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Subject: 3440
Posted: 15 August 2006 at 8:12pm

thank you guys for all your kind words the funarl is on thursday ]]> Tue, 15 Aug 2006 20:12:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66310&title=my-sad-day#66310 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66114&title=my-sad-day#66114 Author: Guests
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Posted: 15 August 2006 at 9:29am

Im so sorry to hear Lu big from me and Ella to you and James ]]> Tue, 15 Aug 2006 09:29:46 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66114&title=my-sad-day#66114 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66110&title=my-sad-day#66110 Author: Roksana
Subject: 3440
Posted: 15 August 2006 at 9:23am

I lost my grandad to cancer years ago but he died really quickly and was not in too much pain...so I was glad about that, but it did not make me feel any better....I was very close to him! After that day I refuse to go to Funerals.....the next one I went to was Atish's Brother's and Father's....and that was because he needed me there.

I will be thinking of you Lu....]]> Tue, 15 Aug 2006 09:23:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66110&title=my-sad-day#66110 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66040&title=my-sad-day#66040 Author: james
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 6:17pm

no worry nikiii did most of my crying yesterday i forgot to say i,m so sorry to hear of your grandads passing and its ok not to feel sad everyone handle death in there own way ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 18:17:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66040&title=my-sad-day#66040 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66034&title=my-sad-day#66034 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 5:36pm

haha and just a funny story about the passage I read. My gran is quite conservative and didn't want me to read out the bit that says "And a time for kissing, and a time for not kissing"... which was fine, but then she left in "A time for making love, and a time for not making love" ?!?!?

Well, I suppose 'making love' doesn't have to mean sex, but you'd have thought she'd be more prudish about the connotations that go with that than kissing! hehe]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 17:36:37 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66034&title=my-sad-day#66034 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66032&title=my-sad-day#66032 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 5:34pm

Roksana, I don't think I posted about it much. Just to the Wellington girls as I couldn't make coffee group.
I'm an unemotional freak and don't get sad about these things! I don't know what it is. I'm a little worried that some day everything that has happened in my life will hit me and I'll snap good and proper
The funeral was good tho. Was really lovely to have little Hannah there chatting away through the service as it made it much more light hearted. I can imagine James and Hemi will be the same! Makes it a whole lot easier for the family to deal with when they can see the young ones having fun.

I read a passage from the bible at the service. Ecclesiastes 3:1-13... standard funeral stuff. Was a bit ironic reading from the bible at my grandad's funeral, the man who avoided church at all costs! haha But it was nice too. It's a lovely passage.

The other day Gran sent me a package, she'd found a poem I wrote for Grandad when I was about 13. It was really nice to get that and think about him then, when he was healthy and happy.

Sorry for hijacking thread Lu... I guess I just wanted to show that it doesn't have to be a really sad occassion. That there are going to be happy times and sharing within the family. Make the most of spending time with everyone. ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 17:34:42 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=66032&title=my-sad-day#66032 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65904&title=my-sad-day#65904 Author: Maya
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 1:41pm

We lost my aunty to cancer in 2004, it was the same thing - we were all relieved that her pain was over, but didn't make the loss any easier.]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 13:41:44 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65904&title=my-sad-day#65904 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65875&title=my-sad-day#65875 Author: james
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 12:29pm

thanks guy you are so nice my brother is coming down from ackland today and mum and dad have cone and got my sister from chch so it will all hit again when they get here i did have a ggod sleep last night emma it relly was a blessing my gran was in a lot of pain before she died ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 12:29:51 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65875&title=my-sad-day#65875 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65869&title=my-sad-day#65869 Author: Roksana
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 12:08pm

Oh Lu....BIG ....Dont know what to say...but take care!! I hate when things like this happen.....

