OHbaby! Forums : Taking a break https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ Copyright (c) 2006-2013 Web Wiz Forums - All Rights Reserved. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 16:39:38 +0000 Tue, 02 Mar 2010 10:02:48 +0000 http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss Web Wiz Forums 12.05 360 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/RSS_post_feed.asp?TID=31969 <![CDATA[OHbaby! Forums]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_images/web_wiz_forums.png https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/ <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy23 wrote:The reason I have...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954723&title=taking-a-break#954723 Author: jazzy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 10:02am

Originally posted by Oxy23 Oxy23 wrote:

The reason I have not been on here much is because. No ones is talking to me. A part from a few

I sure no who my friends are now. The ones that have stick by me through all of this and not cared if its true or not

And that thread has now been deleted

Let bygones be bygones

And move on from all of this

And lets all just go back to the happy thread we all know and love

When I say im taking a break I mean a few hours away from ohbaby

I know a number of people want me to take a break so they feel better not so I feel better but im not going to cause I was here way before kat_girl was


Oxy I will still chat to you. It is up to you if you chooses to chat to only a few & ignore the rest of us.

Next time you want to take a break, just take one, don't ask for your chart to be removed, or PM someone to pass a message on to us or start a topic about it.
]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 10:02:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954723&title=taking-a-break#954723 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Is it possible to get this thread...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954642&title=taking-a-break#954642 Author: caliandjack
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 9:07am

Is it possible to get this thread locked, as its clearly not going any where and kinda pointless.

]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:07:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954642&title=taking-a-break#954642 <![CDATA[Taking a break : The reason I have not been on...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954630&title=taking-a-break#954630 Author: Oxy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 9:01am

The reason I have not been on here much is because. No ones is talking to me. A part from a few

I sure no who my friends are now. The ones that have stick by me through all of this and not cared if its true or not

And that thread has now been deleted

Let bygones be bygones

And move on from all of this

And lets all just go back to the happy thread we all know and love

When I say im taking a break I mean a few hours away from ohbaby

I know a number of people want me to take a break so they feel better not so I feel better but im not going to cause I was here way before kat_girl was




Edited by Oxy23]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:01:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954630&title=taking-a-break#954630 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Babykatnz i think you said it...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954609&title=taking-a-break#954609 Author: _H_
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 8:38am

Babykatnz i think you said it all.

Im not saying Oxy is kat_girl but i still think you should see someone Oxy- we all know how TTC can get on top of you and that may help you feel better ]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:38:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954609&title=taking-a-break#954609 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Babykatnz said it well & spot...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954581&title=taking-a-break#954581 Author: jazzy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 8:15am

Babykatnz said it well & spot on.

Oxy you were the one that brought kat to us, we made the connection from you, not a guess. We would never of know it was you or cared. You used her to get at us.

I could write a list of the things that are the same.
No one is telling you to leave, you do that all the time.

Pity kat deleted a lot of her posts as the information she provided was the same as yours.

If you want this to go away then let it go. I know you will never apologise or own up. You are angry at us, how do you think we feel.

As for the ISP addresses, it can easily changed if you know IT, but in this case I think they would find it the same.
]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 08:15:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954581&title=taking-a-break#954581 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Kandice wrote:I can understand...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954565&title=taking-a-break#954565 Author: jazzy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:52am

Originally posted by Kandice Kandice wrote:

I can understand why she would get her back up, if she is not Kat_Girl.

Can you imagine being accused of being someone who lied about being pregnant and got a picture of the net?

I mean can you really prove it? Innocent until proven guilty. However, I very much doubt anyone will own up.


There is more to it than that & if you were in charting everyday & read every post you would understand]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:52:50 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954565&title=taking-a-break#954565 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Hopes wrote: I&#039;m sure...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954561&title=taking-a-break#954561 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:50am

Originally posted by Hopes Hopes wrote:


I'm sure the mods will look into this - with ISP addresses and everything, they have a lot more info available to them.


