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OHbaby! Forums : How would you tell someone.. https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Wed, 06 May 2026 20:51:25 +0000 Tue, 18 Aug 2009 11:24:43 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=28158 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Yeah like others have said, that's...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750359&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750359 Author: pepsi
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Posted: 18 August 2009 at 11:24am

Yeah like others have said, that's strange to me for someone not to be able to be honest with their DP/DH..

No smint, no kiss.

No shower, no action!]]> Tue, 18 Aug 2009 11:24:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750359&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750359 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Shower in a can classic lol I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750352&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750352 Author: xLUCKYx
Subject: 28158
Posted: 18 August 2009 at 11:18am

Shower in a can classic lol

I wouldnt know what to say to a friend (apart from BFF) or to a colleague but to my DP would be easy - I can say anything to him :)

Hope your friend musters up the guts to say something soon - ew!]]> Tue, 18 Aug 2009 11:18:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750352&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750352 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Jezsika that reminds me of college...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750213&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750213 Author: ISpyCharlie
Subject: 28158
Posted: 18 August 2009 at 9:12am

Jezsika that reminds me of college people using deoderant like it's a shower

Yeah, when your with someone, you have to be honest if you want the relationship to work, because having a shower together will only fix the problem for a night. It's the way you say it that matters, and letting them know its a two-way thing!

]]> Tue, 18 Aug 2009 09:12:56 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750213&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750213 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : I was going to say that maybe...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750110&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750110 Author: AandCsmum
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 11:45pm

I was going to say that maybe the bad breath is a sign of something a little off in his tum until I read further....

But yeah after 13+ years of being together brings out the bluntness

]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 23:45:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750110&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750110 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Me and DH are honest with each...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750105&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750105 Author: Shezamumof3
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 11:11pm

Me and DH are honest with each other, so if I think he smells bad or something lol, I tell him lol, and he would tell me as well if he thought I smelt lol....though I shower everyday so I know i dont smell bad LOL
]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 23:11:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750105&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750105 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Yep sorry, I agree, if you can't...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750102&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750102 Author: kiwisj
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 11:02pm

Yep sorry, I agree, if you can't tell your DH he stinks who CAN you tell?

Ewwwwwwwwww the thought of stinky boy and bad breath makes me feel

right now. I always tell my DH if he smells funny

And he doesn't hesitate to tell me the same. Guess it's pretty important here when it's so darn hot all the time!]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 23:02:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750102&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750102 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Jezsika wrote:Oh ewwwww That...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750093&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750093 Author: KiwiL
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 10:48pm

Jezsika wrote:

Oh ewwwww

That was my exact reaction!!! To be honest, they're married, so she should just be brave enough to say something. No point beating around the, ahem, bush on this one!]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 22:48:47 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750093&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750093 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : def a shower works!!! when DH...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750089&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750089 Author: Bombshell
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 10:44pm

def a shower works!!!

when DH has tonsilittis i tell him straight out "honey your breathe stinks" or "omg you have bad breath tonight" - he cant help that one but knows that I am concious of it...so no full on nooky nooky then!

we do have one person involved with work that has awful BO - like I wanna spew when they come in....i could not tell them (i dont know them well enough) but she learnt it when someone independent had to write about issues and they raised this about this person...and person took offence...no idea what it was about them tho as they always looked liek just got outta shower....but BO was BAD....]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 22:44:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750089&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750089 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Gosh if you cant tell your partner...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750028&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750028 Author: mummyofprinces
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 9:26pm

Gosh if you cant tell your partner they stink then who can you tell!

I have no probs telling DH he smells.. likewise he has told me I have not smelt so good on a few ocassions (who does after a run sheesh!).

I cant think of any advice, I just cant imagine not being able to be completely open and honest with my man.

side note, there is no way DH would be getting a bj if he was smelly ewwwww.]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 21:26:24 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750028&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750028 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Wow I am susprised that people...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750020&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750020 Author: peachy
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 9:18pm

Wow I am susprised that people are not straight up about things like that, especially with your DH/DW. I think my DH would hate me if I thought he smelt bad and didn't let him know lol!!!

My DH has no chance of even getting in the bed smelling bad, let alone getting a kiss or a BD from me!

Sorry I don't have any advice really, like someone suggested already maybe buy him some really nice shower gel etc and he might get the "hint" lol]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 21:18:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=750020&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#750020 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Maybe she should book him in with...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749822&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749822 Author: Red
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 7:01pm

Maybe she should book him in with a dentist if his breath is really dodgey!]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 19:01:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749822&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749822 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : A sexy shower for two can work...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749747&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749747 Author: FreeSpirit
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:40pm

A sexy shower for two can work wonders, or even a "why don't you go jump in the shower and we'll se what happens"]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:40:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749747&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749747 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : lmao jazzy, that sounds classic...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749741&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749741 Author: kebakat
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:31pm

lmao jazzy, that sounds classic]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:31:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749741&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749741 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : I tell my DP all the time if he...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749740&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749740 Author: HoneybunsMa
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:31pm

I tell my DP all the time if he smells, I'll just say babe you need to have a shower or something along those lines. He will say the same to me as well. We are pretty blunt with each other (8yrs does that) and will tell eachother if we need to poop lol but then thats just us.]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:31:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749740&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749740 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Me I would just say you stink,...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749732&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749732 Author: jazzy
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:20pm

Me I would just say you stink, ha ha, but then I am straight up with DH,

She needs a plan, get new toothbrushes for them both, toothpaste, mouthwash & tell him she read something about gum disease so they are going to prevent it. Also get new soap, body wash & get him a new deodorant, she cold say it turns her on

If she makes out she is spoiling him then she may get a nice smelling DH, but if he is a bit dense she may have to tell him, or wear a gas mask.

]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:20:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749732&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749732 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : hahaha, its one of those subjects...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749723&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749723 Author: kebakat
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:16pm

hahaha, its one of those subjects that is funny bu t at the same time its really not. I feel bad for her and its a touchy subject cause I don't think anyone likes being told they stink ]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:16:26 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749723&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749723 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Sorry I just giggled too. Seriously...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749720&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749720 Author: Bobbie
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:14pm

Sorry I just giggled too. Seriously though I know it's not her style but it's her husband so she needs to be straight up about it.

Best I can suggest is to set some time aside where they won't be interrupted to talk and when they're talking for her to focus on how it makes her feel etc. rather than using language that blames him.

Still if it were me I'd be kicking him out of the bed until he literally cleans up his act

]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:14:41 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749720&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749720 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : lol thats the kinda thing I'd...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749710&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749710 Author: kebakat
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:09pm

lol thats the kinda thing I'd say too. I couldn't help giggle and me like yuck when she said he wanted a bj the other night but she didn't wanna give it cause down there smelt bad ]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:09:36 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749710&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749710 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : Ha! Oh my, I don't have any...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749708&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749708 Author: SBM
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:08pm

Ha! Oh my, I don't have any useful advice, I'd just tell him to clean himself up or he aint getting any!!

]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:08:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749708&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749708 <![CDATA[How would you tell someone.. : ... that they smell bad, like...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749704&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749704 Author: kebakat
Subject: 28158
Posted: 17 August 2009 at 5:04pm

... that they smell bad, like bad breath or BO....

Reason for asking is a mate of a mate says her hubby has become a bit lax in this department and she doesn't know how to broach it with him and I'm the straight up type but shes not so just spitting it out isn't her style lol. Poor girl says she dreads kissing him at the moment, I'd tell him to go brush his teeth if he wants a kiss lol]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2009 17:04:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=28158&PID=749704&title=how-would-you-tell-someone#749704