https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Thu, 09 Apr 2026 03:12:26 +0000 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:57:53 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=30824 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889351&title=bilingual#889351 Author: kandk
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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:57am

Something to think about Isabel, is that children also learn language by hearing others use it, so sometimes they need to hear conversation in Swedish so they can copy the rhythms and grammar of real conversational language.]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:57:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889351&title=bilingual#889351 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889284&title=bilingual#889284 Author: isabel
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Posted: 08 January 2010 at 9:15am

Thanks guys!yeah the plan is that i will speak my natvie language, swedish and DP english. I was wondering about what we speak when me and DP speaks, so that was great that you explained that one to me!! yeah i got books in swedish and planning on getting tapes and more activity books later. Would be so nice if the kids can talk with their uncles, aunties and grandparents in swedish!
]]> Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:15:35 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889284&title=bilingual#889284 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889144&title=bilingual#889144 Author: High9
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 11:09pm

Jolene they don't get confused, the best time to learn another language is when you are young and before your brain fully develops!

Talking lots is how they'll learn it at first but have you thought about getting stuff like activity books, etc in the languages you want it to speak? And also music and songs are a good way to learn as well... ]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 23:09:43 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889144&title=bilingual#889144 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889108&title=bilingual#889108 Author: M2K
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 10:24pm

hehehe, I also wondered if they would get confused with another lang & english... Mine will hopefully speak Dutch as well, but unfortunately Im not fluent in Spanish otherwise she would be tri lingual.. her father still confuses Dutch & english sometimes ]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:24:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=889108&title=bilingual#889108 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888981&title=bilingual#888981 Author: kandk
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 9:13pm

Haven't done this myself, but I met a not quite 2 year old the other week who is likely to end up tri lingual! His mother speaks Japanese with him, his father speaks German, but as the parents communicate with each other in English he gets that too!]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 21:13:03 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888981&title=bilingual#888981 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888701&title=bilingual#888701 Author: Mamma2N
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:12pm

Hi Isabel,

We have a wee girl (9mths) and my DH is Italian. He tries as much as possible to only speak Italian to her and I speak English. We are also moving back to Italy this year so Italian will be her first language. (I will only speak English to her)

From everything that I have read and all opinions, the general concensus is for each parent to speak their native tongue to the child/ren. They will go through a phase where they mix up the two languages when talking but that sorts itself out very quickly. Many of DHs friends have foreign partners and they have approached ,anguage in this manner and by 5 those children are fluent in each language.
These early years are the best time to learn languages - they seem to soak it up!

I've just had the thought that perhaps you (you and your partner) both speak 2 or more languages. In that case I would probably suggest you both speak each language at different times. ie - English outside the home and whatever language in.

HTH]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:12:57 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888701&title=bilingual#888701 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888693&title=bilingual#888693 Author: kiwisj
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 6:06pm

No experience as a parent as DH and I only speak english, but as a nanny and a teacher I have worked with lots of bilingual kids and their families.

The most common way seems to be each parent speaking their "mother tongue" to their children ALL the time but speaking their common language together. Eg in our friends' situation the father speaks english to the kids, mum speaks spanish. But mum and dad still speak english amongst themselves or when addressing each other when the kids are around (if that makes sense). The kids are more vocal in spanish at the moment, mostly because their mum is a SAHM.

IME the bilingual kids I've taught or nannied have tended to talk a little later but they catch up pretty quickly. It is a huge advantage to hear two languages at home vs trying to pick up the second one later (even if that's only at kindy age).]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:06:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888693&title=bilingual#888693 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888623&title=bilingual#888623 Author: isabel
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Posted: 07 January 2010 at 5:06pm

Hey,just wondering if there is any parents that have experience off raising bilingual kids?planning on doing it for our baby but not sure how to go about it.
thanks!]]> Thu, 07 Jan 2010 17:06:33 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=30824&PID=888623&title=bilingual#888623