Exactly, then you can jump up and down.

But what if its not her? What if you have just accused someone, and told her that she needs help, simply because she is on OhBaby alot and went quiet.

Yeah be my guest to jump on Kat_Girl i mean she was outright busted.

ETA: My quote thingy

Edited by Kandice]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:50:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954561&title=taking-a-break#954561 <![CDATA[Taking a break : There&#039;s a little more history...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954560&title=taking-a-break#954560 Author: minik8e
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:49am

There's a little more history to it Kandice, and it's a combination of many things that has lead people to that conclusion.

But I completely understand what you're saying, and in some respects agree. I think, if you believe it's Oxy etc. than just ignore her in future, instead of jumping on her.

Then again, if you say you're going to have a break, then have a break, instead of changing your mind a couple of hours later. And if you're serious about TTCing, then you would go to the doctor to get checked out when it doesn't happen for over a year...]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:49:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954560&title=taking-a-break#954560 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I think Kandice does have a fair...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954558&title=taking-a-break#954558 Author: Hopes
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:48am

I think Kandice does have a fair point. Even if we do make assumptions (and yes, we do), we're not a judge and jury.

I'm sure the mods will look into this - with ISP addresses and everything, they have a lot more info available to them.]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:48:08 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954558&title=taking-a-break#954558 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Yes so Kat_Girl disappeared. That...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954555&title=taking-a-break#954555 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:44am

Yes so Kat_Girl disappeared. That does not say it is Oxy, and ok, she spends all day on Ohbaby. That also does not prove it is her.

I think you should leave her alone until you have proper proof. I mean how would you feel if we were jumping on you?

If there is something i have missed, other than the other thread, the fact shes online all day, and that she was quiet yesterday. Let me know. But from where i am standing, that is not enough. Yeah it is very coincidental but at the moment that is all i can see.

Just my opinion guys.

OhBaby is a supportive place, are we being supportive? No, we are jumping to conclusions that Oxy is Kat_Girl and treating her like a criminal. ]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:44:59 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954555&title=taking-a-break#954555 <![CDATA[Taking a break : So how come Kat_Girl&#039;s posts...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954550&title=taking-a-break#954550 Author: MaeBeeBaby
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:36am

So how come Kat_Girl's posts disappeared - that is proof in itself that is is a fake persona, no matter who the culprit is.

And Oxy is on OB every day ALL day, she posts about every 5-10 mins - she was very quiet yesterday - that is typical behaviour of a guilty party IMO - I have seen it all before.]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:36:02 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954550&title=taking-a-break#954550 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I can understand why she would...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954549&title=taking-a-break#954549 Author: MissCandice
Subject: 31969
Posted: 02 March 2010 at 7:32am

I can understand why she would get her back up, if she is not Kat_Girl.

Can you imagine being accused of being someone who lied about being pregnant and got a picture of the net?

I mean can you really prove it? Innocent until proven guilty. However, I very much doubt anyone will own up. ]]> Tue, 02 Mar 2010 07:32:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954549&title=taking-a-break#954549 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy, noones pushing you out of...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954512&title=taking-a-break#954512 Author: Babykatnz
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:49pm

Oxy, noones pushing you out of here, YOU are the one who keeps saying you are going to take a break but comes back before the day is out saying you have changed your mind... this business with kat_girl just sealed peoples opinions either way. If you are being honest, and kat_girl really isnt someone you have created, then there really is no need for you to get your back up about it.

Most people come on here to get advice/support from people who know what they are going through either from being there before, or currently in the same place too, but every time anyone offers you advice, you refuse it, or ignore it, or more or less tell people to butt out... yet you are the one saying those problems are getting you down...

I guess what I am saying is, some of us just dont understand what is going on with you, and think you could benefit from getting some professional help, be it someone to talk to, or a doctor to see whats going on that could be preventing a baby coming... but I think you should talk to someone professionally before taking any more steps TTC... you seem to constantly be down about anything and everything, and thats not a good mindset to be in when you bring a new baby into the world.

