https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:42:16 +0000 Fri, 30 Oct 2009 12:19:22 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=29620 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820658&title=intimate-question#820658 Author: Monie
Subject: 29620
Posted: 30 October 2009 at 12:19pm

minik8e wrote: Congrats on your BFP We had 3 m/c before getting our girls, but still BDed in the first trimester - we just made sure it wasn't too energetic or deep. In saying that, it wasn't a common occurrence because I was on progesterone pessaries so it wasn't exactly appealing LOL and add the nausea to the equation as well...

Minik8e I am on progesterone too. Am supposed to stop them at 12 weeks which was two days ago. When did you stop taking them, and did you just stop cold turkey or half the dose for a week? No one is really 'managing' this for me and I am unsure what to do. You are the first person Iv'e seen on here who used progesterone, any advice is greatly appreciated.

And back to the topic... after one prev mc we have been bd'ing during first trimester although not quite as often as normal. ]]> Fri, 30 Oct 2009 12:19:22 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820658&title=intimate-question#820658 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820477&title=intimate-question#820477 Author: Babe
Subject: 29620
Posted: 30 October 2009 at 8:30am

I had multiple MCs before this BFP and we still BD'd through the first trim. Like Kate said just not too energetic or deep and if it got uncomfortable whichit occasionally did we'd stop. Once MS kicked in Bd'ing took a dive coz I couldn't get into it but TBH I don't know that watching your girlfriend/wife chuck her guts everywhere is such a turn-on anyway ]]> Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:30:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820477&title=intimate-question#820477 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820369&title=intimate-question#820369 Author: minik8e
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 9:52pm

Congrats on your BFP

We had 3 m/c before getting our girls, but still BDed in the first trimester - we just made sure it wasn't too energetic or deep. In saying that, it wasn't a common occurrence because I was on progesterone pessaries so it wasn't exactly appealing LOL and add the nausea to the equation as well...]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 21:52:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820369&title=intimate-question#820369 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820222&title=intimate-question#820222 Author: LouD
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 6:59pm

Lisa - I had an MC then got preg the next cycle. even though there no medical reason for the MC, so BDing was still ok, but i was just sooooo nervous about doing it just in case. but all was fine. we didnt do anything rigorous and not very often.

Funny thing is, when i finally made it past 12 weeks, i jumped my DH only to then a few mins later have sudden loss of movement in my hand which turned out to be a growth on my brain (still no idea wat the growth is but its shrinking)..........so hmmmmmm well BD didnt get a good rap from me even though they would be completely non related.........lol......

but you will be fine..........BD away I say if you have the urge. I havent been as keen this pregnancy, but with my second i was a rabbit and was sick all day yet still jumped my DH at night.......lol]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:59:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=820222&title=intimate-question#820222 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819965&title=intimate-question#819965 Author: Buttersmum
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 2:57pm

Baby Dance (sex)
Don't worry there are still lots of abbreviations I'm learning. ]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:57:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819965&title=intimate-question#819965 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819955&title=intimate-question#819955 Author: MuckyBucky
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 2:53pm

Ummm ... what's BD?]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:53:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819955&title=intimate-question#819955 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819947&title=intimate-question#819947 Author: Buttersmum
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 2:46pm

thanks squoggs.
At this early early stage the only thing I have is really really sore bb's!!   
Seeing Dr next week so will ask all those horrible questions you really don't want to. Luckily my Dr is really cool and doesn't make you feel weird for asking those "funny" questions ]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:46:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819947&title=intimate-question#819947 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819938&title=intimate-question#819938 Author: squoggs
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 2:42pm

Hi Lisa, First of all, CONRATS!!
In the bounty pack your MW should give you there is a booklet on this. They pretty much say it is ok unless there is a risk of MC during the 1st 12-14 weeks - which is probably not particularly helpful to you. I would say listen to your body regarding this, and see your GP asap and ask them. TBH BDing is the last thing i feel like in the 1st trimester - too tired, sick & grumpy - DH luckily understands. ]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:42:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819938&title=intimate-question#819938 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819912&title=intimate-question#819912 Author: Buttersmum
Subject: 29620
Posted: 29 October 2009 at 2:30pm

Hi there
I'm Lisa and have just had my BFP
Question is that Is it ok to BD during 1st trimester pregnancy especially after having a previous mc???

Sorry if this has been asked before or is TMI but just wanted some good honest opinions from you girls.
Don't want to be too mean to my DH lol ]]> Thu, 29 Oct 2009 14:30:12 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=29620&PID=819912&title=intimate-question#819912