dh-bedtime#713592 Author: dinkyminky
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 12:35pm

Maybe its a guy thing, my DH doesn't do that yet maybe its still to come in our relationship! lol My Dad has always done that, drives my mum bananas...]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:35:05 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713592&title=dh-bedtime#713592 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713588&title=dh-bedtime#713588 Author: ElfsMum
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 12:31pm

because Dh is a snorer we got into this habit too but lately i just go to bed ten mins first and then he comes in ... why is he so tired?]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:31:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713588&title=dh-bedtime#713588 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713574&title=dh-bedtime#713574 Author: myfullhouse
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 12:10pm

DH falls asleep on the couch most nights but will generally come to bed with me (unless it is the weekend and sport is on) when I wake him up]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:10:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713574&title=dh-bedtime#713574 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713554&title=dh-bedtime#713554 Author: MissAngel
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 11:47am

We havent gone to bed at the same time for hmm... 2 years? He's always on his computer at least 2 or 3 hours after I go to bed.. So annoying.]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:47:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713554&title=dh-bedtime#713554 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713538&title=dh-bedtime#713538 Author: BaAsKa
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 11:06am

my DH struggles his butt off to stay awake with me otherwise i get angry! lol i like us to both go to bed together and he feels the same which is why he struggles so much! lol....he does however sometimes not make it and will quietly doze off to sleep until i realise that iv been talking to myself for an hour! then i wake him and go to bed!]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:06:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713538&title=dh-bedtime#713538 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713533&title=dh-bedtime#713533 Author: BerryBliss
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 11:02am

Mine does it as well pretty much everynight and then comes to bed in the early hours. He does stay up till midnight watching TV or playing on his PS3.
Got to admit i don't really mind as he snores big time.]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:02:30 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713533&title=dh-bedtime#713533 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713477&title=dh-bedtime#713477 Author: mamanee
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 10:06am

Mine does, although he's only here on the weekends, he falls asleep on the couch and snores his head off.   I turn everything off on my way to bed, and usually he will come to bed, but I boot him out 10 minutes later because he goes to sleep instantly and snores like a train!   Being pregnant, it's hard for me to settle and I have to get up to Sam at ungodly hours of the morning so it's the couch for him.    I feel mean, but I need sleep!]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:06:58 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713477&title=dh-bedtime#713477 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713460&title=dh-bedtime#713460 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 9:48am

lol bizzy
]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:48:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713460&title=dh-bedtime#713460 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713417&title=dh-bedtime#713417 Author: kebakat
Subject: 27263
Posted: 01 July 2009 at 8:43am

Mine does, he falls asleep on the couch in the spare room reading pretty much every night. Oh well]]> Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:43:54 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713417&title=dh-bedtime#713417 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713356&title=dh-bedtime#713356 Author: HoneybunsMa
Subject: 27263
Posted: 30 June 2009 at 10:40pm

Mine doesnt fall asleep on the couch he is just up till who knows when as he works nights. Fine by me but lately I am the one up till stupid oclcok as I can't sleep and he goes to sleep and is snoring away before I am anywhere near settled for the night]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:40:29 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713356&title=dh-bedtime#713356 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713343&title=dh-bedtime#713343 Author: Bizzy
Subject: 27263
Posted: 30 June 2009 at 10:21pm

i used to do fall asleep on the couch as a way of avoiding going to bed and having sex with my ex... not that i think thats what your husband is doing... ]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:21:27 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713343&title=dh-bedtime#713343 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713334&title=dh-bedtime#713334 Author: hannibal
Subject: 27263
Posted: 30 June 2009 at 10:09pm

Hi, I try and have us go to bed at the same time! bubs who is 8.5 months is still in our room (mainly cause we live in a cold villa) so I'm trying to avoid her waking up twice! He knows that hes in charge if he wakes her up - yeah right. Some nights its a battle and he bitches i'm not tired ... but funny enough hes out for the count way way before me! If I do go to bed early and he goes to sleep in lounge I can a little annoyed as I'm wide awake by the time I turn heaters off, tv, lights, fed cats, get him up - he also says hes going .... Have to say though I did enjoy the bed to myself last night he camped out on the couch!]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2009 22:09:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713334&title=dh-bedtime#713334 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713324&title=dh-bedtime#713324 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 27263
Posted: 30 June 2009 at 9:57pm

My DH is pretty much the same!!

But, he will fall asleep on the couch, and then will wake up an hour or so later and be WIDE awake and come to bed at some crazy hour!

But he also has tinnitus in his ears(extreme ringing) so he wont come to bed until he is dead tired or he cant sleep because the ringing is all he can hear, even over his own breathing ]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:57:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713324&title=dh-bedtime#713324 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713323&title=dh-bedtime#713323 Author: Kelpa
Subject: 27263
Posted: 30 June 2009 at 9:54pm

Does anyone else's other half just NOT go to bed at night?

Mine will fall asleep on the couch....every night...as early as 8 sometimes, even if we have guests! I try and wake him and he says "Yes I am going"...then falls asleep again...then I try once more and he says "Yes Im going now"....Then falls asleep again....I just leave him there after that. He then clambers in at some ungodly hour and wakes me...It is frustrating.

I am starting to get a complex...I shower everyday!!!!

Is this at all common???

]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:54:28 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=27263&PID=713323&title=dh-bedtime#713323