Whether you agree or not, whether you appreciate, or even take any notice of what I say or not... at the end of the day, its up to YOU to do something about how you are feeling... but if it were me... I'd start by taking some of the advice of the ladies on here who really do mean well....]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:49:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954512&title=taking-a-break#954512 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I am angry with alot of people...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954279&title=taking-a-break#954279 Author: Oxy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 7:59pm

I am angry with alot of people on here. I will not be going anywhere I have just as much right as any of you to be on here

I cant win can I you all you still think im you know who So we sound a like a lot of people sound the same doesn't mean I am that person

I have been on ohbaby a long time. So dont you ever think you cant push me out   

I shouldn't have to explain myself

I have made some good friend and some not so good friends

At least I still have some friends I can turn to ]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 19:59:00 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954279&title=taking-a-break#954279 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy... its your choice doll ......]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954077&title=taking-a-break#954077 Author: Shezzey
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:39pm

Oxy...  its your choice doll ... if you want to come back to OB, you can.... i will be there for you.... see you in the charting thread

]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:39:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954077&title=taking-a-break#954077 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I think quite a few ladies on...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954071&title=taking-a-break#954071 Author: Hopes
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:33pm

I think quite a few ladies on here would appreciate some honesty from you, hun. We all make mistakes, people are usually happy to forgive and forget if you're happy to man up to the issues (or should that be woman up )

Whether you take a break or not, do take the time to look after yourself. It's sometimes a really good idea to talk to someone about any issues you're struggling with, and sometimes the best person to talk to is someone trained in that kind of thing.

It sounds like you're going through a tough time - surely a little extra help couldn't go astray?]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:33:19 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954071&title=taking-a-break#954071 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy I genuinely hope you are okay...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954066&title=taking-a-break#954066 Author: MaeBeeBaby
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:30pm

Oxy I genuinely hope you are okay but I do think you need to get away from the computer hun, and find the happy Oxy we all know you can be. ]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:30:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954066&title=taking-a-break#954066 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I don&#039;t know what was said...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954048&title=taking-a-break#954048 Author: Red
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:20pm

I don't know what was said originally - but all the best Oxy, it sounds like it has been a long road for you so far. Good luck with your decision, TTC can be very stressful especially when it is taking a bit longer than anticipated.]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:20:52 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954048&title=taking-a-break#954048 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy - I too would find it hard...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954041&title=taking-a-break#954041 Author: freckle
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:14pm

Oxy - I too would find it hard to forget but had you made an effort to say sorry and maybe explain yourself I would've forgiven... ignoring something doesn't make it go away...

Edited by freckle]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:14:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954041&title=taking-a-break#954041 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Oxy you need a break. This is...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954029&title=taking-a-break#954029 Author: jazzy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 5:08pm

Oxy you need a break. This is the second time in a week you have said you are having a break & stomped off.

You need a hobby or a group you can go to instead of being stuck at home day in day out.

We have all been very supportive of you & I am one of those who will not forget quickly.]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:08:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=954029&title=taking-a-break#954029 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I think you really should take...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953943&title=taking-a-break#953943 Author: GuestGuest
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 4:18pm

I think you really should take a break Oxy. It's clear that you need one and I think a few of us aren't going to find it easy to forgive and forget IYKWIM. ]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 16:18:32 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953943&title=taking-a-break#953943 <![CDATA[Taking a break : Im not going to take a break I...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953832&title=taking-a-break#953832 Author: Oxy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 3:17pm

Im not going to take a break I change my mind

]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:17:55 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953832&title=taking-a-break#953832 <![CDATA[Taking a break : I will pm you shezzey Edited by...]]> https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953377&title=taking-a-break#953377 Author: Oxy
Subject: 31969
Posted: 01 March 2010 at 10:13am

I will pm you shezzey

Edited by Oxy23]]> Mon, 01 Mar 2010 10:13:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=31969&PID=953377&title=taking-a-break#953377