Hugs to you too Nikki ...you never told us...or did you? **mummy brain** ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 12:08:34 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65869&title=my-sad-day#65869 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65866&title=my-sad-day#65866 Author: Paws
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 12:05pm

I'm so sorry for you loss...sending you big hugs ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 12:05:53 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65866&title=my-sad-day#65866 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65850&title=my-sad-day#65850 Author: Maya
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 11:32am

Big hugs Lu. Hope you managed to get some rest last night and are feeling a little better today. Thinking of you and James.]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 11:32:09 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65850&title=my-sad-day#65850 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65847&title=my-sad-day#65847 Author: mrs frantic
Subject: 3440
Posted: 14 August 2006 at 11:29am

Sorry for your loss Lu... ]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2006 11:29:45 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65847&title=my-sad-day#65847 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65658&title=my-sad-day#65658 Author: jack_&_charli
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 5:44pm

big hugs lu and nikki

i know it's hard now, but try to take comfort in knowing their suffering is over and they will always be near you]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 17:44:10 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65658&title=my-sad-day#65658 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65634&title=my-sad-day#65634 Author: AlyAyde
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 4:01pm

Lu and Nikki sorry to hear of the passing of your GP. ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 16:01:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65634&title=my-sad-day#65634 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65630&title=my-sad-day#65630 Author: james
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 3:23pm

thank you guys feel like i have been crying all day and now feel all yucky and tried might go have a sleep ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 15:23:15 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65630&title=my-sad-day#65630 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65615&title=my-sad-day#65615 Author: nikkitheknitter
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 2:04pm

Hey Lu, my grandad died a week ago (or maybe two now). I just trusted that he was in a better place and now not suffering. (He'd been sick for quite a while too).

So be strong and remember that she is now free from her illness and make the most of those memories ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 14:04:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65615&title=my-sad-day#65615 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65609&title=my-sad-day#65609 Author: EthansMummy
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 1:32pm

Big hugs Thinking of you]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 13:32:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65609&title=my-sad-day#65609 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65606&title=my-sad-day#65606 Author: my2angels
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 1:00pm

big hugs]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 13:00:20 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65606&title=my-sad-day#65606 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65602&title=my-sad-day#65602 Author: lizzle
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 12:51pm

Oh Lu - thats really hard! I hoipe James is an extra god bubba for you during this tough time. Hugs to you and sis!]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 12:51:40 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65602&title=my-sad-day#65602 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65597&title=my-sad-day#65597 Author: aimeejoy
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 12:41pm

Big hugs Lu. Thinking of you. Take care...]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 12:41:18 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65597&title=my-sad-day#65597 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65591&title=my-sad-day#65591 Author: mum2emj
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 12:08pm

take care. really sorry to hear about your grans passing... its wont be an easy time for you, but take strenght and comfort knowing she is at peace, and treasure every moment you had.... good and bad.   cry as little or as much as you need.
your gran will forever be in your heart.

i lost my grandma last july, and was with her as she passed away, it seemed so surreal that she was gone... and even today i expect her to laugh or smile or tell me off for something little, then i ache a bit knowing that she wont. she is forever around me. i love her so much. and i do still cry for her, and again ache at her last few months of suffering....

SO im sending you BIG BIG HUGS.... ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 12:08:21 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65591&title=my-sad-day#65591 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65587&title=my-sad-day#65587 Author: james
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 11:56am

thanks guys ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 11:56:14 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65587&title=my-sad-day#65587 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65586&title=my-sad-day#65586 Author: daikini
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Posted: 13 August 2006 at 11:54am

Big hugs, Lu. We're here for you.]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 11:54:31 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65586&title=my-sad-day#65586 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65577&title=my-sad-day#65577 Author: newmum
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 11:05am

Hugs Lu, sending you strength and love at this hard time ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 11:05:23 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65577&title=my-sad-day#65577 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65572&title=my-sad-day#65572 Author: james
Subject: 3440
Posted: 13 August 2006 at 10:45am

my gran has been ill for a long time and was well lack of a better word dying well she passed away last night at 8.30 am so sad but trying to be strong rip gran i will love you forever and you are in my hart ]]> Sun, 13 Aug 2006 10:45:48 +0000 https://www.ohbaby.co.nz/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=3440&PID=65572&title=my-sad-day#65572